The DoubtingThomas dating / relationships MEGATHREAD

[_DoubtingThomas]

That comment about EAllusion is what is not appropriate.

Okay. I will delete it.

[Guest]

There is a body of data suggesting some variance between men and women in what they say and/or act as though is attractive, but these are heavily overlapping distributions.

I think there is a lot of evidence that "women prefer men who are somewhat older, intelligent, and ambitious. Men prefer women who are intelligent, too, but not as much."" Even if it has nothing to do with evolution.
https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships ... y-gender#2

[_Lemmie]

You went to an article on promiscuity to support your sexist comments. Unbelievable.

Will you STOP talking about women like they are interchangeable commodities? You know nothing about “most women.” Each woman is unique, as is each man. We are all individual human beings, not stereotypes, not two non-overlapping groups. Your pronouncements about women are insulting, petty, short-sighted, and yes, SEXIST.

Serious question - why do you keep coming back and digging deeper?

[Guest]

Moving stuff to an earlier page doesn’t change anything.

Yes, because it is off topic.

[_DoubtingThomas]

You went to an article on promiscuity to support your sexist comments. Unbelievable.

Good Morning Lemmie.

[Guest]

wouldn't think the thoughts that gave rise to the comment.

What thoughts gave rise to the comment?

Like I said, " I will never date someone under the age of 18, even if the legal age of consent is 16 or 17. EAllusion's comment was not appropriate." That being said I do not believe a person deserves years in prison for dating a 16 year old. I said earlier in the thread

there is no evidence that an older teenager is scarred for life if the sex is consensual according to some research papers I read. No evidence of trauma, depression, or some serious damage if it was consensual according to the papers. So maybe 20 years of prison is too harsh

Joe Rogan and many others expressed a similiar opinion. But don't get me wrong, I do believe society shouldn't tolerate adults dating older teenagers.

Moving stuff to an earlier page doesn’t change anything.

Put your ongoing creepiness and continuing sexism in the thread where it belongs.

[Guest]

You went to an article on promiscuity to support your sexist comments. Unbelievable.

I was quoting David P. Schmitt on long term relationships.

[_Lemmie]

You went to an article on promiscuity to support your sexist comments. Unbelievable.

I was quoting David P. Schmitt. Being funny is a recipe for success.
https://www.cnn.com/2009/HEALTH/04/02/w ... index.html

Now you’re just trolling. Why a person wanting to get a date thinks that practicing sexist and creepy trolling will help is beyond me.

[_DoubtingThomas]

Put your ongoing creepiness and continuing sexism in the thread where it belongs.

No, just let the thread die. Hopefully I am done now.

This is the last thing I have to say

"Even after taking major cardiovascular risk factors such as age, body fat, smoking, blood pressure, diabetes, and cholesterol into account, married men had a 46% lower rate of death than unmarried men."

https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-hea ... ens-health

I am trying my best to be a better person and I hope to find a good woman. It won't be good for my health is I don't find someone.

[_DoubtingThomas]

Moving stuff to an earlier page doesn’t change anything.

Yes because it is off topic. Are you going to deny what the researchers are saying? Even EAllusion and many here agree on that one.