I am sorry for your great loss.
Being the elephant in the room, I will resist the temptation to comment on the substance of your OP - Rather, as someone who has been partaking in this community for many years (perhaps approaching two decades?) I have decided to offer a few words relating to the section of your post that I have bolded - because I think it's much more important in meaningful ways.So you can imagine my delight at discovering an online community that shares my interests and opinions on Mormonism and politics. The amount of hate speech here is so overwhelming that I decided to quit posting for months. When other users openly criticize the character and ideas of some of the posters here, I don't know what to say. Even though I disagree with Ceeboo on political and religious issues, I will never treat a fellow human being with the same level of disrespect as many of the forum regulars do toward Ceeboo. The use of groupthink to control churchgoers was a major factor in my decision to cease going. It appears that the intention here is to dissuade people from posting by utilizing groupthink. To deter others from participating, certain members are resorting to personal attacks in their posts. Personal attacks are acceptable in a lower kingdom, but I don't think that's the case here. Why is it that a small number of board members are subject to such intense animosity?
As I reflect upon the totality of my personal experience that I have had as a member of this particular online community (which is many years and involves countless individual people and covers a wide variety of topics/subjects) I end up feeling quite fortunate for a variety of reasons.
In an attempt to not bore you. I will keep it short and simply say that I have benefited by many people who were willing to share their personal knowledge with me - many who have forced me to think (or rethink) some of my positions - many who have been generous enough to share their personal life experiences with me - and perhaps most importantly, many who have provided a laugh, or shared in a laugh with me, at various times in my life when a seemingly meaningless laugh - on a random night - during a random moment in time, was extremely meaningful and valuable to me. For this alone, I am most grateful to many people who were once part of this community as well as some who are still part of this community.
I mention this because of what you wrote in your OP (what I bolded) because as I see it, we human beings just don't benefit from community, we need community (sometimes the need and benefit is greater at certain times in our lives than at other times in our lives). So, given your stated delight in your OP, I wanted to offer you a bit of encouragement as it relates to this community and the board that houses said community.