bcuzbcuz wrote:Samantabhadra wrote:I see a problem with the way people are approaching the declining membership of LDS and Jensen's statement re: the same. A lot of people here have commented that most ex-LDS tend to feel burned by religion/Christianity and turn into some kind of physicalist and/or atheist. I appreciate the reasons why someone would turn from LDS, but I am trying to distinguish between the valid reasons for leaving LDS and a blanket condemnation of religion or the religious worldview (whatever that might mean).
I have a theory why people who turn from LDS then form a blanket condemnation of all things religious. By accepting Mormonism one accepts their world view, i.e. that all religions prior to Mormonism are/were untrue. That is, after all, a basic premise of Joe Smith.
Further study and devotion into LDS faith confirms that view, all things non-mormon are tainted one way or another. There is a built-in cynicism when reviewing any news or history or stories originating around a religious theme. Mormonism ridicules speaking in tongues, it heaps scorn on televangelists (admittedly an easy target), it derides faith healing that isn't through their priesthood and believes Mormonism has the only key to unlock eternal life and being with god(s).
If you buy into this idea, and many of the Mormon arguments seem (feel) compelling, your world view is shaded through Mormon colored glasses.
Then, when your eyes open and you get your first breathes of fresh air, and you begin to question the "Mormon truths, your natural impulse is not to turn to your objects of previous scorn. You have already written them off as not worthy of consideration. Why would you choose second best?
For me, my critical view of all things man made, religions included, has continued since the day I decided, very willfully, to turn my back on Mormonism. I've cleaned off the dried-on mud from 30+ years of Mormonism. It is not my natural inclination to jump into the next mud puddle I come across. ( I have asked my wife, that should I ever start babbling anything religious , that she push my wheelchair over the nearest cliff).
Atheism is not a belief. It is what you have left when you believe in nothing.
That was definitely my experience with Mormonism in regards to attitudes toward other faiths. Read something like The Great Apostasy and you'll walk away with utter contempt toward the Catholic Church. Even worse if you serve a mission - the anti-Christian rhetoric among missionaries is intense.
However, I lost my faith in God before I explored the skeletons in the Church's closet, so my experience veers from most ex-Mormons, I think.