Re: Stats prove when women are safer
Posted: Tue Apr 09, 2024 6:58 am
Well, I wouldn't visualise a 50 year old with a teenager. I think certainly below 18 should be illegal. It completely depends on the younger person's mental state but I can guarantee most older teens are too immature for adult life. They want to be out and living free to a degree. Do you really want to date someone who is partying? Who hasn't made a bunch of mistakes yet? Who hasn't found the path they want to take?doubtingthomas wrote: ↑Mon Apr 08, 2024 11:23 pmUnfortunately, there are campaigns trying to persuade young women to avoid older men, and they seem to be effective. Many people on the left are attempting to intervene in our dating lives.Imwashingmypirate wrote: ↑Mon Apr 08, 2024 6:42 amI thought that women were generally attracted to older men. Maturer men. Old childlike men not so much. I feel like I'm in an alternate universe in this thread.
"Men Who Date Much Younger Women ... Look Like Pedophiles"
https://medium.com/heart-affairs/dear-m ... 1a59336fdc
"Leonardo DiCaprio is nearly 50 and dating teenage girls. I’m sorry, but a 50 year old man that dates teenagers is a predator. Being a celebrity doesn’t exempt him from being a creep."
https://Twitter.com/SamanthaTaghoy/stat ... 84?lang=en
Celebrities dating celebrities or models, they kind of all are on the same path. And it seems a lot of them have been exposed to things that hopefully a lot of in school young adults haven't been exposed to.
People are judged and you have to either get on with it or don't do it. Moaning about it makes it look like you target young women. It is the target part that makes it concerning.
If you were dating all ages and then found a connection with a relatively young adult and it happened naturally then would there be people butting up against you? Maybe but you'd not have a history of targeting younger women to be used against you. Right?
Honestly, date who you want to date. If people have a problem with it you'll soon know. Who cares about the internet. It's her family's opinion that matters. If you keep this energy going you will be seen in that light.
There are women who have grown children. There are women who are older but have no children. There are women in their 20s with no children. Why does it have to be a teenager?
As a mum, I'd be concerned to date someone who talks like this because I'd be worried about when my daughter becomes a teenager.
You are very vocal about things that create a strong image of your situation. You sound like an older person who has difficulty with relationships and sexual encounters. Almost like you don't know how to go about it and are blaming society for it not just happening for you. It might be easier to start up some kind of relationship with a younger adult/older teen because they are more naïve and more willing to follow emotions but they will be more flitty and more likely to wake up one day thinking wtf? They won't be ready to settle even if they think they are.
Sometimes it works out. My sister in law dated a MAN who she babysat for at a very young age he is now her husband. Everyone was mad. She was 15/16 and he was in his 30s. That was very wrong. He may have even gotten beaten up for it. They are still together, they have over 9 grandchildren and everyone accepts them now. He didn't date other young people. And I'd think she was probably more in control of that. But I don't believe he looked for young people and set out to date her.