Fence Sitter wrote:Niadna wrote:Bull. Being an anti isn't about what you don't like.
It's about how you tell us you don't like it.
You will forgive me if I decline to acknowledge your claim to define what being an Anti is or is not. That is questing begging the topic at hand is it not?
Y'all are coming after ME with all guns blazing because you claim that I'm calling everybody but TBM's "Anti's' Some of you are very offended because you claim that I am calling everybody an anti.
I'm not trying to define 'anti' for anybody but me. The dividing line, FOR ME, between critic and anti, and between anti and 'extreme anti' has nothing whatsoever to do with beliefs, or experiences, or knowledge, or intent.
It's all about actions. Words. Three people can have the same opinion about us. Perhaps all three really don't like the idea of missionaries knocking upon their doors.
The critic will have arguments about it and may even state his in strong language, expressing his own disgruntlement at having his Saturday (or Sunday, whichever) interrupted, and he'll talk about how useless an exercise knocking on doors is, etc.
The anti will call the missionaries names. He'll call Mormons in general names. He may call those missionaries 'Satanists,' or 'cultists' and then go off and use ad hominems against every Mormon target he can think of. He'll accuse the missionaries, perhaps, of underhanded motives. He'll pile on the insults fast and deep.
The extreme anti will threaten to sic his dogs on the next missionary to show up, or better still, brag about how he (or his neighbor) already has. He'll rage about how Mormons don't have the right to go anywhere where people might not like them, and if they do, it is their fault if they are attacked. They will get so exercised that they MIGHT pick up a rock and throw it.
I don't write the dictionaries. I can't define 'anti' for you. However...
Since I'm the one USING the word, it would be a really good idea for me to know what *I* mean when I use it, and I THOUGHT, silly me, that if I let others know what I meant when I used it, Y'all would know that I don't automatically think that everybody who disagrees with me is an 'anti.'
When I call someone that, it's not because of any automatic assumption. It is because that person has acted in a manner that makes him an anti, in my view.
Perhaps I don't get to define 'anti' for YOU...but you don't get to define it for me, either. --and I'm not the only person who feels the way I do about this issue.