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_MormonMendacity
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wenglund wrote:
Who Knows wrote:
wenglund wrote:<snip> WRONG.
<snip>.
WRONG. <snip> WRONG.
<snip>
<snip>WRONG.
So, as expected, you're WRONG.
Ironically, no, you are again WRONG.

Thanks, -Wade Englund-

It's always fun to watch pseudo-intellectuals like Wade psycho-babble away.

Wade, can I get a "WRONG!!!"?
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wenglund wrote:
WRONG. You are fallaciously imposing your fundamentalist view of "knowledge" onto me. See Tal's interview with me where I explain this in more indepth. I believe we can "know" things in non-definitive and non-absolute objective ways. I don't believe we have the capacity as finite and fallible humans to "know" things in a definitive and absolute objective way. Do you understand the important distiction? If so, then you will understand that you are WRONG.


I kind of knew this was coming, Wade. I hope you've actually read some poststructuralism and are not just repeating Juliann's stuff.

This accusation of fundamentalism always cracks me up. Next you'll be telling us we're rooted in Enlightenment notions of reality. ;-)
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wenglund wrote:I believe...
I don't believe...


Oh, well then it's all settled. Runtu (and myself) are wrong for concluding that the church isn't what it claims, while those who do believe it is what it claims are perfectly fine.

Whatever, you can't escape from using one set of arguments to try and win your point, but then avoid using those same arguments against your point. You can try, but we see through the b***s*** here.

And your definition of knowledge is laughable. I'm sure when Johnny gets up and bears his testimony, that's exactly what he's thinking.

Do you ever just stop and listen to yourself Wade?

True. And, nothing I have said could reasonably be interpreted to suggest otherwise. If you believe I have suggested that, then you would be WRONG.


But the one displays cognitive distortion and the other doesn't. Right.

Ironically, no, you are again WRONG.


Sorry, you're wrong.

Should we keep playing this stupid game?
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Who Knows wrote:
Oh, well then it's all settled. Runtu (and myself) are wrong for concluding that the church isn't what it claims, while those who do believe it is what it claims are perfectly fine.

Whatever, you can't escape from using one set of arguments to try and win your point, but then avoid using those same arguments against your point. You can try, but we see through the b***s*** here.

And your definition of knowledge is laughable. I'm sure when Johnny gets up and bears his testimony, that's exactly what he's thinking.

Do you ever just stop and listen to yourself Wade?

But the one displays cognitive distortion and the other doesn't. Right.

Sorry, you're wrong.

Should we keep playing this stupid game?


Here's the problem: this postmodern approach asserts that there is no such thing as reality. As Terry Eagleton once wrote, it allows you the luxury of running a wagon train through everyone else's beliefs without the inconvenience of putting any beliefs forward yourself.

The postmodern Mormons have taken this approach and grafted Moroni 10:3-5 onto it. If there is no such thing as observable reality, they tell us, then the only way to approach truth is through the spirit. It's kind of a nice little band-aid, but it collapses of its own weight because nothing Wade or I or anyone else says can be considered true or wrong (or in Wade's parlance TRUE or WRONG). And that kind of defeats the entire point of Mormonism (well, except that part where Joseph said that it was fine for him to have sex with Nancy Rigdon because adultery isn't always wrong).
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Runtu wrote:
wenglund wrote:Beside the pragmatic socio-epistemic rule of thumb: "presumption of innocence" (which I extended initially to you and others here, and I still believe you are genuine and sincere in your expressed thoughts and actions--though I think you are mistaken in some ways) I have, through my several decades of extensive and indepth research into the Church, and my personal interactions with members at all ecclesiastical levels of my faith (including apostles), found no significant reason to doubt the genuiness and sincerity and good faith of the Church, and more than ample reasons sufficient to give me high confidence that the Church is genuine and sincere and acting in good faith. I have every reason to think that, overwhelmingly, the faithful members, like myself, and chosen leaders (particularly those at the General Authjority level), have faith in the verity of the restored gospel of Christ, and their words and actions, for the most part, are a convincing witness and a testiment to their genuiness, sincerity, and good faith therein.

How about you?

