Hi Coggy, seems you haven't changed your medication ;-) Love your posts!!
Loran:
Thanks
Re the opening post: Vegas is expressing his personal experiences. Experiences that are not uniquely his, as other posters confirm. I think there is ample evidence that Mormons are less different from others than we expect them to be.
Loran:
Vegas is expressing, to my mind, a mindless hatred of that whiich either he does not understand, or understands, and cannot handle.
The "truth" about LDSism, and its folks, in whatever position they hold, is often--by some--very disconcerting, if not painful because the Institution TENDS to indoctriate its members with "Church Perfection". This Missionary message seeds the inevitable--for some--fruits of 'apostacy'. They are built in by arrogance and ignorance from Top-down, and Bottom-up that some people will just not abide.
Loran:
Yes, you are correct. lThe missionary message seeds apostacy; but this is not inevitable in any individual context, only in a collective sence: some portion of those who hear the Gospel message will fall away.
That others seem to thrive in this dysfunction might be more to their credit than not???
Loran:
Anyone who thrives on psychological dysfunction should be on a couch, whether to their credit or not.
My experience has been as a convert in the far reaches of the Canadian Mission Field. A group of poor folks, we huddled together against the "cold cruel world" with no discrimination what-so-ever. Well, maybe to those not good enough to remain, or to be on time, or didn't do their HT/VT, or didn't maintain our dress standards... OK, we were discrimating. Because we were/are normal.
We do it all the time. Our off-hours activities, our entertainment, the books we read, the music we enjoy, blah, blah, blah... Who wants to spend time with folks who choose every item above differently than we do??? I'm geting to my point:
Loran:
In other words, you're not a very discricminating sort...
The last sentence was about trivial matters of which it is below my present intellectual status to critique.
Unless you ask me real nice...
Loran