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Ray A wrote:
Mister Scratch wrote:Mormons have not been "driven out of the lands they settled" in over a hundred years. I doubt very much that they will be "driven out" of the Zion Corridor any time soon. Do you have a better analogy, or is this just more of the TBM persecution complex?


Scratch, in this post once again you demonstrate your poor comprehension of what I'm saying. Did I say Mormons would be driven out from anywhere? Do you understand what a historical analogy is?


Yes, I do. And your Jews vs. Mormons analogy is a poor one, mate.

Have Jews been driven out from anywhere since 1947? Does anti-Jewish sentiment still exist? Does violence against Jews still occur? They are still threatened on all sides, and some crazy people like Saddam have said they wanted them nuked. Why do you think there are Jewish organisations created to fight anti-Semitism? You know, if angry exmos said in this country about Jews what they are saying about Mormons it wouldn't be long before they were hauled before the courts and anti-discrimination boards. But I understand that in America you have different constitutional laws. Anti-Muslim websites in this country have been shut down. I know the owner of one who was shut down. Why? I won't rely on your genius to work that out, Scratch. It breeds public hatred of minority groups.


You don't have any evidence to support your position, Ray.

Again, I think your analogy is awfully shaky. Where are the Mormon equivalents of the great Jewish authors? Or the great Jewish musicians? Face it: Mormonism crushes these sorts of impulses. As Eugene England said, "The first great Mormon author will be excommunicated from the Church."


So let me see. How long have the Jews been in existence? Since 1830? Got it. Mormons, by the way, do excel at science.


Once again, we find your analogy straining credulity.

No, since your quote require that antis, exmos, and so forth cleave to "spiritual forces." The reason---as evidenced by your own quote---that anti-Semitism flourished had to do with its connection to religious belief. If you would like to demonstrate how RfM and its ilk dabble in some kind of spiritual mysticism that will eventually cause people to irrationally attack Mormons and Mormonism, then I'm all ears.


This is what I mean by your lack of comprehension. See my remarks to Bond, but I doubt you'll "get it".


I read your remarks to Bond, Ray. You said that Luther's "language" led to the Nazis. I disagreed. It is as simple as that.

Again, the problem with your comparison (in my opinion) is that your own sources view religion as being necessary for the mindless, lockstep behavior and thinking that led to the Nazi genocide. Ex-Mormonism is, by definition, a lack of religion.


See above. Also, Ex-Mormonism is not "by definition" a "lack of religion", but it shows your own narrow thinking and crass prejudices.


Gee, it does? You are beginning to sound like Pahoran. Ex-mormonism is not a religion. Your sources cite religion as a necessary accompaniment to anti-Semitic genocide. 'Nuff said.

Were the Tanners non-religious? Is Ed Decker non-religious? Are all the posters on RFM non-religious? Ex-Mormons come in many varieties, not your prejudiced way of seeing it, Scratch.


Yes, and given your sources, the implication is that exmo pluralism seriously reduces chances of the kind of genocide you seem to be imagining.

Right. And posters on *this* board are "routinely stereotyped" as "brazen liars," lovers of porn, Sons of Perdition, "apostates," haters, vulgarians, etc., etc., etc.


I see far more of this coming from here, and RFM. And you'd have to be blind not to see that.


Ray. Look, it obvious what you're doing here. This whole discussion---in fact the bulk of ALL online discussion about Mormonism---is really a battle for moral superiority. It is about who is "right," and also about who is more "good." The chief difference between TBMs and exmos is that the TBMs are absolutists. They totally and uniformly insist that they are 100% right, and refuse to give an inch. Thus, they deserve to be subjected to the highest level of scrutiny, and to be utterly and completely condemned when they screw up. The day that the Church begins admitting that it has sometimes been wrong; the day DCP offers up sincere apologies for his various cheap shots; the day that the Church quits trying to paint people who leave as "rotten to the core" apostates and Sons of P.---that is the day that the criticism will start to wane.

Wow. Ray, honestly, how can you rely on that unadulterated crap from DCP? Really, that article was most definitely not one of his better moments. It is very intriguing that he has to rely upon Mormonism in order to demonstrate the "wrongness" of RfM. Can he not rely on "secular" means to deconstruct and effectively criticize "secular anti-Mormonism"?


If you can't see the wrongness of what he quoted as coming from RFM, then you wouldn't know the difference between a boy scout and a terrorist.


Because of its Absolutism, the Church and its representatives must be held to a much, much higher standard. They just don't deserve the same standards and treatments as others.

Where are you getting this, Ray? What is your evidence? Your own, private, personal barometer? Do you not notice that you are saying "the 'crap' has always been around" at the same time that you are saying "the criticism has reached a new tempo"? Does this not seem the slightest bit hypocritical to you?


This is what I mean by a severe lack of comprehension skill. A kindergarten child could see the differentiation.


Oddly, you seem unable to comprehend the contradictions in your own rantings. Post the evidence, Ray. Let us see for ourselves.

Also: has it ever occurred to you that much of this criticism would dissipate if the Church changed some of its uglier policies?


Like what? Name me some of these "ugly policies".


---No priesthood for women
---Heavy insistence on "obedience"
---sexual guilt
---old and unresolved racist policies
---closely guarded finances
---strident anti-homosexuality
---etc., etc., etc.

What could be uglier than the vitriol that comes from you?


How about your posts on this thread?

You and your vitriolic blog, and your constant yelling at the Church to "change!" Why do you want change so much?


Because it would improve the Church.

You still have not explained this to me. Is the Church a danger to the world?


Perhaps. I think at the very least it is a "danger" to certain aspects of life. Such as free thought and expression.

