DoubtingThomas wrote: ↑Thu May 07, 2020 2:16 am
I have a question wrote: ↑Wed May 06, 2020 2:33 pm
I cannot find support within those studies for your claim that it is especially prevalent within minorities and Mexicans.
Please quote the parts that support your assertion.
You have to read the study (not the abstract) and look for the word "Hispanic". The Ryan study isn't about 17 year olds, but it makes me assume that a lot of Hispanic 17 year old girls are dating older guys.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18318868
I have a question wrote: ↑Wed May 06, 2020 2:33 pm
It also concludes “ CONCLUSION:
Although the proportion of 15-17-year-old women who have a much older partner is small” (“small” isn’t a synonym of “many” or “common”).
Much older means "six or more years older" and 18% is small compared to the other percentages, but in a population or an age group 18% is a lot. So yes, a lot of 17 year olds are dating 20 year old guys.
According to the numbers at least
36% of 17 year olds have a relationship with older guys (3 years or older).
36% is a lot! Some states do allow 20 year old guys to date 17 year old women.
17 year olds are not juveniles in my state.'
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/10435214
EAllusion wrote: ↑Wed May 06, 2020 7:19 pm
If DT were Mexican-American himself, you might instead interpret his claim as attempting to argue that it is a more culturally normal thing for people like himself.
I am not, but it is in the literature. There are many other sources.
EAllusion wrote: ↑Wed May 06, 2020 7:19 pm
This would be weird if he wasn't attempting to defend a personal desire to have sexual relationships with teenagers.
18 or older are not teenagers. How many times do I have to state that I would never be in a relationship with someone under 18, even if the legal age is 16 or 17? Tell me how many? The thing is you accused me of borderline desire because I said
I was willing to date an 18 year old woman .
However, anything more than 1% is still a lot. Wouldn't you agree? It is doubtful the rate dropped a lot in the hispanic culture or states with the age of consent of 16.
DT” wrote: Of course it is (or was) higher for 17 year olds. It is illegal for an adult to be in a relationship with a 15 year old, and 16 is illegal in most US states. But it is okay for a 17 year old to date an older guy in many areas. The average age for sexual activity is 17, not 16 or 15. Please stop making me talk about 15 year olds.
Or high school seniors having sex with high school seniors. You can still be a senior at age 20.
I never said I only want virgin. If you read the first page "I really don't want to be the 4th, 5th, or 6th guy. It is okay if I am the 2nd guy, but more than that is just scary." and " I wouldn't have a problem dating a woman that was divorced."
EAllusion wrote: ↑Thu May 07, 2020 12:09 am
after backing off a more strident focus on teens you got a ton of flack for.
Please stop lying. You need to say "18 years or older",or simply say "women". If I want to I could say "I am open on dating a 17 year old", but I will never date a 17 year old woman because I don't feel it is appropriate, even if it is okay in some US states or the Hispanic culture.
" 7% a partner who was six or more years older" is definitely much much higher for 17 year olds.
MOST 17 YEAR OLDS ARE SEXUALLY ACTIVE. THERE IS NO BIG DIFFERENCE.
That is because I don't want to talk about 15 year olds, I mean come on! And yes because the percentage is 15-17 that means the percentage is (or was) much higher for 17 year olds.
For 17 year olds? 17 year olds are way more active than 15 year olds. Please stop making me talk about 15 year olds.
Anyways, my point is that is not very rare, or "more common than you think", especially in the hispanic community and some states.
And another round begins.
In doing some research on where DT might be getting his “topics,” some interesting patterns have emerged.
Critical discourse analyses of these [Incel related] groups’
communications online had uncovered predator-prey or master-servant dichotomies in their discussions about male-female relationships, and a reinforced sense of entitlement [3, 27]. For Incels, misogyny appeared to be coupled with racism as well, in particular for women of colour who are perceived as racially betraying darker skinned men in favour of white men [3, 34].
https://dl.acm.org/doi/pdf/10.1145/3292522.3326045
Sound familiar? But DT argues he does not know about “Incels” so consider this deeper look, from the same link:
r/: this is the main incel subreddit since r/incels was removed from Reddit in November 2017 for violating site- wide rules. It is widely believed that this happened because of a post from an r/incels user about legal advice in which he pretended to be asking a “general question about how rapists get caught”.
Some members of Braincels were also self-reported members of the website incels.me (now de- funct), and the more current incels.is or similar non-Reddit websites, where more violent content is posted.
Bolding added, as a reminder that this “topic” was exactly one of DT’s very first topics, about two years ago.
Speaking of his topics and the strong overtones running through his commentary, as mentioned by EA, here are a couple of self-descriptors of incel positions, from their wiki:
Men sexually prefer young women throughout life...
...throughout men's lives, men most prefer women who are 20-23 years old...
Discussion:
It has become commonplace to shame older men for pursuing young women. Such behavior is deemed creepy and perverted.
However, we can see from a male biological perspective it is totally natural, and it makes sense from an evolutionary perspective as young women are more fertile, have a lower rate of STDs and less likely have children from prior men...
https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackp ... atched_men
Bolding added to note that DT has made identical arguments in support of the idea that his preference for younger women should not be considered creepy: because it is natural, it is evolutionary, they have fewer STDs, and are less likely to have kids.
From the same link, another of DT’s oft repeated opinions.
Women with 5+ lifetime sexual partners have a >21.8% chance of carrying genital herpes
Note the very specific language about women with 5+ lifetime sexual partners, which was exactly the reason for DT’s original title about why half the women are “unattractive” to him.
Continuing with some of DT’s favorite repeated topics, also documented as incel positions, same link:
the preference of women's dating decisions regarding men's income.
We found that ratings of attractiveness were around 1000 times more sensitive to salary for females rating males, compared to males rating females. These results indicate that higher economic status can offset lower physical attractiveness in men much more easily than in women.
And another, virtually identical to his multiple references about why he can’t speak to woman at work due to his harassment concerns:
In a society where even simple measures of flirtation are now penalized and outlawed, it becomes difficult to understand how young people are meant to find romance in natural, real life settings, as men and women have done successfully for centuries before. It seems evident that we are moving towards expectations for more puritanical and sanitized gender interactions than any previous generation in recent history. The fear of sexual advances and assumption that any sexual advance ought to be punished as "harassment" correlates with increasing loneliness, isolation, and celibacy for both genders.
Again, sound familiar? A few more, even less comfortable topics DT has brought up, matched by further descriptions at the sample link:
“ types of responses by the participants represented a desire by them to conform to social norms that strongly prohibit older men being attracted to adolescent girls by downplaying their level of sexual attraction to the younger adolescent girls presented.”
In this next one, DT did not discuss children but rather young teenagers not being harmed by sex with older people. He has made the identical points about overstatedness and resilience, however, many many times:
Not only are men shamed for their natural sexuality, but the harm inflicted by sex acts that involve children has been overstated. There is substantial evidence that children typically respond with resilience to so called "potentially traumatic events".
And DT’s version:
I do want age of consent laws to protect children, but the idea that 16 and 17 year olds can't consent to sex is ridiculous. The law needs to change because consensual sex is not rape
viewtopic.php?p=1110967#p1110967
There is much more to the research, but for now, to me the question is: why are DT’s most oft repeated canards virtually identical to the researched descriptions and self-descriptions of incel positions? Either he has been trolling with hot-button, current topics, or he is the quintessential subject being studied.