John Dehlin on the Immorality of Mormonism!

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fetchface wrote:Now, the church leaders are certainly out of step with the Gospel Principles manual definition of honesty, but as we can now see, that also was just a God-approved lie to get us to do what they want! :lol:

I don’t understand what it is that the LDS Gospel stands for anymore, I don’t think Church Leaders know either. It’s such a moveable feast from one Prophet to the next...
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I have a question wrote:I don’t understand what it is that the LDS Gospel stands for anymore, I don’t think Church Leaders know either. It’s such a moveable feast from one Prophet to the next...

I'll let you in on the secret:

The word "gospel" means "Good news! you get to obey the leaders!" Nothing more, nothing less. :lol:
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fetchface wrote:But it depends on where you are getting your "standards of morality" within Mormonism. I already pointed out D&C 19 where there is a clear example of God using deceptive language to motivate people to obey. Where in Mormon theology is it definitively settled that lying is always bad? I'm not making an argument that they should deceive, but I don't think that one can say that their own standards unambiguously settle this for them. An LDS leader who wants to justify dishonesty in their own mind, unfortunately, has material to work with (not to mention a 2nd anointing get out of jail free card).

No one is claiming the Mormon theology is consistent. And scriptures can be used to justify any action any time. Perhaps one can find examples in "scripture" that appear to justify immoral actions though they still are immoral actions done in a "higher cause". I disagree that D&C 19 is analogous. What they were hiding and from who is not very clear since it was published for the world to see anyways, but even so, from an LDS point of view, I hardly think it justifies what we are looking at as far the nearly 200 years long institutional effort by the church to mislead and lie to their own members. This isn't a "milk before meat" issue, this is a forced IV that is never removed whose contents are a "secret" because it's better for the patient that way.

cinepro wrote:fetchface already made my point for me, so I'll just ask what you read in the scriptures that makes you think the Mormon God has any problem with using a "crafted narrative" to get people to do what He wants?

I don't remember stating that there is a specific scriptural reference to my claim, but certainly you are familiar enough with the P.O.S. (plan of salvation) to know that we are here to be tested. Now if you want to argue that there is not specific reference to the immorality of purposefully withholding information from members to make sure they pass that test, I'd find that the kind of defense SMAC or Crocket at MADD would make, technically true but not a good look for religious leaders claiming to talk directly to God and preaching free will and honesty with your fellow man from the pulpit. And. of course, there is the 8th commandment.
cinepro wrote:Mormonism (and the Mormon ideal as presented by God and the Prophets in the scriptures) is that you believe and do what you are told based on faith. Faith means believing something without having all the information (or in spite of contradicting information).

We are not just talking about making decisions based on a lack of information, we are talking about making decisions based on a long history of false, purposefully withheld, and/or misleading information. I think even LDS leaders would agree that faith in a false narrative is a false faith. In Mormonism, Satan's plan was one of blind obedience.
cinepro wrote:You can certainly argue that Church leaders are violating "their own beliefs", but you haven't really presented much evidence for your argument. Heck, Elder Packer even spelled it out explicitly in his infamous talk, which is still on the Church website to this day:
BKP once told me directly "you don't need to know that" when I asked him about the second anointing. He is hardly the poster boy of ethical behavior when it comes to his actions as a LDS leader. His actions and teachings regarding gays led directly to church sponsored physically and psychologically damaging efforts to "cure" gay people. If his actions don't rise to the level of immoral behavior even by church standards, nothing does I suppose. Another evidence of not following LDS teachings would be the lack of apology or even public recognition on his part that he was wrong about Gay people. "The church does not apologize" sort of thing.

Someone told of the man who entitled his book "An Unbiased History of the Civil War from the Southern Point of View". While we chuckle at that, there is something to be said about presenting Church history from the viewpoint of those who have righteously lived it. The idea that we must be neutral and argue quite as much in favor of the adversary as we do in favor of righteousness is neither reasonable nor safe.

In the Church we are not neutral. We are one-sided. There is a war going on, and we are engaged in it. It is the war between good and evil, and we are belligerents defending the good. We are therefore obliged to give preference to and protect all that is represented in the gospel of Jesus Christ, and we have made covenants to do it.


