Moksha wrote: ↑Fri Nov 20, 2020 9:57 pm
I have qualms about going to my son's house for Thanksgiving. Hopefully, everyone is COVID-free, but I am in the high-risk group. I haven't seen them all since the 4th of July.
Flightless bird. Our family lives within a 15-20 minute drive from us either way give or take 5 minutes. Since we host here at the homestead, I dropped the hammer on Thanksgiving about a week ago.
I know how much you want to see them and be together. I'm just going to say that I hope you don't go over.
My theory is that it's only a matter of time before the vaccines become available and hunkering down until January makes sense to me. The last thing I wanted was to traumatize anyone in the family should one of us get sick or god forbid, die. It would definitely scar the youngest of us for life. I can't risk that!
I know it's the holidays. I know we want to be together. I know none of us are getting any younger. I know how HARD this is. But my vote was to separate in the hopes that we'll have many more holidays together if we do that.
I hate all of this more than I can say. Please don't go, bird. Don't risk it for one day together when you have a good chance of having many more days together when you get that shot in the arm. I will be seeing our kids once this coming weekend but from outside to drop off a few goodies to share.
As for me, all I could think of was that if we had Thanksgiving together our family could be planning a funeral for C'mas.
Stay. Home. Bird.
Wasn't that a nice message? Want to see what's really in my head? Here, I'll let it out for you.
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I HATE THIS GODDAMN VIRUS! I HATE THE damned CHINESE! WHO THE BLOODY “F” EATS BATS? I HATE NOT BEING TOGETHER! I HATE NOT HUGGING MY KIDS! I HATE NOT BEING ABLE TO PLAY IN PERSON! I CAN'T TOUCH MY OWN PEOPLE!! I HATE WHEN I FEEL SAD AT NIGHT!!! I CAN"T GO ANY damned WHERE!!! I HATE damned Trump!!! I HOPE HE GOES TO HELL AND "F"s HIMSELF FOREVER!!!
Then I pull it together again, dig in my heels, and keep going.
