I Have Questions wrote: ↑Wed Mar 05, 2025 11:49 am
MG 2.0 wrote: ↑Wed Feb 26, 2025 3:21 am
Step outside and breathe. Hug a child. Serve a neighbor. Take a drive. Read a good book. Have a real life conversation. Get off the dang keyboard!
There are two questions that stem from MG's opening thread post that he still hasn't adequately answered.
The first one is for him to explain how he has concluded that he spends more time on the activities he lists than the rest of the board, given that he spends more time posting here than any other poster (Note: He's been posting on Mormon message boards for more than 20 years). So that's 1 unanswered question.
I'm not saying that I haven't spent a significant amount of time here. I was suggesting that those that are unbelievers might find better things to do with their time.
I Have Questions wrote: ↑Wed Mar 05, 2025 11:49 am
the second unanswered question is about his suggestion that people should go around hugging kids. He has mentioned that, as an adult male school teacher, he went around hugging the children. In schools that's a red flag as it is indicative of grooming behaviour. Even if MG wasn't intending on grooming the children for himself to abuse, he was desensitising the kids to the dangers posed by a nefarious unrelated adult male hugging a child. The same applies if he is going around on a Sunday hugging kids at church. It's dangerous behaviour one way or another.
So MG, please explain what kids, specifically, you were advocating board members go and hug?
I'm leaving that up to you. I suppose I was making an assumption that board members would be able to tell the difference between appropriate contact with children and that which is inappropriate. Maybe I was mistaken in making that assumption.
The million dollar question is how do YOU, IHAQ,
define a hug? I gave you mine earlier. How would you define it?
IHAQ, you live in the UK. I suppose this whole WOKE crap has gone to everyone's head. Grooming?
That's sick. Is that where your mind goes? As I said earlier, you live in a different 'mindspace' than I do.
By the way, back when I was teaching, hand on the shoulder or arm around the back with a pat of "good job kiddo!" were fairly infrequent (reason below). Even at that time there were more instances in our school district of inappropriate behaviors with children. We would talk about that during faculty meetings and lunch as to the fact that some 'bad apples' had ruined things for those that simply knew that children, at times, need someone to reach out and give them a pat on the shoulder or a quick 'side hug' if the child comes in after recess and wanted to give a 'full on' hug to the teacher.
Any physical contact of any sort was NEVER given when alone with a child. Obviously.
Granted, male teachers are the ones that have mainly been in the news and as a result the WOKE crowd looks at every instance of adults making any sort of physical contact and instance of grooming.
How insane. And you've played right into it.
Again, I thought it went without saying that you and others would be able to determine for yourselves what appropriate behavior would be in regards to giving a child a hug.
And here we are. Going in for a rehash now?
Regards,
MG