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my wife is in the hospital

Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 2:59 am
by _asbestosman
I'm with her. She had a tubal pregnancy. If I'm a bit exta weird lately (or gone), that may be why. Many questions are on my mind now.

Re: my wife is in the hospital

Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 3:03 am
by _KimberlyAnn
asbestosman wrote:I'm with her. She had a tubal pregnancy. If I'm a bit exta weird lately (or gone), that may be why. Many questions are on my mind now.


I'm sorry, Abman. I hope she recovers soon and that you're both well.

Take care,

Kimberly

Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 3:30 am
by _Who Knows
Oh jeez. I just read a little bit about what that is. Very sorry to hear that. I truly hope all goes as best as it can.

Was this your first?

Re: my wife is in the hospital

Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 3:36 am
by _skippy the dead
asbestosman wrote:I'm with her. She had a tubal pregnancy. If I'm a bit exta weird lately (or gone), that may be why. Many questions are on my mind now.


So sorry to hear that, ABman. My best to you and your wife. This kind of loss is real, and it's hard. Be as weird (or gone) as you need to be.

Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 3:41 am
by _asbestosman
Who Knows wrote:Was this your first?

yes. after a w months of trying to get pregnant, we end up with this. My wife almost died, but she's stable now. I'm glad she made it, but it really causes me to reflect on life and family.

This a few days after her grandpa's funeral.

Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 3:47 am
by _Who Knows
asbestosman wrote:
Who Knows wrote:Was this your first?

yes. after a w months of trying to get pregnant, we end up with this. My wife almost died, but she's stable now. I'm glad she made it, but it really causes me to reflect on life and family.

This a few days after her grandpa's funeral.


Our first baby almost didn't make it. I mean, literally, 50% of babies that had what ours had, die. Given my current faith (or lack thereof), I don't know how I'd handle something like that if it happened now. That's the one great thing about religion - it helps in times like these. (I mean that seriously, not sarcastically).

Re: my wife is in the hospital

Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 4:14 am
by _Moniker
asbestosman wrote:I'm with her. She had a tubal pregnancy. If I'm a bit exta weird lately (or gone), that may be why. Many questions are on my mind now.


I'm so sorry! You will both be in my thoughts. If you want to talk, please PM me.

Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 4:20 am
by _asbestosman
thanks all. Her sister's first didn't make it either, but her child is now two. i think things will be fine, but there is a sense of disappointment. i think i'll be fine. i'm better now than i was a few hours ago.

Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 4:23 am
by _Moniker
asbestosman wrote:thanks all. Her sister's first didn't make it either, but her child is now two. I think things will be fine, but there is a sense of disappointment. I think I'll be fine. I'm better now than I was a few hours ago.


When was she admitted? How is she doing? Do you have other family with you?

I'm so sorry!

Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 4:25 am
by _skippy the dead
asbestosman wrote:thanks all. Her sister's first didn't make it either, but her child is now two. I think things will be fine, but there is a sense of disappointment. I think I'll be fine. I'm better now than I was a few hours ago.


That's good.