Markk wrote:They are both gateway drugs...it is a lifestyle change and a party attitude. I would bet far more heroin addicts smoked pot before they took prescription drugs.
In the 70’s and 80’s, it was beer, pot, then reds and whites, acid, meth then heroin. When I was in Jr high you could get a “rack” of whites, or reds for a buck or two.
I’ll give you today PD are certainly a huge gateway drug. And a growing problem worse than pot in different ways.
Have you ever been addicted to any type of drugs? Have you ever been homeless, or been to jail?
Pot is very addictive mentally to many folks, and some just remain pot heads, other graduate...and others can just be a casual user...that is a reality.
Do you smoke pot? How much have you smoked in your life...just curious.
I've never been to jail. Never been homeless.
The first time I smoked pot was when I was 28--a few months after the first time I tried alcohol. While the effects of the alcohol were obvious and powerful, the effects of the pot were not. Over the last 20 years, I've probably tried pot a dozen times. Of those dozen times, there were only three times when there was an effect that I could notice. From my limited experience, whatever pot does to you is smooth and subtle. Unlike alcohol, it is very natural feeling. From my experience, pot is kind of like coffee--I had two cups of coffee today so far. Have they had an effect on me? Probably, but it isn't obvious.
One of the times when the pot had an obvious effect on me was particularly memorable. I had this feeling that some really cool ideas and insights were coming into my head, but then I would completely forget them before I could processes them and analyze them. I heard myself saying things like, "Wow! Dude! I just had the coolest idea! But I don't remember what it was! But it was amazing!" I keep on telling myself that I need to go to a dispensery the next time I'm in Colorado, but every time I'm there I'm too busy with other things and I totally forget until after I've left.
The thing is, all of these experiences have been in my friend groups that are successful guys. We all have great jobs. We all make above-average incomes. When somebody breaks out the pot almost everybody says "why not" and participates. And then they get up the next morning and go back to their jobs as the high-performance sales guy or the CFO or the attorney or the computer programmer, and they don't think about pot at all for months until the next party when somebody breaks it out. And then they take it again, and afterwards return to their high-performance lives without so much as a hangover. I've been observing this cycle for 20 years now. It never escalates. Of these people, none of them have a debilitating craving for pot. Not even close. Much less do they have a craving to kick it up to the next level and start doing Meth or Heroin or whatever.
In contrast, read the blog in the OP. I happen to know as a personal fact that the missionary from the OP was a much more self-disciplined guy that me. He served commendably in the marines for 4 years. He never broke a mission rule. He never slept in. When he fell in love with a girl, he didn't flirt with her or otherwise do anything inappropriate. He went to the mission president, told him everything. He never hit on her. Never kissed her. Never did anything. He just felt something, and then went to the mission president to deal with it.
So compare him and me. I broke of the mission rules at least once. When I fell in love with the same girl I had a fling with her as a missionary (and eventually went back and married her). I never confessed it--I just wasn't a guy who could open up in an interview with a bishop or mission president. I left the church. I am an atheist. I have a drink or two every day. I smoke pot whenever the opportunity arises (although that isn't very frequent--I'm too busy with other things and otherwise don't think about it). Ditto with smoking cigars.
So compare the casual-pot-smoking, alcohol drinking, undisciplined atheist to the straight-laced, self-disciplined Mormon firefighter who started taking prescription opioids in the aftermath of a horific accident. Which one is highly successful in life, and which one is a convicted fellon?
The reason why he is the one whose life has gone to crap is because he became addicted to opioids. The reason mine hasn't gone to crap is that I'm not suceptible to serious alcohol addiction, nor am I suceptible to marijuana addiction. As a matter of fact, being addicted to marijuana is barely even a thing--pot addiction is in the same universe as coffee addiction. That is a different universe than being addicted to opioids or meth.