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marg wrote:Shades just how many pm’s did I send you previous to Liz moving the thread complaining about Kevin’s pm’s?


I wasn't counting.

His modus operandi of using attacks to harass, has been going on for quite some time. I’ve not been complaining about him to you.


So the ad hominems you're complaining about didn't come from him? Then whose ad hominems are you complaining about?

He has come out and said on the board, he intends to deliberately harass because he doesn’t want anyone being influenced by JAK.


Oh, come on. He didn't actually say that, did he?

Yes I am against excessive argumentation by fallacious ad hominems by any individual. Twice now threads were moved, from Celestial to Terrestial with my understanding due to excessive ad homs. I don’t remember the details but when you moved the thread not all that long ago, I believe it might have been one Tal started, you admitted to me that it did nothing to curtail the tactic.


Right. So I admitted what you wanted me to admit. Why are you still unhappy?

My impression was that you wanted the Celestial to be a place where individuals would be free from that sort of tactical gameplaying.


Ideally, yes, but that's merely a pipe dream. The best I can hope for is Celestial-caliber language.

When it happened the second time by Liz I wanted to know why, essentially because it makes a difference to me just how much I want to invest or involve myself. I think for about a week I wrote you and you’d respond with a line or two but saying virtually nothing satisfying as to why it got moved.


Here's why it got moved: People were complaining about it, so obviously it wasn't worthy of the Celestial Forum.

Telling me lots of people complained but not telling me why, is not satisfying.


The attack-based posts is why.

I’m sure lots of people didn’t complain about Kevin’s ad homs, so what were these people complaining about?


They made generalized complaints about pervasive attack posts and ad hominems.

Liz as well made some comment that the thread wasn’t moved based on Kevin’s ad homs, that there were complaints. So just what on earth were these complaints if not Kevin’s ad homs?


Maybe they were because of your posts.

So what we had going on was moderator intervention in favor of Kevin. He resorts to harassment, it’s in his interest to move threads from Celestial to Terrestial.


That's all a thing of the past.

At the time I had thought you wanted to curtail ad hominems in Celestial. Now I know differently, that you aren’t interested in that.


I'm very interested in that. But I'm realistic enough to know that the best I can hope for is clean language.

So now it’s out in the open. Of course, I’m not going to continue to spend time involving myself in discussions which involve dishonest tactical gameplaying.


I don't blame you one bit.

And if the board has no interest in controlling it, if one person can go around deliberately focused on harassing without any sort of curtailment then sure I will avoid the board.


What's "harassment" to you may only be "reality-checking" to another.

And in the scheme of things, the big picture, anything to do with this board is not a big deal. What I've been doing, and it's been aggravating to do so, is getting information. I do not accept you passing the buck, onto me, onto Jak or even onto Kevin.


You need not accept it.

I am not suggesting I want you to change the board, or that you need to, it is simply that I do not agree with how it is run.


And that is your right.

I do think, for this board to be an effective discussion board, the Celestial will need to become a harrassment free zone.


Ideally, nobody would ever read a post in the Celestial Forum and come to the conclusion that it was harassment.

I never say "I'm leaving"..on any message board though.


Good.

But there certainly are limitations to what I will accept from anyone in life.


I should certainly hope so.
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Post by _marg »

Shades if I do respond it won't be before Sunday.

Nope, I changed my mind, I did a quick read of your post and find it hard to believe what you say. You are back to once again accusing me and others of being a reason the thread should have been moved. Previously in this thread that wasn't your position. Your position was that only ad homs of direct words such as "stupid" and "idiot" are an issue. That other than that any sort of fallacious argumentation is fine and has always been. Now it's back to we were all using ad homs. Huh? Who are you talking about? JAK didn't use excessive ad homs, GoodK didn't, I didn't. It is that simple. As far as my mistake which you accuse me of, according to you it was that I was too thin skinned and wouldn't let anything kevin said slide and with JAK the issue you have with him has nothing to do with that thread it is because he doesn't allow religious assumptions to go unchallenged, but not that thread, other threads. So you are not consistent Shades. You didn't mention when I asked you to explain what our mistakes were, that all of us used ad homs in that thread and by the way, it is that thread when it got moved, which started my complaints.

