You're pretending I said something that I didn't--then you replied to it. You dishonestly misrepresented what I actually said. Even employing an ellipsis, you had to change my words to get that. Please don't do this. It's wrong on so many levels. You've been called on this before.mentalgymnast wrote: ↑Sat Jan 30, 2021 2:32 amOK. You’re a binary thinker. Just like the rest of us. That is our natural condition/default. No shame in that. The concern we ‘moderns’ have is that binary thinking doesn’t serve us well in all situations. Especially when it comes to placing things into categories. Just where do we draw the line between one category and the next? My placing you in a certain category without really knowing you is a bit foolish, and yet I do it. I’m sure that you, at times, may find yourself doing the same thing. We’re all prone to doing so.
I could not disagree more.mentalgymnast wrote: ↑Sat Jan 30, 2021 2:32 amThere seems to be a tendency towards the default position of binary thinking without looking at the possibility that there may be something more to it than meets the eye.
Okay. Since this is a Mormon discussion board it makes sense that I would air some of those issues here.mentalgymnast wrote: ↑Sat Jan 30, 2021 2:32 amI actually find myself going, “what?...” when I read stuff about me that just ain’t so. And I’m sure that I fall into the same trap and judge others without really knowing what makes that person tick. Black and white thinking. And in your case, not really knowing the first thing about you, except that you have issues with a certain belief system, makes it difficult to ascertain what makes you tick.
It’s not clear what definition of disingenuous you're using. Now, if I'd said something that I knew wasn't true, that would have been disingenuous. For example, it would be disingenuous if I took a quote of yours, changed it, and then pretended you'd posted it while I responded to it.mentalgymnast wrote: ↑Sat Jan 30, 2021 2:32 amSo I find it sort of funny and a bit disingenuous on your part
However, since I can't seem to recognize my own disingenuousness here, perhaps you'll show it to me.
You can't be serious. Writing an analogy isn't psychoanalysis. Neither is speculation is about someone else's motivation. I'm not sure what you're saying here. What definition of psychoanalysis are you using?mentalgymnast wrote: ↑Sat Jan 30, 2021 2:32 amthat you and others think you can play armchair psychoanalyst
I can't find where I've enumerated your traits. Neither can I locate where I've listed what traits any believer should possess. Perhaps you'll find where I did that and list them for me?mentalgymnast wrote: ↑Sat Jan 30, 2021 2:32 amand determine what traits (often negative) a believer must have...simply because they are a believer.
Yeah, maybe I've got you pigeonholed. Maybe not. I can only go by what you've written. If you write something different, I'm willing to change my mind.
One last word. When you're criticized on this board, you often take shelter in the idea that we're criticizing all believers. We're not. We're criticizing your (MG's) beliefs, as you express them here. Failing that, you seek refuge in the concept that we're mocking God. We're not. We're mocking the arguments you (MG) are making.
Usually, I'd advise folks to not take the things people say personally. But, in this case, I'd appreciate if you would personalize this. I'm not responding to the church--or God--or other believers, I'm responding to you, personally, and the things you're typing out and posting on this board.
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