Limnor wrote: ↑Wed Jan 28, 2026 11:43 pm
Second bundle of questions…
I’m genuinely curious how people here experienced the “burning bosom” language when they believed. For those who had something they took as confirmation at the time, did that experience fade? Was it reinterpreted later? Was there a realization that the words were rote or was it real to you? Did it become more about loyalty than personal experience?
Feel free to blast away at me if these are too personal of questions, but I’m genuinely curious. When you guys talk to MG, sometimes there seems to be an unstated understanding that something isn’t quite right and I’ve been wondering if that means you know how he is playing because you were once in those shoes.
I'll give it a shot. Ask yourself, why would a person come to a place for literally decades, a place mostly comprised of people who have left his religion, and repeatedly post passive aggressive insults, bigotry and stereotyping? Regardless of the topic, he eventually works the discussion around to telling those people that they are, as a group, less worthy, less righteous, less 'good' than he is.
If he really felt this way, he could just be content in that knowledge, without reaching out. Many of us grew up with that inbred training, but, thankfully, thought our way out of it. I do think he has also realized, like many here, that those 'burnings in the bosom' feelings are internally generated, and come from being born into and trying to fit in to an established way of life, not from any supernatural power outside himself, but, he cannot leave the comfort of his cocoon.
Mg has subtly admitted multiple times that he is comfortable staying in because his family is in. How else do you push down that realization that you are wrong to believe your 'in-group' is the only special and important group than by repeatedly attacking the 'out-group'? And he has a very unique situation here. Shades allows his bigotry and stereotyping under the guise of free speech. There is literally no other online community he could visit and attack the way he attacks the community here, because other communities value free speech AND community. Shades sees his attacks as part of the entertainment, so, mentalgymnast comes here, the only place that will allow his repeated and offensive stereotyping and bigotry. Not even Mormon-related subreddits allow this any more, as requirements of civility are paramount.
I've mentioned this before, but DrW's thread is still the best source for an explanation that the source of spiritual feelings is simply internal to our brains and not evidence of anything supernatural.