If the issue was that too many ad homs were used in that thread and hence it was moved for that reason, then who are the culprits for this, besides kevin? And if this was the case you should have no problem pointing out some examples.

I'll get back to your post after Saturday.
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marg wrote:Nope, I changed my mind, I did a quick read of your post and find it hard to believe what you say. You are back to once again accusing me and others of being a reason the thread should have been moved.


Then who was the reason the thread should've been moved, if it wasn't you and others?

Previously in this thread that wasn't your position. Your position was that only ad homs of direct words such as "stupid" and "idiot" are an issue.


That's what I thought people were complaining about.

That other than that any sort of fallacious argumentation is fine and has always been. Now it's back to we were all using ad homs. Huh? Who are you talking about? JAK didn't use excessive ad homs, GoodK didn't, I didn't. It is that simple.


Didn't you say that Kevin did?

As far as my mistake which you accuse me of, according to you it was that I was too thin skinned and wouldn't let anything kevin said slide and with JAK the issue you have with him has nothing to do with that thread it is because he doesn't allow religious assumptions to go unchallenged, but not that thread, other threads. So you are not consistent Shades.


You're reading it wrong. Those two things weren't the reason the thread got moved. Those two things are respectful requests made in order to avoid any future drama.

You didn't mention when I asked you to explain what our mistakes were, that all of us used ad homs in that thread and by the way, it is that thread when it got moved, which started my complaints.


I didn't say that all of you used ad hominem arguments.

If the issue was that too many ad homs were used in that thread and hence it was moved for that reason, then who are the culprits for this, besides kevin? And if this was the case you should have no problem pointing out some examples.


I thought Kevin was the only example.
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Post by _marg »

(Note: I know I said I wouldn't post until sunday but I'm procrastinating on the stuff I should be doing)

Shades, my main issue was always the moderation, not Kevin. Not only have you falsely accused me of writing ad homs in that thread Evidence for Jesus, but you misrepresent my focus in my pms to you as being mainly about Kevin when in fact it was always about the moderation. The only thing I can do is present the chain of events, what I have presented on the board, my memories of pm's to you because they coincided with the board and the pms that I do have in my sent file. While this may be boring I have no other way to counter your accusations. I asked you to provide support but you didn't.


Going back in time to this thread in the Celestial “The Roles of Logic and Science in Questions of Theology “ http://www.mormondiscussions.com/discuss/viewtopic.php?t=2668&postdays=0&postorder=asc&start=0

It ran essentially from Aug 1/07 to Oct 23/07. In it there were participants who deliberately focused on attacking and one in particular was intent on harassing. I did not contact any mod. If I thought at the time there was a mod unbiased who was interested in curtailing ad homs I might have. At this point in time, I didn’t think you were interested in ad homs either or involving yourself. I also figured no moderation is better than poor moderation.

Going forward in time to March 5/08

http://www.mormondiscussions.com/discuss/viewtopic.php?p=131919&highlight=#131919

In this thread Moniker informs you that JAK has written an ad hom post in that thread “Roles of Logic ..etc”

In response to Moniker you write: “ I went ahead and edited those words from JAK out.”


I responded to you with:
Well if you are going to now step in and start editing out fallacious ad hominal phrases..that is personal attack in lieu of response on issue..I'll make a list for you. I think I stopped at about page 3 or 4. If necessary I'll continue later...but they are a start.

These are all from Cal. Crusader

Aug 27 10:28 (to JAK)
Aug 27 10.39 (to JAK)
Aug 27 3:07 (to JAK)
Aug 27 5:31 (to JAK)
Aug 27 7:54 (to JAK)
Aug 27 7:56 (to JAK)
Aug 28 2:52 (to me)
Aug 28 3:11 (to me)
Aug 28 3:31 (to JAK)

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From Gad

Aug 30 11:11 (to me)


There was no reply from you on that thread on the board, so I sent a pm, I likely copied the post.

