Hey, truthdancer-
I can see what you are saying. And, while I do not believe in Joseph Smith being *the* prophet to restore Christ's one and only true church on the earth, and I certainly do not approve of polygamy, I think your view of Smith's polygamy is completely mistaken.
The problem, as I see it, is in the modern view of sex and the denigration of male sexuality as inherently violent and exploitative. I just think the whole idea is completely nuts. Sure, it serves a certain fringe social and political agenda, but it is more a dystopian nightmare than representative of reality.
Sex and religion are obviously part of the same mix, and unfortunately the unrealistic puritanical moralism of our society can only see that in the worst possible light. And that is kind of strange, if you ask me. I am not saying that anybody has this right. But I do firmly believe that the view that Joseph Smith was some kind of rapist, pedophile, or shameless rogue is very one-sided (not to mention distorted) and disregards a lot of evidence to the contrary.
As a historian, I simply can't buy into that. At the same time, I think polygamy was a mistake. I also think Joseph was a coward in his behavior toward Emma. I do also regard many of the people involved in this as victims of a sort, but I don't see them as victims of an amoral villain in the person of Joseph Smith, con artist.
truth dancer wrote:While I admit I do not find much virtuous about Joseph Smith, and view him as every other powerful cult and religious leader who took/takes sexual advantage of girls and women, try as I have, I cannot find a single speck of evidence that would make me think he "married" these girls and women out of a sense of honor or care.
Joseph Smith performed secret, unlawful, "marriages," with neighbor girls, his children's nannies, his house maids, his wife's friends... I just do not see how this equates to taking care of these girls and women, or giving them respect in any sense of the word.
It seems to me that his "marriages," (other than Emma), were more about finding a (sort of), acceptable way to have multiple partners, gain power, and feel elite.
But, I could be wrong.. maybe in some twisted way, Joseph Smith convinced himself he was doing them a favor?
Actually, now that I think about it, if he really believed he would be able to ensure exaltation to the families of the girls he married, then I suppose he did think he was helping them out.
But, then again, I do not think he really believed it.
~td~
"Petition wasn’t meant to start a witch hunt as I’ve said 6000 times." ~ Hanna Seariac, LDS apologist