On my mission we answered every question asked us, and if we didn't know the answer, we were invited to pick up the phone and call the mission President. He happened to be Joseph Fielding McConkie, co-author of numerous books with Millet. And he always had an answer.
Sorry, that is too hard to believe. What you’re saying conflicts with the video I just saw and my experience as a missionary. You don’t offer them meat in the beginning; that is what Millet said and that is the same line we were suppose to give people who complained about not getting the full scoop. Now you’re trying to tell me meat was handed out like candy on your mission, so long as the investigators asked for it.
I am also a return missionary. I served in two missions and the bedrock principle that we learned at the MTC is never to debate with investigators because that makes the “spirit” leave. If investigators gave any indication they could possibly be setting traps for us, we were to leave the premises immediately – with a prayer of course. I served in ex-Mormon central, Anaheim California as well as Madrid Spain, by the way.
Most missionaries simply don’t have the answers and most missions have nobody to provide them anyway.
This idea that the church hides its history and/or points of doctrine is ludicrous.
No it isn’t. It is pretty much an established fact. Gordon B. Hinckley doesn’t even know what’s taught in the Church and he is the President. That is what he had to say to get around answering a straightforward question for which most LDS already knew the answer. Black people are baptized regularly without any background information about the priesthood ban, and missionaries pray the issue never comes up during the discussions. This is “missionary malpractice” as Kevin Barney once put it. It should be required to inform black investigators of this fact.
I sat there in my friend’s living room as a dozen or so members zoned out with raised eye-brows at Hinckley’s response on Larry King.
Try inviting some missionaries over to your house while pretending to be an interested non-LDS. Then hit them with some rudimentary anti-Mormon questions and see how they respond. I sometimes go on spilts with the missionaries here in Brazil so I keep one foot in the mission field just to observe what’s changed – not much unfortunately. The MTC doesn’t teach missionaries to debate the sticky issues. You know this. It never has. It gives them a crash course on six discussions and then sends them out to rehearse specific questions, responding with specific verses, using specific methods. Some missionaries simply don’t know what to do if a discussion derails from the skit we learned at the MTC. Nothing learned at the MTC involves debating. The only time missionaries are allowed to debate is when an investigator who has been progressing through the discussions and has committed to baptism, hits an anti-Mormon brick wall. Then the missionaries are usually allowed to do their best in salvaging whatever is left of their golden investigator. Otherwise, pre-second discussion investigators are generally left in the dust if they start bringing up anti-Mormon concerns. And this is because LDS know that the chances of conversion at that point are minute. They’d have a better chance knocking the neighbor’s door.
Polygamy is in the Doctrine and Covenants for heavens sake. My mission taught me to teach whatever needed to be taught, and to back down from nothing. I don't know how other missions were, but mine taught me right and proper. Maybe I was lucky, I hear that I was.
Which mission and which year? Sounds like a fluke at best.