You responded to me by pm, that I should give you particulars I think a link for you to use to correct. I responded back (paraphrasing) “forget it, it’s after the fact, and not worth the time”

At this point in time March 5 , I was under the impression that you were interested personally in curtailing fall. ad homs in the Celestial, given your recent involvement despite that it was well after the fact plus you seemed willing to look at and do something about ones I would point out to you. I didn’t occur to me at the time your only interest was some direct words, that you personally designate as inappropriate. To be honest I find that whole idea absurd, it certainly is not very rational.

So you went into that thread Logic Science and Theology and removed “stupidity and dishonesty” from JAK’s post.

http://www.mormondiscussions.com/discuss/viewtopic.php?t=2668&postdays=0&postorder=asc&start=84

Stupidity or Dishonesty page 5

Which is it, Gadianton. Are you s***** or d********? It’s one or the other. You cannot even quote a short statement accurately from one of my posts. That word "WHY" makes a totally different statement to you than your false quote which you then straw man attack as if I had said your misquote.

Given that stupidity or dishonesty, discussion with you is pointless.

At least re-read my post Wed Aug 29, 2007 4:08 pm to recognize your own s*******y or d********y.

JAK

[MODERATOR NOTE: Non-celestial aspersions have been edited out.]




At the time that JAK wrote he’d been exposed to an onslaught of off topic attacks. Let’s take a look at CC and Gad’s attacks.

-“ I realize you are lacking in native intelligence”

-“ How many times do I have to explain it to you, rube”?

-“your inability to apprehend it notwithstanding rube”

- “Incidentally, I request this thread be moved to another forum, so I do not have to show restraint in responding to JAK”.

- “I don't care that JAK rejects Kurt Gödel's argument, but I do care that he has the temerity to believe himself a better logician”

- “Are you really such a low-watt bulb”?

- “I don't suffer fools gladly’.

- “What claim did I make, lunkhead”?

- “Read a math book. (Or, more appropriately, have one read to you.”)

-“Your judgment in these matters is far from sound. As I recall, you are also intoxicated with Hyam Maccoby”.

-“That is because you are not worth responding to in detail”.

-“Are you a congenital moron”?

-“JAK said (and Marg, do you lick everything JAK says from his palms or don't you?”),
- “You know JAK, the only thing worse than an [expletive] moron is a pretentious [expletive] moron like you”.



These wouldn’t be so bad, if at least CC and Gad also presented an argument, but they didn’t do that, until near the end Gad started to. All they kept doing for practically the entire threadwas focusing on attack, absent argument.

That Shades, is my main issue with the Celestial.




I wrote Gad in that thread: “Gad, you've offered nothing to the issue of the argument "is logic essential to theology?. You've taken pot shots, used diversionary tactics but I don't recall one post of yours in which you put forward an argument regarding the issue at hand. Did I miss it?”

At some point he admits: “I didn't enter this discussion with an interest in what the best arguments for and against Godel (or anyone else on any other thread) are. That doesn't depend on you and JAK or myself. I was interested in the zeal JAK whipped his horse into battle on a topic clearly beyond his grasp. And while Christianity bugs me, ignorant atheism bugs me more.”

So he clearly was not interested in posting on topic, he was focused on attacking.


March 12 only 7 days later I’m still under the impression you are interested in doing something about excessive fallacious ad homs in the Celestial..and I write a post in response to Kevin, his being ad hominal to me :

http://www.mormondiscussions.com/discuss/viewtopic.php?t=5457&start=21

fallacious ad hominem

Excuse me mods but enough is enough of this sort of argumentation from Kevin. Nothing in his post addresses the topic, addresses what is being discussed in this thread. In the previous thread of Kevin's in the celestial forum "atheism" was being discussed by both Kevin and . and I had a legitimate reason to comment on that, his response was excessive ad homs to me which I commented on but they were allowed to stay.

I really am tired of Kevin's excessive ad hominems in lieu of discussion ..it detracts from the goals of this board but in particular this particular level of the board. Please do something about it and when you do I will delete this post. Thanks


I also write you a pm, I believe with the same words or close to them.

Please note my focus is not Kevin…it is the sort of argumentation going on. It is about posts focused on excessive ad homs. I point out it detracts from the goal of this board in particular the Celestial level, which I was under the assumption you cared about. You do write that the Celestial is for respectful, polite, scholarly discussions.


