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Re: UK set for same-sex marriage battle...

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sheryl wrote:
Oh wow. I read this and thought, probably 90% of our families suffer from acute distress and thus by this argument are not suitable environments for children.


you may think that, but you wont be able to prove it, and we all consider personal opinions and anecdotal evidence a poor foundation for defining society's laws and virtues.
To single out acute distress caused by the infliction of prejudice on gay couples and ignore acute distress caused by depression, mental illness, the loss of employment, the death of a child or parent in the family etc, is incomprehensible in today's society.

If I might add, when Biblical marriage is held up as the model for marriage, I think those who are making such claims may not really understand what they are saying.

i have not made that claim...if you read the thread history, you will note that i assert the well supported position that with all else equal, children are best served when they are raised in an environment with married biological parents.
I have made no claim towards Biblical marriage, nor even what Biblical marriage is defined as.
if you find a need to rally around something the Bible states perhaps you should focus on the following:
1 Timothy 2:12 and 1 Cor 14:34

For anyone holding up Biblical marriage as their standard, there is a diagram floating around the internet describing all marriage arrangements or possibilities that are presented to us in the Bible that can be used as their standard.

yay! a link from the gay christian alliance,
and a more inadequate understanding of the scriptures and the context of Mosaic law i have seldom read.


......We have evolved.....Sheryl

the repetition of this idea throughout your post about this topic does not prove that same-sex marriage is a positive aspect, or even by-product, of evolution. You confuse an increased political influence with things that actually have meaning.
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Re: UK set for same-sex marriage battle...

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subgenius wrote:yay! a link from the gay christian alliance,
and a more inadequate understanding of the scriptures and the context of Mosaic law i have seldom read.


And of course, the chances of you actually backing up that claim are precisely zero.
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Re: UK set for same-sex marriage battle...

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Drifting wrote:I'm just thinking in a realistic rather than utopian way. Same sex marriage and parenting is here and it is here to stay wether one likes it or not.

you say not utopian, then put forth a quasi-utopian statement. be careful with speaking in absolutes my friend, time has a funny way of proving you wrong.

...the utilisation of same sex parents is, in my opinion, a useful part of the solution.

how does this influence opposite sex parenting?

I assume that you aren't advocating that we should tolerate bad opposite sex parenting, to the long term detriment of the child, just to avoid the opportunity for same sex parents to bring up children?

your assumption is blatantly wrong. i have made clear assertions that the child's well-being should always be what informs any decision. grandparents have long been proven to be not that great for a child's psychological situation, but yes, sometimes that is the best our society can afford that child. Does that mean we elevate the grandparents to the same status as the "best"? do we support and encourage our citizens to let grandparents raise children?...no we do not. Currently, same-sex parenting should likely be discouraged because the data that is available is either inconclusive or concludes that the situation is risky for children. If evidence builds to the contrary, then we can discuss, but i am not in a position to allow the LGBT experiment with the well-being of children just because it is something that they "want".
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Re: UK set for same-sex marriage battle...

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subgenius wrote:
Darth J wrote:Subgenius, find me a case that interprets Skinner v. Oklahoma as substantively defining what marriage is.

i now realize that you consider the 14th amendment as just cause for restructuring marriage via legislation (there is that smell again).


Case law is not "legislation." Also, nobody who thinks that equal protection requires same-sex marriages to be recognized wants marriage to be "restructured." There is nothing to be restructured, because there is nothing about the domestic partnership called marriage anywhere in the United States that requires the parties to be of opposing sexes.

oh, and by the way,
here is the case as requested:

Baker v Nelson, 1971 (Minnesota supreme court) - Minnesota is a state, correct?
where we read:
"The institution of marriage as a union man and woman, uniquely involving the procreation and rearing of children within a family, is as old as the book of Genesis. Skinner V. Oklahoma ex rel. Williamson, 316 U.S. 535, 541, 62 S.Ct. 1110, 1113, 86 L.Ed. 1655, 1660 (1942), which invalidated Oklahoma's Habitual Criminal Sterilization Act on equal protection grounds, stated in part: "Marriage and procreation are fundamental to the very existence and survival of the race." This historic institution manifestly is more deeply founded than the asserted contemporary concept of marriage and societal interests for which petitioners contend. The due process clause of the Fourteenth Amendment is not a charter for restructuring it by judicial legislation."
....
"We hold, therefore, that Minn.St. c. 517 does not offend the First, Eighth, Ninth, or Fourteenth Amendments to the United States Constitution.

