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canpakes wrote:Jersey Girl - This certainly feels like a replay of ldsfaqs and your efforts to get him on track with CPAP use.

Don't mistake what I'm doing right now as an effort. I'm long past effort.
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Watch the goalposts move.

I don't have time.
I don't have time to drive hundreds of miles.
I have to find the right secular therapist.
I need to get health insurance first.
I'm only going to do online therapy.
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Jersey Girl wrote:If you didn't have health insurance all this time

I used to, but not anymore. I did mention a long time ago "I don't think my health insurance would cover one"

http://mormondiscussions.com/phpBB3/vie ... =1&t=47155

Jersey Girl wrote:Chorus to DT: You need to see a therapist. I don't have time.
I don't have time to drive hundreds of miles.
I have to find the right secular therapist. n

In my case it is not easy to find the right therapist and I did find some that are hundreds of miles away.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog ... -right-you
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DoubtingThomas wrote:
Jersey Girl wrote:If you didn't have health insurance all this time

I used to, but not anymore. I did mention a long time ago "I don't think my health insurance would cover one"
http://mormondiscussions.com/phpBB3/vie ... =1&t=47155

Jersey Girl wrote:Chorus to DT: You need to see a therapist. I don't have time.
I don't have time to drive hundreds of miles.
I have to find the right secular therapist. n

In my case it is not easy to find the right therapist.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog ... -right-you

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Channeling DT.

I work more than 40 hours a week.
I should see a therapist.
I don't have time for anything.
I can't drive hundreds of miles to see a therapist.
I want a relationship.
I'm so lonely.
I have to see the right therapist.
I want to have sex.
Life without sex is devastating.
My health is in jeopardy without sex.
I want to have sex with a 18-22 year old.
Who hasn't received many dicks.
I need health insurance.
I'll probably have sex with a 46 year old.
My life sucks.
I want to take the virginity from someone special.
I'll do online therapy.
It's depressing there are no aliens.
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Jersey Girl wrote:You're a complete ass.

I do need a therapist, but I also need a community to listen to me.

Jersey Girl wrote:You really are dysfunctional, buddy.

Well thank you. I don't really mater.
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Jersey Girl wrote:My health is in jeopardy without sex. .

It is true according to some studies.

Jersey Girl wrote:I want to have sex with a 18-22 year old.

I want a romantic relationship with a woman. She doesn't have to be 18-22 years old.
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DoubtingThomas wrote:
Jersey Girl wrote:You're a complete ass.

I do need a therapist, but I also need a community to listen to me.

Jersey Girl wrote:You really are dysfunctional, buddy.

Well thank you. I don't really mater.

Awwww...I feel so bad for you. It's actually heart breaking. You're so devastated.
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Jersey Girl wrote:Awwww...I feel so bad for you. It's actually heart breaking. You're so devastated.

I am not asking you to feel bad for me, I simply need someone to listen and understand. I am not asking for much.
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DoubtingThomas wrote:
Jersey Girl wrote:Awwww...I feel so bad for you. It's actually heart breaking. You're so devastated.

I am not asking you to feel bad for me, I simply need someone to listen and understand. I am not asking for much.

You've been listened to and dealt with for well over a year now. You are a case study in learned helplessness.

My best advice.

Crawl over the crap in your car, drive to McDonald's, get a cone at the drive through and talk to the pick up person who gives you the cone. If they're not willing to listen, you'll still have the cone and afterwards you can visit the Play Place and have fun on the slides.
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