So how did you handle my pointing out excessive ad homs Shades? You moved the thread.
[MODERATOR NOTE: Kevin, while discussing things in the Celestial Forum, please don't make blanket condemnations like your first sentence. In the Celestial Forum, always act as though all the discussions that are or have ever taken place there were with your favorite grandmother.

Plus, please leave the word "damn" out of the Celestial Forum, too.

Thread moved.]


And when you did that I wrote :
Since this thread is now in Terrestial and it is open season for a poster like Kevin who focuses on fallacious ad hom I won't bother to post any further responses.

Shades you didn't fix the problem you exasperated it


How absurd to move the thread! If one clicked on that thread in the Celestial although it’s theoretically moved one is taken to the entire thread in the Terrestial. So it makes no difference whether it’s moved or not. The only difference is that by moving it, now one is allowed via moderation policy to increase attacks. It makes things worse rather than doing anything to improve the situation.

Eight days later March 20, Liz moves the Evidence for Jesus thread. Once again moving it would do nothing but potentially escalate the problem of one person focusing on attacking, because the thread is still in Celestial and can be clicked on and one is immediately taken to the terrestrial one. And of course as we all know pretty much all attacks, including directs words are acceptable in Terrestial. So virtually nothing has changed except now attacks are legitimized. What a strange way to handle fallacious off topic ad homs!.

So I pm’d you to find out why it was moved. As before my focus was not Kevin. Yes he was the only one using ad homs, but there was no clarity as to why the thread was moved. I did not know the reason it was moved. For 3 days in pms all I got from you were that people complained and perhaps it should have been moved based on ad homs. No mention of who is responsible.

March 23 I set up a thread because in pm’s with you, I was getting no where.

http://www.mormondiscussions.com/discuss/viewtopic.php?t=5597&start=0

I wrote in the Subject heading Shades, Liz and Jersey Girl
Would one of you or all please explain by indicating posts, words said, by whom, ..some actual evidence..so that I (and others) can understand the reason there was a problem with the thread "evidence for Jesus".

And by the way if anyone else wants to chime in why they found a problem with the thread because apparently Shades had complaints from people..I'd be interested to hear what those complaints are.


Note: My focus is not Kevin, it is trying to find out why the thread was moved.

March 24 , Liz writes a post and explains that she thinks the Celestial is not for debates and that Kevin has requested/suggested she move it based on JAK calling him a liar and so she moved the thread. No mention of Kevin being at all responsible for ad homs despite the fact that it was his posts which were laced with them.

I do have a few pms not deleted in my sent file to you Shades. I’m putting them on the board with nothing deleted. None of them indicate my focus is Kevin, my focus is consistently the moderation policy.

March 24,

Re: I'm still in the dark
:
marg: I don't get this that lots of people were complaining. What on earth would they complain about? I can't see anyone complaining about ad homs.


Shades: They can complain when the activities take place in the Celestial Forum.


Marg: What activities take place? Anyhow, I'm getting more information from liz on the off-topic forum than I have from you. Apparently the Celestial is not a debate forum, it is a discussion forum with the gentle talk one would have with a grandmother, so I guess ad homs are not allowed.

The problem is Shades that good debates require curtailment of ad homs otherwise they get side-tracked. But I will forward this onto JAK.


March 24 Re: I'm still in the dark

Shades: The problem is, what's an ad hominem argument to one person is a legitimate observation to another. That's why, even in the Celestial Forum, I've tried to err on the side of caution. It's much easier to moderate the obvious things like language.


Marg: That's true which is why most of the time I don't say anything to the other person. And I wouldn't even think of getting a mod involved. But when it's excessive, it simply ends up destroying anything productive coming about in discussion. Kevin's request to move the thread is suspect, given that he's one of the worst offenders, it would seem that he wanted it moved to up the ante with his use of them. If someone is honest in discussion they'd be interested in curtailing the other person from using ad homs, but they wouldn't be interested in moving to a less moderated forum.

Anyhow I have a better sense of what went on. It is much better to have things out in the open. The secrecy does no good.


