Mercury wrote:And furthermore what does your bishop think of your participation on a board that allows exmos on it without a muzzle?
Muzzling exmos has never come up in any conversation with my bishop.
charity wrote:Liz wrote:charity wrote:Beastie, I am sure that there are people who attend Church, pretend they are still believers, for family reasons.
But I don't know how a person who says they can't stand the "fact" that there are lies, etc. in the Church can live a lie themselves.
Do you deny that some of those who express their hatred of the Church on this board who are still attending aren't trying to sink the Church surreptitiously?
If you're referring to PP(Boaz), Merc, and Infymus, none of them attend Church on a regular basis. PP doesn't attend at all. I believe that Merc and Infymus occasionally attend Church for extended family functions.
Rollo Tomasi comes to mind. He has said he is an active member. But he is as dangerous as they come with some of the things he has said he has done, and the attitudes he has.
Harmony has expressed such disdain for the prophets and leaders, doctrines and practices of the Church, that the only way she can be getting a temple recommend, which she says she has, is be blinking, swallowing hard and keeping her fingers crossed during the temple recommend interview.
These are exactly those that Will described in the quoted paragraph.
charity wrote:...
Don't lie to the bishop to get a temple recommend.
Don't hold any callings where youth or children are in the stewardship or where teaching if part of the duties.
Don't take the sacrament, even if everone looks at you.
Don't speak out against any doctrine or teaching which is a part of Church doctrine or teachings inside any Church building.
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charity wrote:Rollo Tomasi comes to mind. He has said he is an active member. But he is as dangerous as they come with some of the things he has said he has done, and the attitudes he has.
ludwigm wrote:
I was an investigator for six years. (Do You know somebody who did the same amount?)
ludwigm wrote:In that span, I have attended more times than any active member of that ward (I have accompanied my wife). Always in the front row.
ludwigm wrote:I had a temple recommend - directly printed from the Internet - and many times have escorted my wife up to the gate of the (guesswhich) temple.
ludwigm wrote:
I had no calling, but I was a teacher - as in 40+ years of my civil life. The members knew me as scripturist.
ludwigm wrote:I didn't ever take the sacrament. (I know that there are more sacraments and the Lords Supper is only one of them and - among other things - Joseph Smith didn't know this.)
ludwigm wrote:I have never speak against doctrines or teachings. I have tried to explain them, with more or less success. (You know, explaining something can be very dangerous ... )
ludwigm wrote:Does it sound uncommon? Anyway, it is true.
beastie wrote:Most closet nonbelievers don't lie about their nonbelief, if asked. They simply avoid talking about their lack of belief, to avoid problems.
I know of only one closet nonbeliever who pretends to actually believe, and he only does so because of his wife. Not only did she declare he MUST remain active in church to stay married to her, but he must BELIEVE as well and be worthy of a temple recommend. So, to save his marriage, he pretends.
I do know of fringie believers who don't believe in the "right" way, like Harmony, and I imagine that is the group Will and Charity are talking about. That's why I said what this really demonstrates is that it's a lie that Mormonism is some big tent with very few demands in terms of "what you must believe", that accepts a variety of interpretations. That's a lie certain internet apologists like to repeat, but every now and then the truth comes out. Thanks, Will and Charity, for speaking the TRUTH to the LIE.
Runtu wrote:charity wrote:Rollo Tomasi comes to mind. He has said he is an active member. But he is as dangerous as they come with some of the things he has said he has done, and the attitudes he has.
The funny thing is that Rollo is a believer. When I was trying to decide what to about church, he encouraged me to stay and make it work. Believe it or not, Rollo is not some rabid undercover atheist. Why would an unbeliever tell me to stay in the church, find the good in it, and use the church as a means to bless lives?
charity wrote:Rollo has stated on another board that he would disobey God on any issue he disagrees with Him about, even if God were standing in front of him. Teaching disobedience to God is a "capital" offense.