Gunnar wrote:Tobin wrote:Again, it isn't about trying - it is about doing. Don't whine about trying. Either be a believer and follower of God - or do not. For some reason you think you can fool God. God knows who and what you are. So, don't pretend to be something you aren't and say you "tried" to believe. It isn't and never will be about trying. It is ONLY about what you are. Either, you are a humble, patient, follower of God - or you are not. You have to decide which you are.
In other words, in order for it to work for me I have to decide to already believe it before I even ask, is that right? Why, then, should I even bother to ask?
And please stop accusing me of trying to fool God! That was never my intent! My intent was to do my darndest to insure that I was not fooling myself (which I very strongly suspect that you have done to yourself).
by the way, doing something intentional necessarily implies trying, despite what a fictional character in a science fiction movie says. You obviously can't do anything intentional without trying to do it. If something is certain to work, there is no real difference between trying to do it and actually doing it. Please stop splitting hairs (or grasping at straws).
Tobin is unfortunately very judgmental. He doesn't see that others see him coming off as hypocritical for giving advice he was never willing to do, and then assume since you are not a believer now that you never sought God.