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by _angsty
Thu Oct 09, 2014 7:40 pm
Forum: Terrestrial Forum
Topic: Another victim of Mormonism: The fairytale wedding
Replies: 58
Views: 3965

Re: Another victim of Mormonism: The fairytale wedding

I'm wondering if there might be a different, less restrictive attitude with Canadian Mormons than with American Mormons. Might be. When we were planning to get married, we were advised that the ring ceremony should be modest so as not to overshadow the sealing, which was the "real wedding,&quo...
by _angsty
Thu Oct 09, 2014 7:21 pm
Forum: Terrestrial Forum
Topic: Facebook campaign "I'm a Mormon"
Replies: 16
Views: 1590

Re: Facebook campaign "I'm a Mormon"

I'm chuckling, because all of the Mormons I know who have dutifully answered Bednar's call are people who have always been "out and proud" about their church membership. They were already inviting everyone to listen to conference online before Bednar even got to the pulpit. They're not tel...
by _angsty
Sat Mar 01, 2014 6:28 pm
Forum: Terrestrial Forum
Topic: DCP Weighs in on LDS "Rape Culture"
Replies: 109
Views: 14941

Re: DCP Weighs in on LDS "Rape Culture"

You have completely and totally missed the point illustrated by the analogy. The point of the analogy is that feminism has a complicated web of ideas that justifies claims a layman might not understand. People who fail to grasp them do so because they lack the necessary educational background to do...
by _angsty
Sat Mar 01, 2014 4:07 pm
Forum: Terrestrial Forum
Topic: DCP Weighs in on LDS "Rape Culture"
Replies: 109
Views: 14941

Re: DCP Weighs in on LDS "Rape Culture"

And this: Educate Yourself Hmmm. I disagree with a lot there. For what you pulled out, I'm not comfortable analogizing feminist theory to mid-tier mathematics here. I think consensus ideas in mathematics are on firmer ground and the field is more generally credible. Feminism/woman's studies has its...
by _angsty
Sat Mar 01, 2014 3:56 pm
Forum: Terrestrial Forum
Topic: DCP Weighs in on LDS "Rape Culture"
Replies: 109
Views: 14941

Re: DCP Weighs in on LDS "Rape Culture"

If you are in a group that has the structural advantage of wages, safety, health and education – when you’ve basically already won the life lottery just by showing up – it is your responsibility to educate yourself. And really, don’t tell women to be nice. We’re angry. We have every reason to be. F...
by _angsty
Sat Mar 01, 2014 12:29 pm
Forum: Terrestrial Forum
Topic: DCP Weighs in on LDS "Rape Culture"
Replies: 109
Views: 14941

Re: DCP Weighs in on LDS "Rape Culture"

Mansplaining. Bingo. And this: Educate Yourself Which offers this relevant analogy: It’s as if you have walked into a postgraduate mathematics seminar, yelling: “Hey, how can you even use imaginary numbers anyway if they’re not real?” When someone rather distractedly points you to a first-year text...
by _angsty
Wed Feb 19, 2014 3:56 am
Forum: Terrestrial Forum
Topic: Richard Packham at a loss for words over the TP case
Replies: 69
Views: 4036

Re: Richard Packham at a loss for words over the TP case

From RfM : m A friend sent me the following: --------- Years ago I joined a very exclusive and expensive club. The annual dues and occasional assessments are huge, but I can afford the expense by cutting back on other things. I joined for the social experience, the many contacts, the activities for...
by _angsty
Wed Feb 19, 2014 2:44 am
Forum: Terrestrial Forum
Topic: Salt Lake City starves kids because parents paid late....
Replies: 8
Views: 960

Re: Salt Lake City starves kids because parents paid late...

The district has been criticized locally and nationally since as many as 40 Uintah Elementary students had their lunches taken and thrown away last month because their parents were behind on payments. The kids were given fruit and milk instead. m Some of my non-Mormon friends posted this on Faceboo...
by _angsty
Wed Feb 12, 2014 12:52 am
Forum: Terrestrial Forum
Topic: Today?????s Challenge to Faith is Coming Directly from Church
Replies: 32
Views: 3073

Re: Today’s Challenge to Faith is Coming Directly from Chur

I also question myself regarding how blameless I am in my representation of these doctrines as definitive? Was I complicit in telling stories I suspected were problematic? Could I have made an effort to be more informed? Could I have asked more questions, been more thoughtful, mindful? How did I ge...
by _angsty
Wed Feb 12, 2014 12:13 am
Forum: Terrestrial Forum
Topic: How are single 20 something females treated in the Church?
Replies: 1
Views: 438

Re: How are single 20 something females treated in the Churc

Ugh. This brings back memories. When I was twenty, nearly twenty-one, and living in Utah, I received a blessing from a bishop, in which I was directly counseled to get to the temple to receive the endowment. That bishop was released the next weekend, and I made an appointment with the new bishop to ...