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"Marry or separate" potential converts told...

Posted: Mon Oct 10, 2011 7:41 am
by _jon
When Missionaries happen to come across an unmarried couple who are potential interested in converting to Mormonism, at some point in the discussions they have the give the couple this message:
"Men and women who are living together but are not married may not be baptised without first getting married or separated."
(Preach My Gospel manual)

In America where would an unbaptised couple go to get married?

It goes on to say:
"Those who are married to more than one person at a time may not be baptised"
(Preach My Gospel manual)

There is currently reported a fast growth of members in Africa - where the number of men who more than one wife, is higher than perhaps anywhere else.

So do these rules apply in Africa?
Are the numbers of African converts compliant with these rules?

Re: "Marry or separate" potential converts told...

Posted: Mon Oct 10, 2011 4:40 pm
by _LDS truthseeker
jon wrote:So do these rules apply in Africa? YES
Are the numbers of African converts compliant with these rules? DON'T KNOW, WOULD YOU?

Re: "Marry or separate" potential converts told...

Posted: Mon Oct 10, 2011 5:30 pm
by _jon
LDS truthseeker wrote:
jon wrote:So do these rules apply in Africa? YES
Are the numbers of African converts compliant with these rules? DON'T KNOW, WOULD YOU?


I read somewhere (I think it was a news article but can't be sure) that the Church was dealing with the baptism of Polygamous African males in a soft way - what I mean is that they were being asked to stop being Polygamous but don't disown your existing wives.

I may have got that wrong so feel free to put me right.

Re: "Marry or separate" potential converts told...

Posted: Wed Oct 12, 2011 1:48 am
by _Jason Bourne
Polygamists cannot join the church even in Africa. If they want to join they have to have only one wife.

Re: "Marry or separate" potential converts told...

Posted: Fri Oct 14, 2011 10:56 pm
by _ajax18
Legal marriage was not required of couples living in free union in my mission at one time as well. People complained when the church did start requiring it. It costs money to get divorced legally. I'd bet any third world country has a similar situation.