Affirmed."


You really made that too easy
i like how you posture yourself as some sort of legal eagle, but you are just a dodo like the rest of us.


1. Baker was decided a year before the U.S. Supreme Court decision in Esienstadt v. Baird, which held that "If the right of privacy means anything, it is the right of the individual, married or single, to be free from unwarranted governmental intrusion into matters so fundamentally affecting a person as the decision whether to bear or beget a child." The Supreme Court determined that the rights regarding procreation at issue in Skinner were not limited to married people. The Baker court could not possibly have addressed Esienstadt because it had not been decided yet.

2. Baker cited Skinner in the same breath that it cited Genesis. The Book of Genesis is not law. Regarding the definition of marriage under Minnesota state law, Skinner is not law, either. Under Article III of the Constitution, federal courts can only decide actual cases and controversies that are before them. Defining what the legal parameters of marriage are was not before the court in Skinner, so the Supreme Court had no authority to address that issue. Under the 10th Amendment, the federal government cannot decide what marriage means under state law. The Baker court was not citing Skinner as binding precedent. It was citing Skinner for the same reason it was citing the Bible: as a proposition about societal views regarding marriage.

3. If Skinner really means what you keep saying it means, and the U.S. Supreme Court really did define marriage as being for the purpose of procreation, then all of the states that have legalized same-sex marriage could not have done so. The state courts that have ruled their own state constitutions require same-sex marriages to be recognized would have been constrained by the supremacy clause to recognize the U.S. Supreme Court's substantive determination of what marriage is in the United States. That would be totally ridiculous in the federalist system that this country follows. Similarly, state legislatures that have recognized same-sex marriage would have had to seek a federal constitutional amendment to override the substantive law you are claiming was decided in Skinner. That also would be ridiculous in a federalist system.

even the simplest of inspections reveal that this Skinner version of marriage was fundamental to subsequent cases like Loving v Virginia. They stood on the foundation of marriage as it was being defined in Skinner. While Loving proved that all state restrictions were not beyond the reach of the 14th, it did not indicate that all state restrictions were, or even that they should be.


So for the sake of argument, if what you're saying is true, then you'll agree with me that the U.S. Supreme Court gets to substantively define what marriage is in the United States, and thus there is no legal reason why the U.S. Supreme Court could not rule that there is a substantive due process right to same-sex marriage, much like how the Supreme Court overruled its previous determination about same-sex relationships in Bowers v. Hardwick when it decided Lawrence v. Texas.

In commonsense and in a constitutional sense, there is a clear distinction between a marital restriction based merely upon race and one based upon the fundamental difference in sex.

the real issue is that you are unable to discern this simple notion.


No, because I have never argued a basis for same-sex marriage being recognized that requires homosexuality to be treated as a suspect classification. Subgenius, you don't know enough about what you're talking about to know when you are making it obvious that you don't know what you're talking about. If you did, you would not be confusing a substantive due process argument with a rational basis argument. Nor would you refer to judicial review as "legislation."

Does the failure to have children void a marriage? Yes or no?

oooooh...i just love "ultimatum" questions.
both of your questions here are absurd and reflect nothing of the position i have been taking on this thread.


That question is fundamental to your assertions about what you think Skinner v. Oklahoma means.

But the marriage benefit applies to people who do not have children, which is the point.

maybe you would prefer having the conversation by yourself, you are already making a great effort to do so.


Given that you think Skinner determined that marriage is for the purpose of having children, why does federal tax law allow benefits to married couples who do not have children?

Subgenius, find me a case that interprets Skinner v. Oklahoma as substantively defining what marriage is.

done to the point of your embarrassment.


