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Runtu wrote:Last week I reread Packer's "unwritten order of things" talk, and at one point, he was going through a laundry list of things that "bother" him; that's really what the "teased hair" thing is about. It's not that God cares how we do our hair, but rather that this one guy is bothered by teased hair and figures he has the power to make it stop.


Can you imagine being married to him? "No, you cannot wear your hair that way"... "No, you can't wear that"... "No, you can't talk dirty to me... don't you know who I am?" Geez...........
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harmony wrote:Can you imagine being married to him? "No, you cannot wear your hair that way"... "No, you can't wear that"... "No, you can't talk dirty to me... don't you know who I am?" Geez...........


I could...and I could also imagine the resurrection of the ideals of Lorena Bobbit...
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GIMR wrote:I could...and I could also imagine the resurrection of the ideals of Lorena Bobbit...


Perhaps there is nothing left to Bobbit, and perhaps that is the reason for all these speeches about appearance. You know what they say about men who buy 4x4 trucks and then put those enormous tires on them. Well, I have to wonder if the same doesn't apply to Packer. when you've got nothing, appearance is all there is.
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I call that "Little Dog Syndrome"

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That's because, at heart, you are a Pharisee. Get over it.


As I suspected. You can't defend any counter position. Thanks for elucidating the obvious.


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He's giving counsel to members of the church based on church principles.


Pray tell, how? What does teased hair have to do with any Church principle?

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This has got to be just about the dumbest question someone who claims to understand LDS doctrine could possible have concocted. Do you really wan't an answer, or is this just a pretext for more verbiage?


If you could show me where Packer said anyone was going to Hell for teasing their hair, It would be appreciated.


A good example of just this type of coercion was David Bednar's recent praise of the RM who dumped the girl he considered marrying because she wouldn't remove her extra pair of earrings after GBH's "counsel" on the subject.


You've lost me again. Where is the coercion here? Oh, and by the way Rollo, you've admitted to being a very staunch "liberal" in this forum, and so a question has to be asked: just when did liberals begin having problems with coerciing others (except in the sexual realm, where behavioral and moral anarchy reigns)?


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One's spirituality and closeness to God is determined by oneself.


Precisely. And not by very old-fashioned octogenarians with no fashion sense.


1. You're concept of "old fashioned" may be little more than a personal subjective idological predjudice or psychologically driven animus. Still no philosophically serious argument as to what is really wrong with the standards, except you're utterly phony and contrived "coercion" claims.

2. Your personal animus against the age and generation of the GA's isn't relevant.




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The determination as to concequences of our choices are a part of the fabric of the universe and its laws, as made known by the gospel of Jesus Christ. Packer, is dong nothing more than reminding or making clear to his listeners what those consequences can be.


For the umpteenth time: pray tell, what is the relation between teased hair and the gospel of Jesus Christ?


I'm considering whether I should just give you a hint (which will probably be utterly lost on you), or condescend to a more lenghty explanation. Its a very interesting subject actually; the intersection between how we adorn, ornament, and symbolize ourselves, and the core principles of the Gospel regarding the nature of "spirituality" and our attainment of it.

I'll give this some thought. But, as an expert on LDS doctrine and philosophy yourself, why should I even need to elucidate this to you?
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Coggins7 wrote:
This is pure sophistry unless to can develop some pretty compelling extended argument, both philosophically and psycholgically, that would provide a reason to believe such a claim, and why or how it would be relevant to ecclesiastical leaders counselling the members of their faith community on that communities cultural standards. Freedom to choose does indeed equal lack of control if by that one means any overt use of force to prevent or obtain some desired behaviour or lack thereof. Your human-being-as-puppet worldview (except for enlightened, liberated liberals such as yourself) is both condescending and intellectually slovenly, in my view. Try something else.



Let's back up a bit. I want to find out what you think control IS. The way i'm reading you, you think an 'overt use of force' is required. Is this correct? And is this ONLY physical force? Or could it possibly be some type of psychological force?

What about a threat of ADVERSE consequences? IE., do this, or you're going to hell.


I think you are attempting a fantastic stretch of the English language and the imagination in at attempt to artificially construct a criticism of the church that belies the lengths you feel you have to go to to pull a rabbit out of that hat. It is quite clear to me that the making known or communication of the possible adverse consequences of x behavior is about as far from coercion as one can go. We apparantly disagree on the connotations as well as lexical definitions of the language, and so cannot communicate very well. You have clearly, for psychological or purly polemical reasons, conflated the concepts of coercion and persuasion such that to attempt to persuade you through argument or authoritative explication (if you accept that I have some authority) that adverse consequences may follow from imitation of the styles and manners (and mannerisms) of those in the great and spacious building is tantamount to exercising some kind of coercive power over you.

The best argument I could muster that your entire position here is bogus is the very fact that you and a number of others here, many of which were once members of the church, are here all taking contrary positions. That very fact puts the whole 'coercion" claim about church counsel into the philosophical waste basket where conceptual or logically self negating arguments and claims belong.



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Packer also sang to the students a song from his days at the institute of religion at Weber State: "Root-te-toot, Root-te-toot, we are the boys of the institute, we don't smoke and we don't chew, and we don't go with girls that do."



