Lemmie wrote:He's probably in the wrong place, then.
Some of the Rules of the Board that I see as being taken to the edge...or over the cliff

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Everyone is welcome. Every opinion is welcome. Therefore, do not "de-invite" anyone or suggest that they go elsewhere.
Do not "derail" threads or otherwise insert commentary that has nothing to do with a thread's opening post. (although I am a repeat offender...)
Do not make threats or take actions to cause another member to feel
harassed or fearful for his or her safety "in real life." (I'm worried grindael could commandeer a train and take me out)

Thanks Shades for taking out the offending post.
No blatant or otherwise obvious personal attacks allowed. (I suppose this is in the eye of the beholder...that's me

It doesn't say anything about whether or not YOU believe these attacks to be warranted or not. )
For my own good I need to put some folks on ignore. To be honest, I do not like the repeated exposure to profanity (mild or not) and invective. To safe guard others that may feel the same way I do I will put these two on ignore and not read ANYTHING they have to say. That way, it will be less likely they will use the language that I believe to be unacceptable in civil discourse. Yes, there have been a few instances where I fell and did the same thing. That's what worries me. I don't want to be pulled into that sort of behavior and lower my standards. I don't use any form of profanity/invective in real life. I don't like to hear it when watching entertainment (we use Vid Angel to filter our movies) or talking with a real life gathering/group. I'm having to ask myself why I might put up with or find it acceptable here. I don't. If I'm not reading posts from grindael...a major offender...at all, he may find that it's not worth his time to continually talk trash. Others, therefore,
won't have to be exposed to it either because he has lost his target. Anyway, I thought I should explain where I'm coming from so that when there are obvious 'gaps' in conversations where it appears I'm not responding and/or have read certain posts, it's because I haven't.

Gonna have to be that way. I want to keep my mind free from filth. There are other poster(s) that I will not regularly interact with either because of the fact that the gutter talk and/or continual harassment is there and I'd rather not continue to read it.
I've read it once, twice, three times and more and figure I don't have to read it everytime I login here to simply have a conversation. And so it goes. Some will call me naïve or a whiner. Some will call me prudish. Some will have one thing or another to say in a negative light. So be it. But I'm really not here to subject myself or others to continual bad mouthing and repeating the same invective and/or criticisms over and over again.
So for those few...if I don't respond or seem to know what you're saying, etc., don't take it personally. Say what you will, but know that I'm not really interested in lowering my standards to the point where I'm thinking about "how can I butt kick this person", etc.
If you will read conversations that I have with some folks...canpakes for an example...you will see what I'm all about and what interests me. Conversation. Opinion.
I've said many times that I'm not an academic. I'm just a regular guy who likes to learn. Writing is also good for my mind/brain. It makes me think. I'm not here to be an apologist even thought I take that route by default because
I'm not a dogmatic died in the wool disbeliever. That seems to be what bugs some folks.
Regards,
MG