Xenophon wrote:Ed, I appreciate your thoughts. I will say I am not going to address all of what you wrote, purely because I believe we will just go around and around without really getting anywhere. Thank you for taking the time to share though, I always enjoy seeing lots of different perspectives. I do want to address a few things though:I can't agree with you that people that leave Mormonism having once been converted, and having a certain amount of light, are in the same state as people that never had that light, who weren't supposed to ever get that level of light in mortality. The people from whom the light is withheld are in that state for a deliberate reason that the Lord knows about their mortal mission that would necessitate it. The people that leave Mormonism have broken covenants, and are responsible for that, and can never be in the same position as those who never made them, and never knew that level of light.
The main point of my arguing that you don't know about the fate or experience of those that left is precisely that, you don't know, you just have an idea. You claim to believe in a Christ that has full knowledge of our intents and hearts and that are judgement will be according to how he sees us taking upon his mantle ("That means that he has viewed your behavior and your intent and judged it..." your words). All I am suggesting is that you as an outsider between this relationship between the person and Christ CANNOT know their heart.
This is why I think it a bit insensitive (and premature) to cast the judgement you have. As someone so sure of your relationship with Christ, it seems odd that you would try to denounce someone else's just because it doesn't fit your narrative.
I also don't really see anyone here "making excuses" for their "state" (state of what?, I don't know what you mean here). All of the stories I have read on this site, and the former Mormons I have known in real life have gone through long, arduous journeys that often cost them considerable time, money, relationships and a fair bit of suffering. They all have ended up in drastically different positions; atheist to Evangelical to Buddhist. I feel perhaps one of the reasons you may receive some hostility on this board is because you are so flippant in your regard to their thoughts and ideas, i.e. your comparison between them and alcoholics (yes I know some of the members of the board are just asses, but most are not).
I will be happy to let you have the last word in this, I believe I have said my peace.
No person on this board has walked the last steps of their journey. They can come back. There are certain observations that can be made of general things that are entirely sort of broad brush-strokies, based on the best information one has. It is not a false statement from the LDS point of view to say that the general case where someone has gone inactive or left the Church will end up in a not-so-good state after the resurrection if they do not repent at some point in their existence. Sorry. None of this is judgement on peoples hearts, but observations of general cases where a general outcome for a general case is known. None of it is a judgement of someone's heart. I don't have to know a person's heart to make general observations about humanity.
I am not going to give someone a pass for having made a decision that they made. If someone made a decision where the general observable result is a loss of exaltation if they don't come back, that is not a judgement of that person. It is a statement of a general fact, and if there are mitigating circumstances, then the Lord will fix things.
And so, if I'm wrong, then I'm wrong and God can send me to hell I guess for observations if he wants. But again, I could be soft on people and tell them they are ok for choices that are not in line with commandments and covenants if I want, but that would not be representative of facts, and would be a false statement not to hurt feelings. Or, I can speak the truth, and actually say that there are consequences for choices when someone has been instructed that there is a certain outcome if and only if they follow a certain set of choices.
Do you prefer that I coddle people to make them feel good about their situation when their spiritual situation is not good, or do you prefer that I speak truth as I see it? Do you guys not speak truth as you see it?
Therefore, if it is observable that someone will only have a good spiritual outcome if they turn around and make better choices, should I keep quiet?