Then there's no legal reason why the U.S. Supreme Court cannot substantively redefine marriage as between two men or two women, since, according to you, the Supreme Court can define the legal elements of marriage.

No, that is the issue, period, full stop. That is what equal protection means. That is the basis on which the 9th Circuit upheld Perry v. Schwarzenegger.

Just because you "ant" it to be the issue, does not make it so.....
and yet Baker v Nelson looms over you.
you know what i remember about the the "sith"?, his defeat.


Oh, of course. That recent 9th Circuit decision didn't really happen, and wasn't based on the same reasoning I've been talking about on this board for over a year. I'm just making it up.

Would anyone else on the board like to volunteer his or her opinion on whether the underlined statement makes any sense?

why? do you need their help?
let me dumb it down for you....just because you are forced to subsidize Oaks does not mean that i should to be forced to subsidize LGBT marriages.
Just because you do not protest your situation does not mean i can not protest mine.


That has nothing to do with the issue. If marriage is about having children, then neither childless marriages nor same-sex marriages should get any tax benefits.

Tell you what, Subgenius: would you be in favor of a public referendum that said any marriages that fail to produce children within a given period of time are void?

no, why would i?
you really are deeply entrenched my friend.


If Skinner means what you keep saying it means, then what legal basis would you possibly have to oppose such a referendum?

Subgenius, as consistently and repeatedly demonstrated in your posts, neither I nor anyone else is infringing on your right to make a fool of yourself.

a freedom you obviously take full advantage for yourself.


Your "I know you are but what am I?" response would be more impressive if you were not contradicting yourself by claiming that Skinner v. Oklahoma substantively determined for the states that marriage is for the purpose of procreation, but at the same time you think heterosexual marriages that do not produce children should be legally valid.

And as sentimental as your allusion to Jean Valjean is,.....

my only sentiment is that you thinking you are smart is far above where you actually are.
Your rather clumsy insistence that somehow the 14th applies to your argument is amusing, but it is just mostly unfounded. The Constitution does not require things which are different in fact or opinion to be treated in law as though they were the same.


Okay. So what is there about Dallin H. Oaks' or Russell M. Nelson's geriatric, childless second marriages that a same-sex couple could not also do?

oh by the way....did i mention Baker v Nelson?


Yes, so I guess it's lucky that Elder Oaks and Elder Nelson did not decide to have their second marriages performed in Minnesota, since under Baker there is no reason for their marriages to be legally recognized.
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subgenius wrote:you may think that, but you wont be able to prove it, and we all consider personal opinions and anecdotal evidence a poor foundation for defining society's laws and virtues.

i have not made that claim...if you read the thread history, you will note that i assert the well supported position that with all else equal, children are best served when they are raised in an environment with married biological parents.
I have made no claim towards Biblical marriage, nor even what Biblical marriage is defined as.
if you find a need to rally around something the Bible states perhaps you should focus on the following:
1 Timothy 2:12 and 1 Cor 14:34

yay! a link from the gay christian alliance,
and a more inadequate understanding of the scriptures and the context of Mosaic law i have seldom read.


the repetition of this idea throughout your post about this topic does not prove that same-sex marriage is a positive aspect, or even by-product, of evolution. You confuse an increased political influence with things that actually have meaning.


The Mosaic Law is the the Law of Love at the level that could be received and implemented by a nomadic peoples.

It is promised in the Bible that we will evolve - that instead of needing a law outside of us, directions on how to love, the Law will be a part of us, written on our hearts. We will evolve yes! From needing God on the outside telling us what to do to having God guiding each of from the within.

The best environment for children will likewise evolve. I find what same sex parents have done for this generation of children exceptionally incredible. We now have children who are not in bondage to 'gender roles' decided by society, but guided by their hearts, just as God fore-ordained, being who they are from the inside out. Thus we have males exhibiting confidently the sensitivity that before would have resulted in shame and ridicule. Heterosexual men now feeling free to be sensitive and caring, free to engage in deeper intimacy, thanks to the homosexual example that has been provided us.

