The DoubtingThomas dating / relationships MEGATHREAD

[_DoubtingThomas]

Is is also against the rules to be lying.

[Guest]

nd finally, you are again talking about women as though they were a commodity and you have the right to pick and choose the attributes you want. You are offensively and obnoxiously associating a women’s history, virginity, and youth with some weird idea of attractiveness.

I am okay dating a woman that had one or two partners. Please stop saying that I only want "virgins".

[Guest]

Researchers suggest that individuals who continually pursue new partners may be seeking not more sex, but more satisfying sex (Heiman et al., 2011).

Heiman wrote, "Models predicting sexual satisfaction included significant physical intimacy and sexual functioning for both genders and, for men, more frequent recent sexual activity and fewer lifetime partners". Heiman suggested, "More sexual partners predicted less sexual satisfaction. Searching for a better partner or sexual experience may emerge from or be connected to a lack of sexual satisfaction rather than just a desire for sexual recreation and variety. Alternatively, more partners might indicate different standards based on greater experience."

[Guest]

Lemmie. You are lying about everything that I am saying and you name call me to prevent others to read my words.

I don't want to talk to you anymore. I stated very clearly that I wouldn't have a problem dating a woman that got divorced.

No one is talking about your feelings. Your actions -posting as you do on this board about women- are creepy.

I am only expressing my feelings. I wouldn't be offended if a woman tells me she is only interested in guys making more than 60k a year. I can't change my feelings, I wouldn't be comfortable dating a woman with a history of 5 or more.

[_MissTish]

You likely won’t please any woman, even a virgin, with your pathetic fixation on ‘dirty’ vs ‘clean’ women and the obsessive counting of their sexual partners.

It’s beyond creepy and it’s absolutely tiresome at this point.

I mean, how many different threads are you going to start about wanting a virgin?

[_DoubtingThomas]

You likely won’t please any woman, even a virgin, with your pathetic fixation on ‘dirty’ vs ‘clean’ women

Okay, please help me. What can I do to change my feelings? I don't want to care, but it is hard not to care. Can I do something about it? Please tell me and give me some scientific references.

I mean, how many different threads are you going to start about wanting a virgin?

Please stop saying "virgin", I did clarify many times that I would be happy with a woman that had a previous marriage. For me it is okay if I am the second guy, or maybe even the third guy, but 5 or more is too much.

[_DoubtingThomas]

But really. Please help me and give some scientific references. If it is possible to change my feelings let me know.

[_honorentheos]

Okay, please help me. What can I do to change my feelings? I don't want to care, but it is hard not to care. Can I do something about it?

Yup. Grow up. You have been told by innumerable people on this board that the way you approach this and think about it is unhealthy.

Stop thinking you are right to feel how you feel and instead reframe your thoughts to understand what you are being told by people who have lived a bit. Resist your unhealthy feelings with healthy thoughts.

And grow up. A child or infant thinks it's feelings are the sum of the world.

ETA: I think you'd benefit from reading this:
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source= ... qkM66m5YF5

[Guest]

And grow up. A child or infant thinks it's feelings are the sum of the world.

ETA: I think you'd benefit from reading this:
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source= ... qkM66m5YF5

Very true! Nobody cares and God doesn't exists. No more. I promise.

Thank you for sharing. Let me read it.

[_DoubtingThomas]

I will stop. Please let the thread die.