Hi Ajax...
Thanks for your honesty.
Maybe because of my animal ancestry?
If you think that's impossible, than I guess we'll have to let it go at that.
Nope.. I've been pretty clear that there are women who do not really like sex, men, or intimacy and they are perfect candidates for sharing a man.
It seems that it was that way in times past,
Actually even in the animal kingdom, in the harem lifestyle, the females while attached to a male are not faithful to him. They "sleep around." ;-)
I don't really see how this phenomena fits into the idea that humans are solely about pair bonding.
Research is very conclusive about this... the vast majority of humans pair bond. They just do.
Some days I think the happiest state I could achieve would be to have no wife at all. Had I been raised Catholic or another religion that allows a way out of marriage, I probably would have foregone marriage. I still credit Joseph Smith with bringing the doctrine that marriage is actually the greatest good, not celibacy. I know Martin Luther may have pushed this as well, but I think it was a very important reform.
To be honest, I wonder if you had a really fabulous marriage if you would not be less inclined to having multiple women to adore and cater to you. Just a thought.... ;-)
And maybe, if you were close to a woman you would feel less inclined to engage in a system/lifestyle that was so unequal, degrading, and where the man is the authority/dominant/supreme alpha male, with women available for sex and servitude, rather than a true partnership? I'm guessing if you were, you would want heaven to be a lovely place for a beloved woman and you would care more about her happiness.
Maybe not....?
~dancer~