April 8,

Re: now I also understand
:
marg: My question to you, which I don't expect an answer for is... "Is there any reason why anyone should take the Celestial level seriously and invest time in it" that was my point of my note to you.


Shades: Yes. That's because, even with all the problems it is currently experiencing, it still hosts higher-caliber discussions than the other forums.
Marg: And if you don't want to do anything for the board, that's fine, but to be honest to participants you should remove the part which says the Celestial is heavily moderated.


Shades: It is heavily moderated. It just might not be heavily moderated for what individual participants think it should be heavily moderated for.


Marg (response to above): Let's assume your board is considered a serious board, and that there are not a core group of idiots or biased individuals running it and hence there is some consistent fair moderation in place, I'm confused what the Celestial is supposed to be heavily moderated for. Is it just heavily moderated for "stupid" posts and at the whim of a mod if they say they don't like the feel or tone of thread? In the last instance by the way, which I was involved in, the thread "evidence for Jesus" when it was moved, it was done so out of moderator bias in favor of the very participants dishing out the ad homs. I know LIz said otherwise but there was no justification for moving it, other than the excessive ad homs by Kevin. And yet I don't think Liz who at the time was asking favors from Kevin in private to use his board was biased against Kevin but rather biased in favor of him. So was Sam Harris by the way. The only one creating a negative tone via excessive ad homs in that thread was Kevin and he was the one to ask for the thread to be moved.

So, is there a policy to moderate for excessive ad homs by a single offender in a thread and if so how? If it is by moving the thread, how does that curtail ad homs, which are off-topic and affect the tone. As you know the problem I had with moving a thread was 2 fold...no clarity was made as to what the problems were, or who caused them, so everyone in the thread was tainted negatively and in fact Sam Harris I'm sure to this day thinks I did something wrong as she stated so on the board to me, plus the offender was not curtailed, and in fact was protected.

So what should individual participants think the Celestial should be moderated for?


I believe that is my last pm to you, I then asked you the question on the board as within a day or so you hadn’t replied to me. You will note, my focus was not Kevin. He was the example in that thread. But my main consideration the moderation policy and is finding out what we allegedly did that was wrong. My purpose of enquiry it not to demand that you change anything but rather I want to know what your policy is, so that I can determine whether it is worthwhile to post on the board.

So back to your opening post, I didn’t make the mistake of focusing on Kevin or being hypersensitive, that is either a deliberate lie on your part or your misreading of my intent. You have misrepresented my pm’s to you, they were not focused on Kevin. You have it backwords by the way, it is Kevin who has been focused on JAK mainly and myself, because I support JAK. Kevin it would seem feels threatened by JAK. He has made it clear his goal is to harass him and the reason is he doesn't want people influenced by him. You are in denial and intellectually dishonest, if you don’t think people are harassed in the Celestial deliberately. And while you have accused me of being partially responsible for moving the thread you have offered nothing to support that accusation, nor has Liz, nor anyone else.
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Jersey Girl I noticed you changed your post to me. When I read it and responded you were asking me to respond, then in another post you say something like this should end as if you've changed your mind. Being as you've taken out the request for me to respond and it looks like I'm just being negligent in not responding, I will probably end up responding to you, getting into details unless you delete your post. It's up to you.
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Request a recommend interview. heehee. Just kidding.
Arghhh...
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Dr. Shades wrote:
marg wrote:He has come out and said on the board, he intends to deliberately harass because he doesn’t want anyone being influenced by JAK.


Oh, come on. He didn't actually say that, did he?


Yes he did.

Dr. Shades wrote:
marg wrote:Yes I am against excessive argumentation by fallacious ad hominems by any individual. Twice now threads were moved, from Celestial to Terrestial with my understanding due to excessive ad homs. I don’t remember the details but when you moved the thread not all that long ago, I believe it might have been one Tal started, you admitted to me that it did nothing to curtail the tactic.


Right. So I admitted what you wanted me to admit. Why are you still unhappy?