Thanks, -Wade Enlgund-


It's really depended on the situation. I saw my mission president gloss over or deny uncomfortable truths. I saw GAs that I worked with do the same, as well as beat up on anyone who questioned. I heard from eyewitnesses and family members of the victims about the church's appalling behavior during the Hofmann episode. But by and large, most people believed sincerely.

So, I'm left in a quandary. The evidence that the church is not what it claims to be is pretty overwhelming. The evidence that its leaders are intentionally misleading people is perhaps less overwhelming, but it's there nonetheless.


I can understand if you say there is a lack of evidence for you to believe, or sufficient evidence to raise doubts about the verity of Church. But, I think you significantly overstate your case, or you have jumped to false conclusions, to say that there is overwhellming evidence that it is NOT what it claims to be. Do you understand the important distinction? For example, I may say that the evidence for space aliens visiting the earth and abducting people is insufficient to cause me to believe, and some of the evidence has raised doubts whether space aliens have visted earth and abducted people, and I may believe there is a more viable explanation. But, I don't think there is sufficient evidence to disprove the claims that space aliens visited the earth. It would be a cognitive distortion to suggest that there was sufficient evidence to disprove the claim.

It would also be a cognitive distortion were I to, like you, take a few instance when I perceived ET advocates as hedging or dodging hard questions, and conclude from that the ET movement is a lie and presenting false pretenses and not acting in good faith, and deceptive.

And, were I to have once believed in ET's, and spent considerable time and energy and money acting on that belief, and then later stopped believing, it would be a cognitive distortion to view ET believers, on that basis, as lying and deceptive and not acting in good faith--though I could consider them as mistaken.

John, there is a reason that you, and relatively few others of you, believe the Church is lying, deceptive, and not acting in good faith and deceptive. Why do you suppose that is? Could it be that you have a distorted view of things for reasons of your own?

Wade, if the church were not what it claims to be, how would you go about figuring that out?


The same way that I went about determining if it was what it claimed to be. These are two sides of the same coin. I explain this in greater detail in Tal's interview with me.

Thanks, -Wade Englund-
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Who Knows wrote:
wenglund wrote:I believe...
I don't believe...


Oh, well then it's all settled. Runtu (and myself) are wrong for concluding that the church isn't what it claims, while those who do believe it is what it claims are perfectly fine.


If that is what you think I said, then you are WRONG (and I say this as the ULTIMATE AUTHORITY of what I have said and meant). In fact, I explicitely said otherwise. It is fine that you and Runtu believe the Church isn't what it claims, just as it is fine for me to believe the Church is what it claims. That is not the cognitive distortion I had in mind. Instead, it is whether or not the Church was lying and deceiving and not acting in good faith. If the Church genuinely and sincerely believes in what the Church claims, then they are not lying and deceiving and acting in bad faith, regardless whether one believes the Church is what it claims to be or not. Did you get it that time, or do I need to repeat it again?

For example, lets say you told a romantic interest that you loved him/her, and you truely believed that you did and still do love that person. Were that person to once believe you, and then later stop believing that you love him/her, does that mean you were lying, disingenuine, insincere, acting in bad faith, and deceptive, even thought you still believe you truthfully, genuinely, sincerely, in good faith, and honestly loved and still love that person? Wouldn't you consider it a cognitive distortion for your former romantic interest to conclude that about you?

Thanks, -Wade Englund-
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Runtu wrote:Here's the problem: this postmodern approach asserts that there is no such thing as reality. As Terry Eagleton once wrote, it allows you the luxury of running a wagon train through everyone else's beliefs without the inconvenience of putting any beliefs forward yourself.

The postmodern Mormons have taken this approach and grafted Moroni 10:3-5 onto it. If there is no such thing as observable reality, they tell us, then the only way to approach truth is through the spirit. It's kind of a nice little band-aid, but it collapses of its own weight because nothing Wade or I or anyone else says can be considered true or wrong (or in Wade's parlance TRUE or WRONG). And that kind of defeats the entire point of Mormonism (well, except that part where Joseph said that it was fine for him to have sex with Nancy Rigdon because adultery isn't always wrong).


Your description of postmodern Mormons is quite unfamiliar to me. I certanly don't recognize it in what I have said or meant.

But then, accurately understanding what I say isn't your forté'. Putting words into my mouth is.

Enjoy dancing with that straw man.

