fetchface wrote:moinmoin wrote:No, for me, it's much more the dumbing down/watering down of the church experience and expectations. E.g., Preach My Gospel, Come Follow Me, missionary "fun" instead of missionary "work," two-hour block, etc.
Don't get me wrong --- I like the two hour block, but I think we all know that it is to try to keep people attending because church has been boring for a long time. I think it would have been better to attack the reasons why church is boring, and a lot of that has to do with some of the updates to "current" over "old-fashioned." And, our "teacher improvement" efforts do not actually improve teaching --- people regularly ditch the "teacher council" meetings. For wards who still hold them.
Things like that.
I think I follow what you are saying and I agree that addressing root causes is always better than treating symptoms, but a lot of what you are saying doesn't fit my experience.
I came of age in the '90s and I think things have been getting slowly less dumbed-down. I have no experience with Preach my Gospel or Come Follow Me (I only attend Sacrament as a goodwill gesture to my wife) but I find it hard to imagine a more dumbed-down church experience than what I got. I was 32 when I learned that Joseph was a polygamist from Wikipedia. Let that sink in. That's how dumbed-down my church experience was. We didn't know much except that the second coming was imminent (I honestly believed that It would happen before I was old enough to marry).
There is certainly more information available to the average member today than in the 90s. Potentially available, although I find that most people still don't avail themselves of it. The Church doesn't exactly heavily advertise the Gospel Topics essays, either, for example. They are pretty much there to be there to refer to. I also think they could be a lot better than they are, and I would like it if they were actually written by the Brethren (with consultation, as needed), rather than outsourced.
Mileage really varies according to "area roulette." Our seminary teacher teaches about Joseph Smith polygamy, seer stones, etc., but I don't think this is yet the norm in most areas.
I apologize if I am reading you wrong but I detect more than a little resentment that you are working hard and others are not. Would that be a fair statement to make? It seems that most of your complaints are leveled at people getting off easier than they should.
No apology necessary. No, I'm not resentful, or think that people are getting off easier than they should. I'm just seeing a) people not being as happy as they could be, and b) the ripple effect that this has on future generations.
All of this discussion is based on the overarching discussion about "whence the future generations of the Church?" And I think this is the single biggest factor that will ultimately tell the tale: level of commitment at the home level.