Because I disagree with your opening post in this thread. I didn't make any mistakes, JAK didn't and the problem has never been people using direct words in the Celestial. The only problem that is in the Celestial is when posters focus on ad hom posts to excess in lieu of on topic posts. With regards to the mistakes you say we made

#1 ..I was not focussed on Kevin, it's always been the moderation of moving threads which was the main issue. I wrote a post previously addressing this. I thought the Celestial was heavily moderated to curtail ad homs. I now realize it is not. Given it is not, if a person is intent on harassing they can prevent productive discussions moving forward. As long as parties in a discussion are honest, focus on topic there are no problems.

#2 Advising kevin to curtail direct words is a strange request when not only does kevin not use direct words such as stupid or idiot but most people don't. Besides there is virtually no difference as far as being offensive if a direct word is used as opposed to a phrase saying the same thing essentially.

#3) I find you to be very inconsistent. You say Jak wasn't using good etiquette by challenging people's religious assumptions meanwhile you have no problem with posters writing excessive ad hom posts which is obviously disrespectful not to mention intellectually dishonest.

Dr. Shades wrote:
marg wrote:My impression was that you wanted the Celestial to be a place where individuals would be free from that sort of tactical gameplaying.


Ideally, yes, but that's merely a pipe dream. The best I can hope for is Celestial-caliber language.


Well then the board is not heavily moderated, and there will continually be people who will focus on attack posts in lieu of on topic posts, just as they do elsewhere on the board.

Dr. Shades wrote:
marg wrote:When it happened the second time by Liz I wanted to know why, essentially because it makes a difference to me just how much I want to invest or involve myself. I think for about a week I wrote you and you’d respond with a line or two but saying virtually nothing satisfying as to why it got moved.


Here's why it got moved: People were complaining about it, so obviously it wasn't worthy of the Celestial Forum.


Oi Vay! Well it so happens that it was moved after kevin suggested Liz move it. Why would anyone honest in discussion, want a thread moved to a less moderated area for attack posts?

Dr. Shades wrote:
marg wrote:Telling me lots of people complained but not telling me why, is not satisfying.


The attack-based posts is why.


Oi Vay again. So who was attacking me, JAK, Good K, Jersey Girl, Nevo and Kevin were all attacking each other? I'm not asking you to answer. It's obvious you've taken little interest in this from the beginning and have listened to a few people writing you complaints about what I don't know...at this point I don't care.

Dr. Shades wrote:
marg wrote:I’m sure lots of people didn’t complain about Kevin’s ad homs, so what were these people complaining about?


They made generalized complaints about pervasive attack posts and ad hominems.


Right Shades we are back to the sort of replies I was getting from you in pm's. No specifics, just vague accusations. Could it possibly be that some people didn't like the actual topic Evidence for Jesus and found it offensive that some people should argue there is little evidence? Don't answer. Just because some people complain does not meant their complaints are legitimate or justified.

Dr. Shades wrote:
marg wrote:Liz as well made some comment that the thread wasn’t moved based on Kevin’s ad homs, that there were complaints. So just what on earth were these complaints if not Kevin’s ad homs?


Maybe they were because of your posts.
.


Right so now we are back to maybe I'm the culprit. Apparently you don't know though.

Dr. Shades wrote:
marg wrote:So what we had going on was moderator intervention in favor of Kevin. He resorts to harassment, it’s in his interest to move threads from Celestial to Terrestial.


That's all a thing of the past.


It is not a thing of the past, nothing has changed, you still are going on about how we were all responsible. So nothing changed. And now you've even made it known that ad hom posts are quite acceptable in the Celestial.

Dr. Shades wrote:
marg wrote:At the time I had thought you wanted to curtail ad hominems in Celestial. Now I know differently, that you aren’t interested in that.


I'm very interested in that. But I'm realistic enough to know that the best I can hope for is clean language.


The words "stupid" "dishonest" & "idiot" are clean. They are no different as far as being offensive as phrases saying the same thing.

Dr. Shades wrote:
marg wrote:So now it’s out in the open. Of course, I’m not going to continue to spend time involving myself in discussions which involve dishonest tactical gameplaying.


I don't blame you one bit.


And by the way thank you so much, for helping me lose interest in this board. I truly do appreciate it.

Dr. Shades wrote:
marg wrote:And if the board has no interest in controlling it, if one person can go around deliberately focused on harassing without any sort of curtailment then sure I will avoid the board.


