Women are not things to be acquired, please stop posting this sexist nonsense.
Jesus Christ!
DT, here’s what you’re missing. The way you think and the way you talk influence each other. I don’t think you are aware how often you refer to women as objects — as “things” that men “get.” If you want a close, intimate relationship with someone, thinking and talking about them as something to “get” isn’t going to help you get there. Neither is describing women as a group in generally negative terms.
You can’t turn an attitude on and off like a switch. You’re going to broadcast it to women you try to date.
So, use the words that are consistent with the attitude you want to have toward women. Don’t talk about them as something for men to get. Don’t talk about them as group stereotypes. Talk about them as real people who want what you do — to lead happy, fulfilled lives. Change how you talk and you’ll change how you think. And you’ll certainly change how you appear.
he/him we all just have to live through it,
holding each other’s hands.
thinking and talking about them as something to “get” isn’t going to help you get there.
I understand, but would it be wrong to say "get some friends"?
It’s not a question of right or wrong. It’s a question of talking about other people as people instead of as objects. It’s also a matter of acknowledging your role in the process. Try I would like to make some friends or I would like to cultivate some friendships.
he/him we all just have to live through it,
holding each other’s hands.
I sometimes do say "the majority of women ..." or "most women..." according to the available data. I am not stereotyping.
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Would it be a stereotype to say that men are more violent than women?
It’s also a matter of acknowledging your role in the process. Try I would like to make some friends or I would like to cultivate some friendships.
I understand. Would it be okay to say "Go find a girlfriend", "Most men don't have multiple girlfriends", and "easier to attract a specific type"?
Yes. It would be a stereotype. If you want to connect with people, whether as friends or romantic partners, stop looking at statistics.
If you understand, you don’t need to be asking about examples. “Find” Is what you do with your lost keys. When talking about people, “Find” Is no better than “get.” You’re not looking for Woman labeled “girlfriend.” There is no “girlfriend” out there hiding from you. You need to develop a relationship. Talk about forming connections with others — not getting or finding people.
he/him we all just have to live through it,
holding each other’s hands.
