The DoubtingThomas dating / relationships MEGATHREAD

The Off-Topic forum for anything non-LDS related, such as sports or politics. Rated PG through PG-13.
Post Reply
_Morley
_Emeritus
Posts: 3542
Joined: Mon Apr 25, 2011 6:19 pm

Re: Go to a bar? New thread

Post by _Morley »

Gadianton wrote:DT, in my expert opinion, having commented on things that are none of my business over a long life approaching the hundred year mark, my guess would be that you don't want to be in a relationship. You might disagree, and I could be wrong about my prediction, but have you at least considered the possibility that you don't want to be in a relationship?

I'm not playing word games with the word "relationship", relationships can be good or bad, and neither is it good or bad to want to be in one, so there is no judgment here.

If there's stuff that I want at Walmart, but I never go because I don't want to park in the back and walk, but neither do I want to get there early and compete with all those idiots for front-row parking, then I should at least consider the possibility that I don't really want to go to Walmart.


I think you've hit the nail on the head, Gadianton.
_Dr. Shades
_Emeritus
Posts: 14117
Joined: Mon Oct 23, 2006 9:07 pm

Re: Go to a bar? New thread

Post by _Dr. Shades »

DoubtingThomas wrote:
Dr. Shades wrote:What's the maximum number of received d***ks that are acceptable?

This is a serious question.

There is nothing wrong with having a sex with a lot of people. I just want a special moment with someone that didn't have many special moments.

} sigh {

Okay, let's try this again: What's the maximum number of "special moments" a woman can have that are acceptable to you?

No dodging this time, please.
"Finally, for your rather strange idea that miracles are somehow linked to the amount of gay sexual gratification that is taking place would require that primitive Christianity was launched by gay sex, would it not?"

--Louis Midgley
_Dr Exiled
_Emeritus
Posts: 3616
Joined: Wed Sep 30, 2015 3:48 am

Re: Go to a bar? New thread

Post by _Dr Exiled »

42 partners? or am I in the wrong thread again? :lol:
"Religion is about providing human community in the guise of solving problems that don’t exist or failing to solve problems that do and seeking to reconcile these contradictions and conceal the failures in bogus explanations otherwise known as theology." - Kishkumen 
_DoubtingThomas
_Emeritus
Posts: 4551
Joined: Thu Sep 01, 2016 7:04 am

Re: Go to a bar? New thread

Post by _DoubtingThomas »

Dr. Shades wrote:Okay, let's try this again: What's the maximum number of "special moments" a woman can have that are acceptable to you?

No dodging this time, please.

For my first time? Perhaps one or two, it depends on the person, but I would prefer zero (another virgin). However, it wouldn't be possible for me to know unless I ask her. I wouldn't want to ruin a special moment by asking her "How many men have to slept with before?". Just no! So it is best for me to look at the statistics. According to the statistics it is best for me to find an 18, 19, or 20 year old. I just changed my mind. It is something that I really want. Life is not easy you know, and I do have a very low self-esteem.
_DoubtingThomas
_Emeritus
Posts: 4551
Joined: Thu Sep 01, 2016 7:04 am

Re: Go to a bar? New thread

Post by _DoubtingThomas »

Gadianton wrote:DT, in my expert opinion, having commented on things that are none of my business over a long life approaching the hundred year mark, my guess would be that you don't want to be in a relationship. You might disagree, and I could be wrong about my prediction, but have you at least considered the possibility that you don't want to be in a relationship?

I'm not playing word games with the word "relationship", relationships can be good or bad, and neither is it good or bad to want to be in one, so there is no judgment here.

If there's stuff that I want at Walmart, but I never go because I don't want to park in the back and walk, but neither do I want to get there early and compete with all those idiots for front-row parking, then I should at least consider the possibility that I don't really want to go to Walmart.


I do want to be in a relationship. I just want that relationship to be very special for my first time. I am not looking for marriage, so it is not easy for me.
_DoubtingThomas
_Emeritus
Posts: 4551
Joined: Thu Sep 01, 2016 7:04 am

Re: Go to a bar? New thread

Post by _DoubtingThomas »

Lemmie wrote:I've updated my prior. You're a creepy fake.

It is all subjective. For many talking to a woman at a bar is very creepy.
_MissTish
_Emeritus
Posts: 1483
Joined: Sat Aug 15, 2015 9:17 am

Re: Go to a bar? New thread

Post by _MissTish »

DoubtingThomas wrote:[According to the statistics it is best for me to find an 18, 19, or 20 year old.

How old are you?
People like Coldplay and voted for the Nazis. You can't trust people, Jeremy.- Super Hans

We must respect the other fellow's religion, but only in the sense and to the extent that we respect his theory that his wife is beautiful and his children smart.- H. L. Mencken
_Some Schmo
_Emeritus
Posts: 15602
Joined: Tue Mar 27, 2007 2:59 pm

Re: Go to a bar? New thread

Post by _Some Schmo »

I'm not sure why anyone is looking (in particular) for a virgin to mate.

It's like looking at a resume and thinking, "No experience?! Awesome! Let's get 'em in here right away!"

Only notions of "purity" and other nonsensical religious ideas could make this seem like a good plan.
God belief is for people who don't want to live life on the universe's terms.
_DoubtingThomas
_Emeritus
Posts: 4551
Joined: Thu Sep 01, 2016 7:04 am

Re: Go to a bar? New thread

Post by _DoubtingThomas »

Perfume on my Mind wrote:Only notions of "purity" and other nonsensical religious ideas could make this seem like a good plan.


When I was a teenager I loved to play video games. I still play video games (sometimes), but it just doesn't feel the same anymore. Playing a new game just doesn't have the same magic like it used to.

I am not necessarily looking for a virgin like myself, but I do want my first time to be very special.
_DoubtingThomas
_Emeritus
Posts: 4551
Joined: Thu Sep 01, 2016 7:04 am

Re: Go to a bar? New thread

Post by _DoubtingThomas »

MissTish wrote:
DoubtingThomas wrote:[According to the statistics it is best for me to find an 18, 19, or 20 year old.

How old are you?

Why? Some women don't discriminate based on age or race. The good thing is that I am not too old for most 18-20 year old girls (I hope), but I understand that will change in a few years. But my age is completely irrelevant, it is up to the woman to decide.
Post Reply