Fence Sitter wrote:McKay (or Bishop if you prefer)
Mckay is fine. I'm not
your bishop (at least, that I know of) . . . :)
I am not of the opinion that the Church should drastically change what and how they are teaching their members, especially in regards to its early history.
That's how I feel as well, although I would like more robust history in our manuals. I understand that thw wheels are turning slowly towards that end, but in the meantime, people are going to have to do their own reading and thinking and not expect to be able to outsource it to the Church. Which is probably as it should be.
However it would be a step in the right direction if conflicting views were allowed some freedom within a church setting. It sounds like that is a position you hold.
I think that simply being able to cope with the expression of conflicting views would do a lot for people. That is, being able to express doubts, befuddlement, concerns, etc. in an atmosphere of faith and support would really help struggling people, and probably would have saved some people who have abandoned ship. I think people who know me have always felt that they can talk about what's on their mind and have a discussion, without me sticking my head in the sand or chastizing them (but also being able to receive information, counsel, and helpful clarification).
Regarding the special pleading for David Whitmer and the other witnesses. We agree, I believe, on the events surrounding his departure of the church. It is the concept that God allowed this to happen or even encouraged it to happen by way of commanding David Whitmer to leave so that his “utility as a special witness” to the Book of Mormon would be enhanced that I see as special pleading. I see no evidence that this is the case for David Whitmer or any of the other witnesses.
I agree, and I hope I didn't give the impression that I think this is the reason that God told him to separate himself. It was certainly a tangible result of this, and accrues to the Church's advantage, but I think personally that it was better for David and better for the local Church in the long run. I'm not worried at all about David's chances at exaltation, in other words, even though he died outside of the covenant.
If you are going to mention that Joseph Smith had 26-33 wives would you also mention that some of those women were already married? If not, why would the number of wives be more significant than their marital status?
Well, remember that I said I would only mention the number if it came up. It's pretty certain to come up, because you have to teach the basic idea of commanded polygamy (cf. the section heading), and anybody who's thinking at all is going to wonder how many wives besides Emma Joseph married.
The polyandrous or teenage marriages are a completely different thing altogether, I think. I would only address them in a class setting if they were brought up. We really don't know why these happened (although we all have our ideas), and we don't know how Joseph saw them. Attempting to provide the necessary context would consume the entire class period (or more), precious time that should be devoted to the more important topic of the new and everlasting covenant and the place of celestial marriage (of which authroized plural marriage is only a subset) in it.
I
have covered polyandry and teenage wives in much more detail in a stake fireside setting (I presented one on "Can Mormon prophets stand up to scrutiny?," and covered "false prophecies," polygamy, and the priesthood ban). I also have had more than one combined 5th Sunday meeting that was devoted to an anything goes Q&A, and our most recent stake conference also had an open Q&A in the adult session. I think venues like these are much more appropriate for covering these types of things than gospel doctrine class.