Just as an aside to the level and nature of what must go on in most journalism schools these days, the reporter here couldn't even get basic facts about the talk correct. Packer didn't sing anything. He spoke the lyrics (to the laughter of the audience. It was a light moment and everybody there, including Packer, knew it). This reporter is a Dork.


Well I think he has insulted my daughters, who are the most moral human beings I know. If he thinks hairstyle determines morality, then he's living in some kind of extremist fantasy.


That's what YOU say about your daughters. Who knows what the REAL truth may be (on the next Oprah...)
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He, and a few million equally delusional people, think he's one of God's chosen mouthpieces. It's a power trip few men could resist, and Packer is not one to miss an opportunity to crack the whip he holds.


Your self righteous delusions of liberal moral granduer are becoming more fevered by the week Harmony. Soon you'll be so morally, psychologically, and intellectually superior to most faithful Mormons that we'll have to start worshipping you (and then you can start cracking the whip...).
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Coggins7 wrote:
He, and a few million equally delusional people, think he's one of God's chosen mouthpieces. It's a power trip few men could resist, and Packer is not one to miss an opportunity to crack the whip he holds.


Your self righteous delusions of liberal moral granduer are becoming more fevered by the week Harmony. Soon you'll be so morally, psychologically, and intellectually superior to most faithful Mormons that we'll have to start worshipping you (and then you can start cracking the whip...).


Shouldn't be that hard of a leap considering you already worship man as a fundie TBM.
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Ray said:
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Well I think he has insulted my daughters, who are the most moral human beings I know. If he thinks hairstyle determines morality, then he's living in some kind of extremist fantasy.


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That's what YOU say about your daughters. Who knows what the REAL truth may be (on the next Oprah...)


Coggins, I'm curious. For someone who is suppose to be defending Christ's Church, why do you consistently have to take cheap pot shots at people? You know what? I probably wouldn't even say anything if you were taking a cheap shot at Ray, because he's an adult and can handle himself. But coming after someone's children? That's just evil, in my opinion as a parent. How dare you insinuate that Ray's daughters are immoral! Shame on you! I'm sorry, but when you bring someone's kids into this type of discussion in a negative manner, even in jest, or just to make a point, it's crossing the line.

You owe Ray an apology.

What's sad is....as to the point that you are insipidly trying to make, I actually agree with you! I just radically disagree with your approach. Go over to the MAD board where your tactics will be appreciated.

For those of you who missed Coggin's point through all of his idiotic sniping, it is this. Packer's message was simply that we should reflect our wholesome intentions in our dress and the way we present ourselves. It IS possible to dress modestly and still be stylish. As parents, we need to take an active role in helping our children do this. After all, we're the ones who buy the clothes they wear.

Now, Packer's comments about "teased hair", simply reflected his age and era. It was a poor analogy.
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liz3564 wrote:
Ray said:
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Well I think he has insulted my daughters, who are the most moral human beings I know. If he thinks hairstyle determines morality, then he's living in some kind of extremist fantasy.


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That's what YOU say about your daughters. Who knows what the REAL truth may be (on the next Oprah...)


Coggins, I'm curious. For someone who is suppose to be defending Christ's Church, why do you consistently have to take cheap pot shots at people? You know what? I probably wouldn't even say anything if you were taking a cheap shot at Ray, because he's an adult and can handle himself. But coming after someone's children? That's just evil, in my opinion as a parent. How dare you insinuate that Ray's daughters are immoral! Shame on you! I'm sorry, but when you bring someone's kids into this type of discussion in a negative manner, even in jest, or just to make a point, it's crossing the line.

You owe Ray an apology.

What's sad is....as to the point that you are insipidly trying to make, I actually agree with you! I just radically disagree with your approach. Go over to the MAD board where your tactics will be appreciated.

For those of you who missed Coggin's point through all of his idiotic sniping, it is this. Packer's message was simply that we should reflect our wholesome intentions in our dress and the way we present ourselves. It IS possible to dress modestly and still be stylish. As parents, we need to take an active role in helping our children do this. After all, we're the ones who buy the clothes they wear.

Now, Packer's comments about "teased hair", simply reflected his age and era. It was a poor analogy.



Well said, Liz! Cog, you really are an ass. And that's just me talking.

It seems to me that those who claim to wear the mantle of "God's chosen people" are always the ones who wear it so shabbily. No wonder so many people in this world disparage Christianity, with people like Cog Dis as representatives, who would want to get to know Jesus?

As far as the point Cog was trying to make through all his childishness, I agree with it. Yes, you can be modest in your dress and be stylish. Which is something I plan to teach my daughters should I ever have any. Liz, you're right, the parents buy the clothes. And personally I don't like a lot of what I see in little girls wear in the stores these days. My four-year-old will look like a four-year-old, not some bite-sized woman. I cringe each time I see a young girl in tight clothes with sparkly lip gloss on her eyelids. There's time enough for that!

My mother didn't let me wear makeup regularly until I was 16. My first homecoming she bought me some makeup from the clinique counter, but I could only wear it in pictures and to dances.

We can control how fast our kids grow up if we try.
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