Thanks, -Wade Englund-
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wenglund wrote:For example, lets say you told a romantic interest that you loved him/her, and you truely believed that you did and still do love that person. Were that person to once believe you, and then later stop believing that you love him/her, does that mean you were lying, disingenuine, insincere, acting in bad faith, and deceptive, even thought you still believe you truthfully, genuinely, sincerely, in good faith, and honestly loved and still love that person? Wouldn't you consider it a cognitive distortion for your former romantic interest to conclude that about you?

Thanks, -Wade Englund-


Let's extend the analogy a bit. If you told the romantic interest that you were a prophet, and a man of God, and then it later came to light that you had been hauled in to court for activities relating to your dabbling in the occult, and that you used a seer stone, and moreover, that your organization preaches against, among other things, the consumption of alcohol, despite the fact that you yourself are a drinker, and that despite your declaration of love, you have also declared your love for other, "plural" romantic interests, including teen-aged girls, does it mean you've been misrepresenting yourself?
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Runtu wrote:
wenglund wrote:
WRONG. You are fallaciously imposing your fundamentalist view of "knowledge" onto me. See Tal's interview with me where I explain this more indepth. I believe we can "know" things in non-definitive and non-absolute objective ways. I don't believe we have the capacity as finite and fallible humans to "know" things in a definitive and absolute objective way. Do you understand the important distiction? If so, then you will understand that you are WRONG.


I kind of knew this was coming, Wade. I hope you've actually read some poststructuralism and are not just repeating Juliann's stuff.


I haven't read Juliann's "stuff" (except brief snippets from the discussion I had with Scratch and Beastie regarding her definition of "apostate"). Nor, for that matter, have I read much of anything on poststructuralism. In other words, neither has informed my current view. What little I have read of poststructuralism, it doesn't resonate with me. Unlike poststructuralists, I don't reject the claim to have discovered truths or facts about the worlds. I strenuously disagree with Barth, a leading poststructuralist, when he assertied, in "Death of the Author", that the author is not the prime source for meaning in a text. And, I accept the "self" as a singular and coherent entity. As I understand it, these are several key positions of poststructuralism with which I am at odds. So, how I can still be viewed as a postconstructionalist, is anyone's guess.

This accusation of fundamentalism always cracks me up.


Do you know what I mean by "fundamentalism"?

Next you'll be telling us we're rooted in Enlightenment notions of reality. ;-)


Actually, I wouldn't. But, I will leave it to you to put those words in my mouth. ;-)

Thanks, -Wade Englund-
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Mister Scratch wrote:
wenglund wrote:For example, lets say you told a romantic interest that you loved him/her, and you truely believed that you did and still do love that person. Were that person to once believe you, and then later stop believing that you love him/her, does that mean you were lying, disingenuine, insincere, acting in bad faith, and deceptive, even thought you still believe you truthfully, genuinely, sincerely, in good faith, and honestly loved and still love that person? Wouldn't you consider it a cognitive distortion for your former romantic interest to conclude that about you?

Thanks, -Wade Englund-


Let's extend the analogy a bit. If you told the romantic interest that you were a prophet, and a man of God, and then it later came to light that you had been hauled in to court for activities relating to your dabbling in the occult, and that you used a seer stone, and moreover, that your organization preaches against, among other things, the consumption of alcohol, despite the fact that you yourself are a drinker, and that despite your declaration of love, you have also declared your love for other, "plural" romantic interests, including teen-aged girls, does it mean you've been misrepresenting yourself?


Let me also build on it. Let's say the woman found some things out about the guy that the guy wasn't honest about. Let's say that there was good reason for the woman to not trust the guy anymore, because of certain actions of his that she felt went against his words. Let's say the guy truly did love her, but he did some deceptive things and didn't tell her about it. Would you consider it a cognitive distortion for her to conclude that the guy wasn't totally truthful with her, that she may not be able to believe anything he says any more?

Let me also ask you this Wade: Do you consider it cognitive distortion for someone to embrace Mormonism, become happy about it, and go about telling everyone that the church is true, that they should join the church? (You're essentially saying the opposite of this is cognitive distortion)

Face it Wade - for your 'theories' to be true (this whole cognitive distortion thing) - you need the church to be true - you need the church to be what it claims to be. Since you can't claim that - let alone prove it, you have nothing.
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