Pokatator wrote:
Ray are you admitting that we have been mugged by the Church? I think so.
Thanx
You're welcome. I fully understand the plight of exmos. After all, I became one 20 years ago. So am I supposed to keep digging up dirt on the Church to make myself feel better? Apparently some do, and just can't let it go. They go from zealous Mormons to zealous anti-Mormons. They are just as passionate about their anti-Mormonism as they were about their Mormonism.
Gee, even when I went on Exmo-Social to discuss social issues, some couldn't let it go. Then I began to wonder if any exmo could talk rationally about their former religion, well, at least among Internet exmos. It was like looking for a saint in Sodom. Like a bitter divorcee out to get his/her ex-spouse, and heaven knows
I have experienced
that to a degree most haven't. When I first went through divorce seven years ago I was bitter, but I got such good advice from so many friends who were in similar situations - brother, move on, life goes on. And it did. The world doesn't want to know how bitter and angry you are, and you'll get a lot more understanding if you face your trials with courage, and speak your mind without cheap digs at people or a religion (or spouse) you once worshipped (or loved). The world doesn't want to hear your petty quarrels, hates, and constant fault-finding, nor your brooding sarcasm about Mormonism. Maybe it's a stage many have to go through. How is it possible to discuss anything rationally when so many threads are started with the purpose of belittling Mormons? They do it too? Maybe if there was less complaining about how Mormon missionaries dress, or how they slurp soup, they would not do it. I made a promise to myself a long time ago on FAIR that I would cease cheap or sarcastic criticism of the Church, and it becomes a habit.
And to those who say I can't stop criticising exmos - When you stop criticising Mormonism, I promise I will stop criticising exmos. You have my promise! And of course I'm speaking of negative, unproductive, unwarrented criticism - like this thread, and so many others.
I have work to do.