Universal Rule #1

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Re: Universal Rule #1

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Gadianton wrote:
Mon Mar 14, 2022 4:31 am
[MODERATOR NOTE: Philo Sofee, you are consistently violating Universal Rules #1 and #2
Shades, seriously dude, have you looked at spirit prison lately? it's a rolling assembly line of violations from binger and A-Mike. And deep down you must know that the violations are intentional. You must be able to utilize common sense and see that at his near best, A-Mike's new threads are quick links to material he has no intention of discussing. Do you really think so low of your three moderators that they spend hours a day splitting off rule violations, moving things around, and endless discussion of how to moderate with kids gloves so that posters mostly trolling don't feel unwelcome?

But then, heaven forbid, Philo breaks a universal rule and the red ink must flow for two paragraphs.
Bingo.

I think the mods should all abandon their positions in protest and just watch the board devolve. Shades doesn't want to maintain any part of this board, he just wants to "own" it while other people do all the work for him. And now he's making back room deals with the offenders which is a literal spit in the face of all the veteran posters on this forum who have made this board what it is today.
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Re: Universal Rule #1

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Dr. Shades wrote:
Mon Mar 14, 2022 1:18 am
K Graham wrote:
Mon Mar 14, 2022 1:14 am
Aaaaaaand THIS is what you're reprimanding. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Was I right or was I wrong?
WRONG. Here you had the gall to lecture and correct Philo Sofee who is responding directly to your neglect of this board. All these years I have come to love you like a brother, Shades, but you have really screwed up here.

What do you expect people to do? Sit on their hands when you are not even here? How long do you expect them to do that? How long? The moderation thread has been ongoing for months now. How many times have you replied there? How many times have you even looked in there?

If you have outside commitments that prevent you from monitoring this board then you need to accept that and let someone else substitute for you in your absence. That's what a good manager does, Shades. That is what is needed.

Otherwise you piss off an entire community because you do not have the time to attend to the job. I cannot imagine what the mod team has been feeling all this time. I just cannot. Every time they come in here they MUST have a back log of reports a mile long. Is that fair to them? Is it fair to any of us?

WE are the board, Shades. WE are and here lately you come in here after we've posted our assess off in protest, trying like all hell to follow the rules in the face of two trolls who do NOT follow the rules and you come in here and you lecture US? You come in here and correct US?

Correct YOURSELF, Shades. Take a break. Give yourself the gift of time if you require it right now and give us some sanity. Put someone second in command. Please ask Gad if he might do it. I know he can do it if he's agreeable to it. I trust him for over 2 decades now. I know him longer than I know you! He's got his head on straight here. He knows what needs to be done and he can do it. He might not act as a clone of you but he will get close. Close enough to the satisfaction of most every poster I am sure. If he can't or won't, I offer my own services. I will not mess up this board, I promise you. I will not mess up your mod team, I promise. I have professional personnel management skills and education, and can apply them to this work.

Instead of putting us through your libertarian idealistic view of utopia and free speech (to which we have all been agreeable), you are putting us all through HELL.

I have been a good friend to you. I have been a strong supporter of this board before there even WAS a board. I have taken it on the chin when you doled it out to me. I have made amends. I have acted in good faith to every single thing we discussed prior to my return. I have prayed for you and cried for you. Cheered you on and encouraged you.

But I tell you what, I am so hopping mad at you on account of all that is going on right now I can't even stand it.
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Re: Universal Rule #1

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I'll offer up one more thing. If you are not able to monitor this board for whatever reasons, Shades, then you need a substitute. If Gad isn't willing and you are willing for me to step in, I will voluntarily suspend my own posting privileges in order to act in your place as interim admin until you are able to take it on again. Same principle as when I didn't moderate on threads on which I was a participant in the past to avoid even a hint of the appearance of bias.

There is not a person on this board who doesn't know periods in life when they cannot do it all. I'm willing to do it for you if you would like if Gad will not fill in and take away my own voice for you and the health of this board.

That's all I have to offer. I want to see this board in good working order again. It's not working now. It doesn't need to be this way, Shades.
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Bond is here, too. :-)
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Re: Universal Rule #1

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Jersey Girl wrote:
Mon Mar 14, 2022 5:25 am
Dr. Shades wrote:
Mon Mar 14, 2022 1:18 am
Was I right or was I wrong?
WRONG.
??? He didn't post in red font (Universal Rule #2) or tell a poster to go elsewhere (Universal Rule #1)? 'Cause I can almost swear I saw it.
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Re: Universal Rule #1

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Dr. Shades wrote:
Mon Mar 14, 2022 1:10 am
Disapproving of Atlanticmike's conduct does not give you a free pass to violate the rules.]
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