I get that the church wants to protect itself, but if the standard of comparison is pointing to a book on the Civil war from a Southern point of view, morality no longer seems to be part of the discussion. It should act like a religious organization purporting to follow basic moral beliefs like not lying to it's own members, not a government bent on winning a war by any means or justifying the war afterwards through hagiography.. Honestly I can't point to a line in the sand and say up to this point their actions are probably still moral and beyond that they are acting contrary to their own beliefs, but certainly the excommunication and shunning of members who publicly point out the flaws in our past and present, crosses it.

In the end you and Fetch may be right. It may really be that the whole point of today's Church is just to teach obedience, that we are here to learn how many earnings to wear, what the difference is between hot and cold caffeine, and to ignore the man behind the curtain. Get them all back to a God who now seems to value blind obedience over all. Pay. Pray and Obey may be all that is necessary for salvation.That may be what the church is right now, but it certainly does not represent anything that could be labeled a restoration of the message Christ was teaching or doing as it claims to be.
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Whether or not the leadership believes the Church is true is irrelevant to the decision to hide facts. If it's true, they ought to believe there is some higher truth that can be made manifest to support the truth claims.

Dehlin's statement doesn't resonate with me because of anything having to do with the Church itself. It aligns with a principle I believe in. When Mormon, I thought the Church shared that belief. When the facts proved they didn't, it played a role in my recognizing the church as not being a moral authority nor sharing my moral views.

It's that simple. The Church treated the manipulation of truth in a way incongruous with what I believe to be moral authority, and as such the leadership that enacted or supported those actions acted immorally. Are they themselves immoral, as in they are either moral or immoral people? Please. That's childish and turns the world into black-and-white oversimplified B.S.
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Religious narratives are basically myths. The LDS Church is in the unfortunate position of having turned a version of its history into a myth. Historical understanding changes fairly constantly, but, in the Judea-Christian tradition, which is fixed by the Biblical canon, constantly shifting myths can be more problematic. Wrestling with these problems, as the LDS Church must do, is not easy, and calling the process of wrestling with it "immoral" when it fails to meet poorly understood criteria is unproductive.

Moral condemnation is a poor device for dealing with complex problems. It is a shortcut.
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Even the peep stone that the Book of Mormon was translated with was stolen. :lol: :lol: :lol: That's Mormon morality for ya.
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Even crying evils have been complex, though. Or at least they have seemed so to people involved, even when later generations have found the moral issues starkly clear. So I don’t feel that complexity alone can be a Get Out of Jail Free card. It’s a card that even monsters can play.
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Physics Guy wrote:Even crying evils have been complex, though. Or at least they have seemed so to people involved, even when later generations have found the moral issues starkly clear. So I don’t feel that complexity alone can be a Get Out of Jail Free card. It’s a card that even monsters can play.


So declaring that an immoral act is being perpetrated, you hold who to be responsible? What is the clear good of turning on a dime to teach scholarly history in Sunday School? Various goods and evils will inevitably be weighed in the process of seeking answers and reasonable people will draw different conclusions in weighing them. To say that what is going on is simply immoral is either to be bold in declaring your opinion or rash in jumping to conclusions. No one who stands back and weighs all the factors will find it easy to join you in your conclusion. Others will not join you at all. The latter are not obviously the moral midgets.
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I have found Jonathan Haidt's research valuable in helping me realize that others prioritize their moral principles differently than me and it doesn't make them bad people. I disagree with their priorities but I think they are attempting to prioritize the principles that are important to them.
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I have an idea that power brings greater responsibility. I’m not sure how that works, exactly. Somebody making decisions that will affect many others is still just a person like everyone else, doing the best they can.

But perhaps the point is precisely whether they are really doing the best they can. Most of the time, I think, none of us does. Making decisions is hard, and if the consequences either way are not great then I think it’s okay not to work as hard as you in principle could to pick the very best option. You don’t have to consider unlikely scenarios or go to great lengths to research every issue. You can just pick something that seems okay and get on with your life. You’re not really doing your best to decide but that’s fine.

When your decisions affect other people, however, I think you do have to do more. A decision that would be fine for one person might be immorally lazy or cowardly for someone in power.

The other people also have their own viewpoints and values. If you have power then when you only choose according to your own principles, you are imposing your principles on those others. I think that demands that you have to obey some kind of higher principle.

Exactly what, I don’t know. But I think power makes a difference.
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