I believe that homosexuality has been a gift from God, to carry is in evolution beyond what we have been able to do without. Praise God!

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Buffalo wrote:
subgenius wrote:yay! a link from the gay christian alliance,
and a more inadequate understanding of the scriptures and the context of Mosaic law i have seldom read.


And of course, the chances of you actually backing up that claim are precisely zero.

how exactly do you recommend that i "back up" a claim about what i have read or what i have not read?
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Darth J wrote:1. Baker was decided.......

i appreciate how you completely sidestep your previous assertion in the face of an answer being given to a question you obviously thought would yield no answer.
You asked for a state that used Skinner, and you were given it....and you avoid the simple courtesy of a touche'.
Now, as you change canoes in mid-stream, you seem to have left your paddle behind.

2. Baker cited Skinner in the same breath that it cited Genesis. The Book of Genesis is not law. Regarding the definition of marriage under Minnesota state law, Skinner is not law, either.

no one ever said it was the law. You asked and you were answered. Skinner is not law, but it was used, as you so blatantly were unaware of, to support a decision that upheld a "law"...that is to say a constitutional amendment.

3. If Skinner really means what you keep saying it means, and the U.S. Supreme Court really did define
marriage as being for the purpose of procreation

you tout yourself as some sort of legal eagle (again) but you fail to understand the most simple concepts. the Supreme Court did not define marriage's purpose, nor do i claim they did. They simply inextricably linked marriage and procreation in terms of human survival....perhaps you should actually read the Skinner decision.

...there is a substantive due process right to same-sex marriage

there is no evidence to support this argument...there is more cause for the opposite.

No, because I have never argued a basis for same-sex marriage being recognized that requires homosexuality to be treated as a suspect classification...

you could have stopped at "i have never argued..."
if you insist on moving goalposts and revisionist framing of your argument then good luck to you.
You have invoked the 14th on this cause and you have no basis for it.
Even the most cursory review of your assertion concludes that on one hand you are arguing the substantive perspective with due process. However, that tack can go 2 different routes...it involves one of fundamental rights or one of non-fundamental rights...and between these two you seem to go back and forth. Its a clever ploy, but playing the substantive due process game is rather cliché at this point and fails to carry with it anything more than impressing a coffee-shop crowd.
Besides you are showing your indequacy by trying to argue a matter of constitutional equal protection or due process without the rational basis review. Your Substantive arguments do not apply to the matter at hand.
If marriage is about having children, then neither childless marriages nor same-sex marriages should get any tax benefits.

you try to make the exception the rule (again). The benefit is a means of encouragement, then when coupled with the benefit for actually having children one receives the maximum - thus encouraging the attainment of both conditions.

...there is no reason for their marriages to be legally recognized.

now i see why your arguments avoid the "rational basis"...because there is no rationality well from which you may drink. In the wake of being served the Baker response you have chosen the lower road and your subsequent arguments flail around in desperation with mouths gaping open for a hook upon which they may be pulled into the boat of common sense.....too bad.
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sheryl wrote:....I believe that homosexuality has been a gift from God, to carry is in evolution beyond what we have been able to do without. Praise God!

Sheryl


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Subgenius, you might as well admit you know nothing about the law. You're in over your head.
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Buffalo wrote:Subgenius, you might as well admit you know nothing about the law. You're in over your head.

ahhh...the last cry from the defeated, as they realize it but are not yet able to admit it.

I already served Darth J a humble sandwich when he tried to put up his "name one state" argument...as if that was something of debate substance....then having an appetite for more he conveniently steps away from that one (for fear of more getting on his face).

and then you...the standard bearer of all things inadequate, have you decided on how i would "prove" my previous claim about what i have read or not read?
likely not, because once again we read posts that have you firmly entrenched as the head cheerleader, a player never to be.

as for "knowledge" of the law..i am pretty sure that none of us are overwhelmed with offers to argue this case before any court....least of all some internet nazi grammar guy who thinks he is a star wars antagonist.
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