What's "harassment" to you may only be "reality-checking" to another.


No Shades you are wrong about that. Harrassment can objectively be identified. But what is interesting is how you keep justifying ad hom posts as if there's nothing inappropriate with those, yet meanwhile you'll accuse JAK of lacking etiquette when he attempts to get religious individuals to appreciate their belief system is built upon particular asserted axioms. So you want to discourage JAK from applying critical thinking to threads but have no problem with ad homs posts which destroy critical thinking.

Dr. Shades wrote:
marg wrote:And in the scheme of things, the big picture, anything to do with this board is not a big deal. What I've been doing, and it's been aggravating to do so, is getting information. I do not accept you passing the buck, onto me, onto Jak or even onto Kevin.


You need not accept it.


Right

Dr. Shades wrote:
marg wrote:I am not suggesting I want you to change the board, or that you need to, it is simply that I do not agree with how it is run.


And that is your right.


ok

Dr. Shades wrote:
marg wrote:I do think, for this board to be an effective discussion board, the Celestial will need to become a harrassment free zone.


Ideally, nobody would ever read a post in the Celestial Forum and come to the conclusion that it was harassment.


Well of course, this board is far from ideal and it doesn't have a heavily moderated Celestial area despite what you may say. Logically there is little difference between a one word offensive remark or a phrase saying the same concept.
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Post by _dartagnan »

I've been enjoying my vacation visiting with my wife and kids here in Brasil for the last two weeks. I return at the beginning of May. Internet time is limited here so I will only make a few comments. I knew I left while in the middle of several discussions so I know I have a lot of catching up to do when I return.

First of all, I see marg's eternal need to bicker is still obvious. Now that I have been gone, she simply had to find another target so she could attack me indirectly. Sorry shades.

This back and forth has been boring, but it amazes me how much time and effort marg spends trying to squabble with anyone who will listen, usually in the cause of defending her internet man, JAK.

I don't have time time jump in right now, but I did want to point out that marg is flat out lying when she says I admitted that I, "intend to deliberately harass because [I don't] want anyone being influenced by JAK."

Shades is smart enough to know I never said that, but marg insists I did. I don't know which comment she is alluding to, but marg makes it sound like I conceded her point that I "harass," and even worse, that it is "intentional." She will see any embarrassing refutation as harassment.

JAK has done enough to make sure he'll never ever speak with credibility on this forum. I can't think of anyone aside from marg, who thinks he is what he says he is. Pointing out a poster's lack of credibility and history as a derailer is not ad hominem. It is an effort to keep order when ranting goobers try to pollute every thread with previously refuted cut and paste jobs.

Marg still doesn't know what ad hominem term means. She interprets any criticism as ad hominem. The simple fact is, JAK gets what he asks for because he insists on jumping into threads and derailing with his standard sermon about how religion is dangerous, the Bible is untrustworthy, etc. No body is following him around and "harassing" him. He seems to think his favorite anti-religion themes pertain to every thread started by anyone who might have something positive to say about religion. JAK rarely knows what he is talking about, he relies on google as his authority, he uses any website that suits his purposes (even Muslim ones!), he ignores detailed refutations while offering subterfuge and filibustering by pumping out long-winded "responses" to any observer who makes a single comment. And when he has been shown to know nothing of what he speaks, he disappears for a week, only to return with the same nonsense as if it was never refuted to begin with. It is a never ending cycle with people like these.

I will point all of these out as long as JAK continues to spread ignorance and as long as it interests me. Obviously, this drives marg up the wall since she is probably the only person in history to go on record by calling JAK "brilliant."

Anyway, tchau for now...
“All knowledge of reality starts from experience and ends in it...Propositions arrived at by purely logical means are completely empty as regards reality." - Albert Einstein
_marg

Post by _marg »

He's back, let's see how many ad homs he can throw into one post.
Ok well his entire post was essentially one ad hom after another, so it is difficult separating them all out. That is typical of Dart.


1)First of all, I see marg's eternal need to bicker is still obvious.

2) This back and forth has been boring, but it amazes me how much time and effort marg spends trying to squabble with anyone who will listen, usually in the cause of defending her internet man, JAK.


