honorentheos wrote:Over the decade+ of journeying outside of Mormonism, my lived version of wisdom seeking draws from a few sources. Most notably are the main stoic writers: Epictetus, the Emperor Marcus Aurelius, Seneca the Younger. From them, I find something that has the same centering effect that I had sought and found in scripture...
I found there are a lot of parallels available in Confucius...
Striped back from this, finding the middle way while at the same time seeking excellence, right action, and pursuing knowledge of and appreciation for the good, beautiful and true find echoes in many, many other writings. The idea of duty in the Gita appeals to me, for example, if I clearly make it something it isn't exactly in Hinduism.
For example, one of the many gems I appreciate from Epictetus, since you asked for specifics, is this one:
“What is the first business of one who practices philosophy? To get rid of self-conceit. For it is impossible for anyone to begin to learn that which he thinks he already knows.” -Epictetus, Discourses, Book II, ch. 17
This reminds me of the following zen story -
A well known professor went to visit a Zen master. As the master gracefully served tea, the professor described his ideas of Zen. The master remained quiet as the professor spoke, continuing to pour.
When the tea reached the brim of the cup, the Zen master kept pouring. The tea overflowed, spilling onto the tray, the table, and the carpet, until the professor could no longer stand it.
“Stop!” he said. “Can’t you see the cup is full?”
“This is you,” said the master, pointing to the cup. “How can I show you Zen, until you first empty your cup?”
That one is from the collection of stories, Zen Flesh, Zen Bones.
As words, they are empty. As beliefs about how other people should behave, they are worse than worthless. As a reminder to myself that learning comes from being receptive to the opportunity in every moment to learn, they are essential. And yet I find if I don't remind myself of them frequently, I forget the lesson in them. It's so easy to do that. Something I find myself coming back to since leaving the LDS church is that getting too far away from seeking those reminders is detrimental to my being able to live with necessary humility which kinda sucks but is proven to be essential. I'm not quite sure why it is, to be honest. But it seems that seeking is essential to being able to not get too caught up in one's own importance and then losing perspective in ways that cause damage. That's been my experience so far, anyway.
Thanks for more to think about.
I made a chronological list of philosophers I’m interested in or who are popular and recently added Epictetus (about 100 AD). Isn’t it strange how there are big gaps in time - like between Christ and Thomas Aquinas... there’s mainly just Epictetus, St. Agustine (600 AD) & Muhammad (630 AD). Crusades - both Christian and Muslim may be partly why there were less philosophical contributions during that time.
So far, Confucius is the only one with politics as the focus. He is credited with this common quote: “Everything has its beauty, but not everyone sees it.”
I like what you mentioned about the middle way while striving for excellence. It seems that the most ideal wisdom involves balance, harmony, like “doing this, while also doing that.” The serenity prayer is an example.
The Gita sounds familiar. Will you summarize it?
Nice story and analogy about the tea. Although I tend to prefer mindful meditation or processing thoughts/emotions, I also have experienced peace in stillness, and the need to listen more and speak less.
True that lessons are easily forgotten - maybe there is some good in LDS vain repetitions. But also as I develop, one thing that fed me spiritually/emotionally 10 years ago, doesn’t now.