Danse Macabre wrote:
Thank you for the welcome.
I can only go by those that I know best... my mother and siblings, my wife, my children, my local Elder's Quorum, my LDS friends, etc - they don't all know all the same things but they know as much as they care to and aren't bothered by what some here seem to think is potentially harmful (to the orthodox).
I don't know if it's important that they "understand the truth" as you put it. I personally find it interesting but it doesn't make or not make me a better person.
I don't believe the truth is every single bit of history, or even the parts that are controversial. In my case it is simple things. For instance my step-son was in a tizzy because someone on a school yard said some things about LDS. He told his father about these things (they mentioned sacred things) and he told the bullies, as well as his father that these things were all lies. Well here I go to FAIR and see that this sacred rites, ceremonies are not lies but something, at some point, if not yet, my step-son will witness himself. That is pretty odd. So I wondered why he would believe this. Come to find out that he, his mother, and his step-dad believe there are anti-Mormons everywhere (and now we're labeled as such) that are out to lie about LDS.
He talks to my daughter about Joseph Smith (my daughter watched the PBS special) quite a bit. My daughter asked him why did he think Smith had so many wives. He freaked out on my daughter and told her she was a liar and those were lies. That's a bit scary to be honest with you. I feel as though I (a complete outsider) worry more about him believing these things then those in the Church. I do believe it is important to understand polygamy to understand why the saints were persecuted and Smith was murdered. I was really surprised that step-son didn't know about this. It isn't really my place to tell him any of this. I just am fearful that when he discovers that the people he called liars were not liars that he'll become one of these angry, disillusioned, young men you see on this board sometimes. I worry about it.
I understand a fireside is going to occur where some of these issues are raised with the youth. I think that is wonderful.