bcuzbcuz wrote:You ask good and sound questions. The preservation of life fell under the domain of Social Services as soon as they had custody for the child and it started with the criminal charges against the birth father and before they could ascertain whether the mother was equally accountable (she wasn't). Since my wife and I submitted our names for fostering (and it did happen exactly as I stated, my wife definitely felt empty-nest syndrome) we were then responsible to do whatever the assignment called for.
You touch on an important issue, that of preservation or prolongation. When the child was about 8 years of age and following a very long stretch of emergencies and hospital stays the administrative doctor asked for and finally received a DNR (do not resuscitate order). That whole process took a very long time, mostly hinging upon how the issue would be played by the media should they find out that Social Services signed such an order for a child in their care. The DNR was finally signed by three attending physicians, the birth mother, myself and Social Services. The question truly was "to what benefit is a life prolonged when there are no cognitive abilities and only long suffering by the child:"
hmmm...thank you for the well stated response.
but
i am still not clear on your "part" (as mentioned before)...given the exclusions you have mentioned, exactly what was behind your commitment? (aside form the pending book deal).