3)JAK has done enough to make sure he'll never ever speak with credibility on this forum.

4)I can't think of anyone aside from marg, who thinks he is what he says he is.

5)Pointing out a poster's lack of credibility and history as a derailer is not ad hominem. It is an effort to keep order when ranting goobers try to pollute every thread with previously refuted cut and paste jobs.

6) Marg still doesn't know what ad hominem term means. She interprets any criticism as ad hominem.

7) The simple fact is, JAK gets what he asks for because he insists on jumping into threads and derailing with his standard sermon about how religion is dangerous, the Bible is untrustworthy, etc.

8) JAK rarely knows what he is talking about, he relies on google as his authority, he uses any website that suits his purposes (even Muslim ones!), he ignores detailed refutations while offering subterfuge and filibustering by pumping out long-winded "responses" to any observer who makes a single comment. And when he has been shown to know nothing of what he speaks, he disappears for a week, only to return with the same nonsense as if it was never refuted to begin with. It is a never ending cycle with people like these.

10) I will point all of these out as long as JAK continues to spread ignorance and as long as it interests me.
_marg

Post by _marg »

dartagnan wrote:I don't have time time jump in right now, but I did want to point out that marg is flat out lying when she says I admitted that I, "intend to deliberately harass because [I don't] want anyone being influenced by JAK."



It is mainly from this post that Dart reveals his motivation, and one only has to read his posts to observe his intentional harrassment of JAK, occasionally myself.

http://mormondiscussions.com/discuss/viewtopic.php?p=130214&highlight=#130214

(I'll take out a few portions of that post and underline and bold areas.)

Dart writes to me: The fact is JAK is spewing ignorance and singing a tune that most people on this forum don't mind hearing. Let's bash religion? Sure, sounds great to us. So they aren't inclined to research for themselves whether or not what he blabbers is true. On a forum dominated by religion-hating atheists, this is music to their ears. JAK is dangerous because he feeds that hatred with more ignorance. He helps create bigots like Schmo and others.

My response to him: I see so that is where you are coming from. I appreciate you telling me. You are worried that people will be influenced by what he says and not be able to see through what you can see (according to you). So in essence JAK is a threat to your goals.

Dart writes:
You've been taken for a ride. That's the real tragedy here.

I'm going to do what I can, with what limited time I'll have, to make sure others hear the counter argument to his claims. I'm practically the only one who is doing that, which is why you guys keep rehashing the same crap on different threads trying to avoid a head-on collision with someone who is actually interested in challenging your nonsense.

My response to him: In other words what you intend to do is use fallacious argumentation, poison the well tactics in order to discredit JAK because you fear he is a threat and influencing others against your goals. Hmm...well you certainly can do that. That is how this board can be used. One person can go around harassing an individual, making sure they use every fallacious trick in the book to discredit and destroy opportunities for fruitful discussion. Over run their posts etc. I'm sure it is not something JAK would ever think of doing. Someone with integrity wouldn't. But ya, I'm sure you can do it and in fact that is what you have been doing. I don't really care myself. I haven't invested much into this board. And from experience I've learned that it is not a good thing to ever invest too heavily in any message board. They are great if everyone plays fair and the goal is to discuss honestly. They are time consuming & aggravating if fallacious argumentation is the norm.


My current comment: If Kevin was doing what he says, refuting JAK with counter arguments, I could accept his argument. But this is not observable. His focus, time after time, in addressing JAK, occasionally myself is to attack. And it is excessive, just like in his previous post on this thread. So when he says he’s going to make sure others hear the counter arguments to his claims, that’s bogus. Kevin’s focus in on attacking not on counter arguments. His focus is on preventing further discussion, so that individuals are not influenced by views or arguments he doesn’t share or agree with.

Now my main focus in this thread was not Kevin, nor was my focus with Shades Kevin. Only when I thought Shades was interested in curtailing ad homs was I angry when threads were moved which only served to legitimize via moderation, ad homs. Someone like Kevin intent on harassing can do so, I was under apparently the mistaken impression that the Celestial was an area they couldn’t get away with it, at least not with obvious excessive use.
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