Ball dress - Shoes help.

[_Moniker]

Well, I hope you have a wonderful time! The Grease theme sounds like so much fun! :)

I don't know what I'll do. I wouldn't mind going with him so much if it wasn't such a drive. Yet, it's a bit of a drive and that would mean I'd have to talk to him... not that I mind talking to people (or him in particular), it's just I feel pressure of some sort. I wish I could just meet someone I like, liked me, and then that's that! Does that make sense? This man tries to impress me, and while that's rather sweet it makes me a tad uncomfortable.... and I would much rather just feel relaxed and not feel pressure of some sort. I actually already decided I don't like him that much....

I don't know what I'm trying to say. It's like he tries to read me and give me something and I'd just rather him be himself if he would. He's also rather persistent which makes me a tad uncomfortable. My parents know him, as well, which makes me nervous.... I married last time because of pressure exerted from my parents, and well, I don't know.... I just want to be left alone. :)

[_Doctor Steuss]

Although I may just buy a dress and sit at home....

Do it. I'll buy a new tie, and we can watch North by Northwest.

[_Sam Harris]

Well, I hope you have a wonderful time! The Grease theme sounds like so much fun! :)

I don't know what I'll do. I wouldn't mind going with him so much if it wasn't such a drive. Yet, it's a bit of a drive and that would mean I'd have to talk to him... not that I mind talking to people (or him in particular), it's just I feel pressure of some sort. I wish I could just meet someone I like, liked me, and then that's that! Does that make sense? This man tries to impress me, and while that's rather sweet it makes me a tad uncomfortable.... and I would much rather just feel relaxed and not feel pressure of some sort. I actually already decided I don't like him that much....

I don't know what I'm trying to say. It's like he tries to read me and give me something and I'd just rather him be himself if he would. He's also rather persistent which makes me a tad uncomfortable. My parents know him, as well, which makes me nervous.... I married last time because of pressure exerted from my parents, and well, I don't know.... I just want to be left alone. :)

Mon, I get what you're saying about the impressing part. In the beginning of relationships, sometimes people try to be who they think the other person wants them to be, instead of being themselves...

Parental pressure sucks. Mom is trying to ingratiate herself with mine...I really don't want to have to shut her down, it's nice that he has access to the house until we move. I need my regular nookie. Especially since today was my last day on our job, and I won't see him every day anymore...

Whatever you do, enjoy your birthday.

[_Moniker]

Girl, go be the belle of the ball, and let everyone stare and grovel at how beautiful you are.

With that dress...gloves...and a fan, if you can find one...necessity as well as style, as those events get hot. If you can find one the same red of the dress, that would be cool, or gold with red trim, or black.

If it's floor length, why not flats or converse? I have flat feet, I will be wearing bedroom slippers the day I get married. Who's gonna see?

I wonder if she should get a shawl? I would most definitely!

I personally like ballerina heels -- I adore them! I like to know I have them on, even if no one else knows. ;)

[_Moniker]

Although I may just buy a dress and sit at home....

Do it. I'll buy a new tie, and we can watch North by Northwest.

Really? Okay, it's a date! :)

[_Sam Harris]

A shawl would look most elegant. Girlfriend gonna have a harem before nights end...LOL

I have such flat feet, I can't walk long distances or wear heels... *sigh*

Oh well...

Maybe I'll just get a kick-assed pedicure and go barefoot the day I get married....

[Anonymous]

Well, I hope you have a wonderful time! The Grease theme sounds like so much fun! :)

I don't know what I'll do. I wouldn't mind going with him so much if it wasn't such a drive. Yet, it's a bit of a drive and that would mean I'd have to talk to him... not that I mind talking to people (or him in particular), it's just I feel pressure of some sort. I wish I could just meet someone I like, liked me, and then that's that! Does that make sense? This man tries to impress me, and while that's rather sweet it makes me a tad uncomfortable.... and I would much rather just feel relaxed and not feel pressure of some sort. I actually already decided I don't like him that much....

In other words...you want a mutual connection where you give a little, he gives a little, and 2 +2 equals 5. Not him doing a show tune medley while you sit back and are impressed or not.

I don't know what I'm trying to say. It's like he tries to read me and give me something and I'd just rather him be himself if he would. He's also rather persistent which makes me a tad uncomfortable. My parents know him, as well, which makes me nervous.... I married last time because of pressure exerted from my parents, and well, I don't know.... I just want to be left alone. :)

I could see someone being intimidated by you (you hottie you) and trying to impress you. Persistence...well that's just trying too hard.

Tell your parents to screw off. Be single with ole Bond.

[_Moniker]

Well, I hope you have a wonderful time! The Grease theme sounds like so much fun! :)

I don't know what I'll do. I wouldn't mind going with him so much if it wasn't such a drive. Yet, it's a bit of a drive and that would mean I'd have to talk to him... not that I mind talking to people (or him in particular), it's just I feel pressure of some sort. I wish I could just meet someone I like, liked me, and then that's that! Does that make sense? This man tries to impress me, and while that's rather sweet it makes me a tad uncomfortable.... and I would much rather just feel relaxed and not feel pressure of some sort. I actually already decided I don't like him that much....

I don't know what I'm trying to say. It's like he tries to read me and give me something and I'd just rather him be himself if he would. He's also rather persistent which makes me a tad uncomfortable. My parents know him, as well, which makes me nervous.... I married last time because of pressure exerted from my parents, and well, I don't know.... I just want to be left alone. :)

Mon, I get what you're saying about the impressing part. In the beginning of relationships, sometimes people try to be who they think the other person wants them to be, instead of being themselves...

Yes! Precisely! I feel quite sorry for men that attempt to do that with me.... 'cause well, I think I might be difficult to figure out, for some?

Parental pressure sucks. Mom is trying to ingratiate herself with mine...I really don't want to have to shut her down, it's nice that he has access to the house until we move. I need my regular nookie. Especially since today was my last day on our job, and I won't see him every day anymore...

Whatever you do, enjoy your birthday.

Yes, no matter what age I am my parents are constantly nosing in. My mother is such a control freak, and it drives her nuts that I am just so lackadaisical about so much. Oh, well. What is your mother doing?

[_Bond...James Bond]

I have such flat feet, I can't walk long distances or wear heels... *sigh*

LOL. I had a 20 minute conversation the other day with my "friend" about high heels. She let me in on the secret that they universally suck. She wears them like every day though cause she's 4'8". I'm flat footed and wear the most comfortable shoes I can find. Thank goodness I'm a dude for the shoes.

[_Moniker]

A shawl would look most elegant. Girlfriend gonna have a harem before nights end...LOL

I have such flat feet, I can't walk long distances or wear heels... *sigh*

Oh well...

Maybe I'll just get a kick-assed pedicure and go barefoot the day I get married....

There's a new trend of brides wearing lovely flip flops on their day. That's rather cute, I think!