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[Bret Ripley]

Women do not have a sex drive ...

Your information is out-of-date, my dude: that all changed in 1972 when Alex Comfort invented the female orgasm.

[Chap]

True. Imagine spending a lot of money on dating apps for years to only get a few good matches.

I probably have spent thousands of dollars on dating apps. Some women talk to me, then I get ghosted.

That being said, I don't hate women. I am not a misogynist, regardless of the fact that I've been treated like crap.

The most blatant of misogynists don't think they hate women. The evidence is in how they talk about and act toward women.

Women decide freely, based on what they see of DT on a dating app, that he is not the kind of guy they want to see more of.

Once upon a time, they would not have had that choice: every woman needed to find a man to support her economically, and protect her from the contempt with which 'unwanted' women were regarded. Some poor woman would have had to marry DT and put up with him for the rest of her (or his) life. But (and hurrah for that!), this is no longer the case.

And now women are supposed to feel grateful to DT for not hating them for exercising their free choice? If men like DT want the company of women, then they will have to do as women once used to have to do in order to get a man: make an effort to be the kind of partner that women feel they need and would like to have, and learn to put up with the company of women who are by no means DT's ideal. Don't want to do that? OK DT, go ahead and live a life of lonely posting on message boards about how sad your life is. You have a choice ...

Women owe DT precisely nothing.

[doubtingthomas]

Women decide freely, based on what they see of DT on a dating app, that he is not the kind of guy they want to see more of.

Watch the CNN report, 20% of men get 60% of all the attention on dating apps.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vK4y6C1Uuhw

"Women Say 80% of Men Are “Below Average”" according to the favorite website of Marcus.
https://medium.com/hello-love/women-say ... b0b8af2606

You are right, I am not the type of guy the Petitos want.

Women owe DT precisely nothing.

You said 16 year old are adults.

[Res Ipsa]

Women decide freely, based on what they see of DT on a dating app, that he is not the kind of guy they want to see more of.

Watch the CNN report, 20% of men get 60% of all the attention on dating apps.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vK4y6C1Uuhw

"Women Say 80% of Men Are “Below Average”" according to the favorite website of Marcus.
https://medium.com/hello-love/women-say ... b0b8af2606

You are right, I am not the type of guy the Petitos want.

Women owe DT precisely nothing.

You said 16 year old are adults.

So, not stopping today.

[doubtingthomas]

Like it or not, whether you follow incels or not, you're on the path to joining the red pillars.

I have a long way to go. The Red Pillars are conspiracy theorists who believe that 80% of young women are promiscuous and only have sex with the Chads (the top 20% of men). The Red Pillars argue that men should start dating after age 30. Red Pillars believe the NWO lizards wants all men to turn gay so the population can shrink. Red Pillars also believe that all women want to take advantage of men.

Comparing me to the Red Pillars is like comparing your average Mormon to Nazy Germany.

Now you're deflecting and catastrophising. Marcus, like me, is some rando on a message board.

Most people around me are a rando, it makes little difference whether I know their name or not.

Marcus is reacting to your posts

True, Marcus is just someone on a message board. Unfortunately, Marcus is also a symptom. There are a lot of people like Marcus in the real world and the CNN report pointed out that businesses are afraid to talk about the issues men face for fear of being accused of sexism.

Did you watch the full 10 minute CNN video? It points out that middle class families are shrining and says that women are "more choosy". Unfortunately, people like Marcus won't allow these types of conversations.

I'm glad you understand what I'm trying to do. Here's a suggestion: read through your recent posts and notice how many times you tell me or others what you are going to do. Why do you think you are doing that? Why do you think you keep talking about stopping but not stopping? I'm not expecting answer, but I think it would be worthwhile to take a step back and ask yourself those questions.

I'll stop, especially because I am wasting my time and no one is listening to my concerns. I simply get accused of sexism for pointing out some of the problems in society.

[doubtingthomas]

So, not stopping today.

I'll stop soon, I haven't created another thread. I know my brain is finding excuses for me to continue, but it's hard to stop when people like Chap say a bunch of nonsense.

Thanks again for trying to help me out.

[Res Ipsa]

You, of course, are cherry picking extreme examples of the red pill crowd to deny that you think like them. You complain all the time about the Stacies only being willing to date the Chads -- you just don't use the names. Rather than feel some compassion for Petito, who was the victim of a brutal murder, you resent that young women don't choose "nice guys" like you. That's the keystone of red pilling: becoming convinced that your unhappiness is women's fault and that it's women's responsibility to change their behavior (i.e., date you and guys like you) so that you can be happy. The red pill allows guys to dismiss anyone who disagrees with them as "brain dead" or "brainwashed." Only they are enlightened and know the "truth."

You aren't just talking about social problems. Don't piss on me and tell me it's raining. You talk about the exact same "problem" in multiple contexts. Your single answer for all of these problems is "young women are too picky." The real problem is that some number of women turned down your romantic overtures and your brain is fixated on that. You feel resentment towards those women. It's an obsession. We all see it. What keeps you from seeing it is denial.

Every second you spend time typing in this thread is you procrastinating stopping. I have zero interest in what you say about stopping. I will believe you when I see you stop.

[Doctor CamNC4Me]

Every second you spend time typing in this thread is you procrastinating stopping. I have zero interest in what you say about stopping. I will believe you when I see you stop.

[Res Ipsa]

Every second you spend time typing in this thread is you procrastinating stopping. I have zero interest in what you say about stopping. I will believe you when I see you stop.

His loss, then.

[doubtingthomas]

That's the keystone of red pilling: becoming convinced that your unhappiness is women's fault and that it's women's responsibility to change their behavior

Did you watch the full 10 min CNN video? And what do you make of "Women Say 80% of Men Are “Below Average”

https://medium.com/hello-love/women-say ... b0b8af2606

I don't blame women for my unhappiness, but my life would be a bit easier if schools teach young people to have realistic expectations. If 80% of men are below average, that would be wrong on so many levels, I hope that study is incorrect.

And what do you make of the fact that media companies are afraid to talk about these issues?

Please answer my questions, I won't ask any more. I promise, make me shut up.

Rather than feel some compassion for Petito, who was the victim of a brutal murder, you resent that young women don't choose "nice guys" like you.

The story of Petito should be used to teach young women that looks, status, and charisma aren't the most important things a man can have.

As the CNN video points out, media companies are afraid to talk about these issues.