Fence Sitter wrote:Ceeboo wrote:Hey FS,
I know you were asking Quasi, but, if it's OK, I wanted to intrude.
For the purpose of extreme clarity, I am not questioning nor debating. I am simply asking as I find your response to be interesting.
Could you elaborate on your response a little? (perhaps define happiness, and maybe offer your thoughts on happiness being rooted in the LDS Church, and if you think the majority who might have left the fold {for whatever reason} are less happy now because of it)
Thanks!
Peace,
Ceeboo
I know you Ceeboo you are always looking for an argument! :)
Bear with me here because I am mostly thinking out loud and have never really tried to articulate my own definition of happiness.
For me a large part of happiness is being comfortable with who I am. I think this holds true for most people. I don't think happiness is rooted in the LDS Church or the Catholic Church or religion at all. I think it has a lot more to do with our self image and who we think we are and where we think we belong. My family, for example, believes they belong to the only true Church there is and they believe they are favored by God for being part of it. It is sort of like being a fan of the team that wins every game and gets to take home the trophy.
I do not know if the majority of the people who have left the fold, from the LDS church or any other church for that matter, are happier or not. I think a lot would depend on if they were able to replace the community and fellowship the church offered with another one. When I read the stories about all those members early in the church that left and came back, I get a sense that many of them came back, not because they realized their reasons for leaving were wrong, but because they realized they would be happier being part of that group.
So back to my comment about my family. I cannot imagine what it would take to replace the role the Church plays in their lives. Pretty much every aspect of their lives is focused on the Church. If that were suddenly to be taken away from them, I don't see them as being happier, I see them as totally lost. Perhaps over time they could adjust to something different but in the end I don't think they would be happier.
Thanks, FS
I understand (as much as I can being who/where I am) and do indeed appreciate the reply. :)
Peace,
Ceeboo