Did juliann Contribute to an Apostasy?

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Runtu wrote:I don't know that I'd say Juliann contributed to an apostasy, but I missed that exchange. Last I had seen, Maggie Mormon was getting it from all sides. It sounded like they thought she was a sockpuppet/troll to me, but I could be wrong. I hope MM gets through what will no doubt be a difficult period. I wouldn't want to go through that again.


When do they NOT think a doubter is a sockpuppet or troll?
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Who Knows wrote:Oh, and how the hell do you go from Mormonism to EVism?

That's like leaving jonestown to join koresh. Well, ok, maybe not that bad. But you get my point.



LOL, here's a quote from an atheist on this subject:

http://woomer.blogspot.com/2006_08_01_archive.html

Atheists' straw man is the evangelical movement. All too often, atheists (myself included) are quick to associate all evangelicals with vulgar, Armageddonist scumbags like Jerry Falwell and Pat Robertson. And while it is true that Falwell and Robertson are prominent evangelical leaders, and that their views are unfortunately representative of many evangelical Christians' (particularly the stupidest ones), evangelicals are simply too large and complex a group to fit into easy global characterizations.

The fact of the matter is that evangelicals seem to be making inroads all over the place -- including amongst young, highly-educated urban elites. Old time religion is getting increasingly sophisticated -- thereby requiring an increasingly nuanced critique from freethinkers.


You can be evangelical and still value other people. My path is for me, I cannot tell another person to believe in God.

I have a friend named Tom. Tom has seen some horrific things; he's been in Vietnam, he lost his mom to a bad car accident, he watched his grandma die slowly. He questions the existence of God in the midst of this pain...as I would do if I were him, as I have done many times. But I love Tom, he's one of the best kinds of people I know. He's honest, open, and will tell you what he thinks.

I'm learning (slowly) the meaning of the word metanarrative. And I'm learning that many Christians in this country, especially EVs are using their religion as one. I think it's wrong.

I'm EV simply by nature of my walk with what/who I percieve to be God. That has nothing to do with anyone else. And I feel that it's as a Christian that I'm supposed to value you and your contribution to the world, no matter what you believe.

My kindred come from all walks of life, many different orientations, many different countries, many different religions. And that's how I like my "salad", plenty of stuff mixed right on in there. And if I'm blessed, the diversity will keep on coming.

But I see Christianity in a different way than many who are so vocal about their faith today. I know that. I'm ok with that. I don't need the world to see or hear me. It's not about them.
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Seven wrote:I disagree. The majority of newbies that are LDS going to FAIR/MAD for help, information etc. are desperate to save their testimony or they wouldn't be there. It is NORMAL they will be critical of the church if they have found their way to MAD. Something or someone has given them reason to doubt and they have most likely read some very negative history on the church before finding MAD. I have never personally spoken in person or online with someone who as you said "WANTED OUT, but was afraid to leave." Most people don't DESIRE to leave but are only trying to reconcile the true history with their testimony based on the sanitized version.

You see it a hundred times on MAD. A newbie comes in and is pounced on by rabid aplogists and TBMs who declare it must be a troll. They won't show any compassion or understanding for how hard and painful it is to have that world you once knew destroyed. Oh, how I used to wish I could unknow what I knew and go back to my Chapel Mormon days. Ignorance was truly bliss. If that person turned out to be a troll, so what? What harm did it cause by being nice and compassionate to them? Most TBMs on that board are only interested in fighting with exMos to strengthen their own beliefs, and not in helping the newbie doubter who has just had their world come crashing down.

Until apologists and TBMs learn to be understanding of this painful stage, they will never help anybody on that discussion board and only drive them to those who will. (exMos) I really appreciate the guy running the "Mormon Stories" website because he is a TBM who is really trying to show compassion and love for those struggling with the new information.



So true. I came searching, and perhaps if I had felt like I could fit myself and my worldview into the church I would never have left. But at the end, I'm glad I did. That doesn't mean I want to see the church dissolve, but it does need some serious change in the acceptance and Christian conduct areas. And don't look to most EVs for instructions on that. :P
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Mister Scratch wrote: Juliann seems to be one of those peculiar species of LDS women who harbors a special scorn for other women.


