Wade wrote:I am sorry that your return to Utah has engender such vile sentiments in you towards your former faith--at least enough to motivate you to share it in such harsh ways publically here.
It causes me to wonder, though, like with so many of Kimberlyann's posts, what value you expect to derive in saying these kinds of denegrating things. Do you suppose it will somehow make you a better person, or improve conditions generally? Is it born of love and intended to encourage mutual respect?
Thanks, -Wade Englund-
I don't see anything "harsh" or "vile" in Runtu's post. I agree with Harmony. I see his post as a pained reflection of a lost way of life. It is a post filled more with hurt and melancholy than anger.
In answer to your second series of questions, Wade, yes, I think that Runtu's posting his reflections will aid in making him a better person. Writing things down and discussing feelings is a form of recognition. How can you move forward if you can't recognize where you are? Posting what he is feeling is freeing, and allows him to not stay mired in his current state. He can discuss his feelings with friends, and move forward. Yes, it will improve his conditions generally, because he can't talk about how he is feeling at home. It will only upset his spouse. He has to have some outlet to talk about this stuff. He's already been diagnosed with depression, so keeping things buried inside is not a good idea.
Are his comments born of love and intended to encourage mutual respect? Yes, I believe they are. Runtu has never struck me as someone with a hidden agenda. His motives are very pure. He is simply reaching out to his friends. As far as mutual respect....Runtu has never personally attacked anyone for their belief. His wife is still LDS. He respects her right to believe what she will. He simply can no longer believe it because of the soul searching journey that he has made.
How's that for armchair psychology?
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