Perhaps she knows that in the end there can be only one. At least that is what they said on the Highlander. Hmmm, there is no mention of a Juliann in ancient Summerian records, is there?
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moksha wrote:Perhaps she knows that in the end there can be only one. At least that is what they said on the Highlander. Hmmm, there is no mention of a Juliann in ancient Summerian records, is there?


Are you suggesting Juliann is the real life sword wielding Kurgan?
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Bond...James Bond wrote: Are you suggesting Juliann is the real life sword wielding Kurgan?


No, I would never make that insinuation. I am certain she is much prettier and less sword wielding.

http://www.austinpowers.com/objects/desktops/frau_800x600.jpg
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moksha wrote:No, I would never make that insinuation. I am certain she is much prettier and less sword wielding.

http://www.austinpowers.com/objects/desktops/frau_800x600.jpg


OMG!!! That's hilarious. Is she going to found the militant wing of the Relief Society (not unlike Frau founding the militant wing of the Salvation Army)?
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I hope you two keep in mind you may have blood on your hands one day. Oh, you may think you're joking around and being silly, but just imagine what some unstable exmormon might do, incited by your Frau pix.....

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Seven wrote:
The Nehor wrote:I think she was on the way out when she first started posting. I remember her first postings.

She seemed dedicated to making changes in the food allergy procedures of the LDS Church. She wanted to change Church Policy by any means. Her attempts were rebuffed and she was annoyed. She came to the boards for support and was (in my opinion rightly) told that she has no business trying to make the changes she wanted to.

Her posts graduated to become small rants against some of her leaders and requests for explanations for things she had learned in EV Bible Study. I think Maggie wanted out but was afraid to leave. I think Juliann had as much to do with it as I did....which I hope was nothing.


I disagree. The majority of newbies that are LDS going to FAIR/MAD for help, information etc. are desperate to save their testimony or they wouldn't be there. It is NORMAL they will be critical of the church if they have found their way to MAD. Something or someone has given them reason to doubt and they have most likely read some very negative history on the church before finding MAD. I have never personally spoken in person or online with someone who as you said "WANTED OUT, but was afraid to leave." Most people don't DESIRE to leave but are only trying to reconcile the true history with their testimony based on the sanitized version.

You see it a hundred times on MAD. A newbie comes in and is pounced on by rabid aplogists and TBMs who declare it must be a troll. They won't show any compassion or understanding for how hard and painful it is to have that world you once knew destroyed. Oh, how I used to wish I could unknow what I knew and go back to my Chapel Mormon days. Ignorance was truly bliss. If that person turned out to be a troll, so what? What harm did it cause by being nice and compassionate to them? Most TBMs on that board are only interested in fighting with exMos to strengthen their own beliefs, and not in helping the newbie doubter who has just had their world come crashing down.

Until apologists and TBMs learn to be understanding of this painful stage, they will never help anybody on that discussion board and only drive them to those who will. (exMos) I really appreciate the guy running the "Mormon Stories" website because he is a TBM who is really trying to show compassion and love for those struggling with the new information.


Maggie was never labeled a troll to my knowledge. I contested her points more than once......before Juliann even showed up. She had a quality of self-righteousness about everything she did....I can't complain too much, I might have the same problem. Admittedly I bow in awe at Polygamy's greatness in this respect :)

Maggie didn't portray herself as a doubter, she portrayed herself (especially in the beginning) as a rebel. Her first posts were not about getting help but finding allies who would back her up. None did....mostly because we all thought she was wrong. I still do.
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The Nehor wrote:Maggie didn't portray herself as a doubter, she portrayed herself (especially in the beginning) as a rebel. Her first posts were not about getting help but finding allies who would back her up. None did....mostly because we all thought she was wrong. I still do.


I don't think I read the posts you're referring to, Nehor, but my impression of Maggie is apparently quite different from yours. It seems to me that she simply had the misfortune of finding herself in juliann's crosshairs.... Are you really trying to tell me that you are unfamiliar with the exploits and tendencies of The Wrong-Headed Wench?
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