Are you a member of the Church? This is the great mystery.


The fact that you so intensely and aggressively desire to know tells me that I should keep it a secret. The truth is that I don't say because I prefer not to hear the same old, tired ad hominem attacks. Let me break it down for you:
---If I am a full-on member in good standing, you'll say: You are a traitor! We don't need 'ark steadiers'!
---If I am inactive, you'll say: You are a lazy slob and have no right to criticize!
---If I am an exmo, you'll say: You don't even pay tithing, and since you don't put in the work you have no right to criticize!
---If I am a nevermo, you'll say: You've never even been a member, you have no right to criticize!

See, Ray? It does not matter one iota what my membership status is. Your reply to me would be the same regardless. Or do you disagree? Why does the "mystery" upset you so much?

WHY does Scratch want The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints to change so much??


Because it embarrasses and sickens me to know that the church of my family has been---and continues to be---guilty of so much ugliness.

Meaning, of course, that angry writings such as DCP's article, when connected to the "spiritual forces" of Mormonism, will eventually lead to a mass hunting down of ex- and anti-Mormons. Your own source requires religion as a factor, Ray.


Was Mao religious? Was Stalin? Are the Chinese running Tibet because of their religious beliefs? Do you think Saddam believed one word of the Qur'an? No, Scratch, you're just showing that as well as being an anti-Mormon you are also anti-religion.


Nice try, Ray. Perhaps you will use a source that better supports your position next time. Instead, you've shot yourself in the foot.

Again, Ray, you seem confused. On the one hand, you say the "vindictiveness" is ratcheting up, and yet on the other you say, "I think....they don't [indicate general ex-Mormon sentiment]." Which is it? Have you built yourself a nice little anti-Mormon straw man to take your aggressions out on?


The vindictiveness is increasing on forums where exmos post.


Then prove it! Show me real evidence.

I do not know the minds of what the 50% or so of exmos and inactives in America think. From what beastie says, they are just as angry but don't express it. In fact, she says her sister shows more dislike of the Church than she does, but never expresses it publicly. I do not know, because in my part of the world exmos say little, on forums or in real life. They have a simple philosophy - Live and Let Live. Get on with your life.


Wise Aussie words indeed. Perhaps you should heed them, Ray.

Then again, perhaps the Church will change its ways, and no one will have anything to complain about.


I ask you again, what is your agenda? Are you a member of the Church? Why are you so anxious for change? WHAT do you want to change?


See above.
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Scratch, everything you posted reminds me of why Dan Peterson doesn't bother with you. And frankly, I don't know why I waste my time.

I think you need to see a shrink.
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Ray A wrote:Scratch, everything you posted reminds me of why Dan Peterson doesn't bother with you. And frankly, I don't know why I waste my time.

I think you need to see a shrink.


Ray, Scratch makes lots of sense. You make very little sense.
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Ray A wrote:Scratch, everything you posted reminds me of why Dan Peterson doesn't bother with you. And frankly, I don't know why I waste my time.

I think you need to see a shrink.


In other words, you have no real reply. Funny how no one else on the thread seems to agree with your views, Ray. In any case, I enjoyed kicking your butt.
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Ray,

I have followed Scratch's points easily. He's also demonstrated an even-tempered attitude towards you, despite the fact that you have essentially called him a mass murderer without the slightest justification.

If Mormons are going to make extravagant statements like "the LDS church is the one true church, the only church with the real priesthood of JC providing the necessary authority to provide saving ordinances, NO ONE ELSE has that authority", and then act dismissive, sarcastic, and judgmental towards those who criticize these claims, then you all ought to grow some balls and learn to live with harsh reactions.

Don't interpret my comments to mean I sanction mean, personal remarks. I don't, and think they usually detract from the case being made. But to take these mean, personal comments that are so common on the internet and certainly not unique to Mormon critiques and pretend that they portend mass violence against Mormons - I have to agree that's a bit nutty.
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beastie wrote:Ray,

I have followed Scratch's points easily. He's also demonstrated an even-tempered attitude towards you, despite the fact that you have essentially called him a mass murderer without the slightest justification.


Thanks for the support, Beastie. I have an addendum to this discussion, which I will post in a new thread.
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beastie wrote:Ray,

I have followed Scratch's points easily. He's also demonstrated an even-tempered attitude towards you, despite the fact that you have essentially called him a mass murderer without the slightest justification.

If Mormons are going to make extravagant statements like "the LDS church is the one true church, the only church with the real priesthood of JC providing the necessary authority to provide saving ordinances, NO ONE ELSE has that authority", and then act dismissive, sarcastic, and judgmental towards those who criticize these claims, then you all ought to grow some balls and learn to live with harsh reactions.

Don't interpret my comments to mean I sanction mean, personal remarks. I don't, and think they usually detract from the case being made. But to take these mean, personal comments that are so common on the internet and certainly not unique to Mormon critiques and pretend that they portend mass violence against Mormons - I have to agree that's a bit nutty.


I'm stunned. I really am. Coming from you this really gives me pause for thought. But I guess I never understood why someone as intelligent as you are would even go on RFM. Brent and Dan Vogel (and even when he went on look at the reception he got, what does that tell you?) show good sense in avoiding it, and both express opinions which are in my opinion very balanced. And there you go again, I called Scratch a "mass murderer"? Where Beastie? You see, what you're doing here is what Scratch always does. Scratch is a sophist, and you know what a sophist is. One who makes rhetorical arguments, and avoids addressing the real substance of a debate and distorts his opponents clear and pointed comments by shifting the debate. When I asked Scatch if he was responsible for the comments about Dan Peterson on The Mormon Curtain, he avoided answering me, yet he constantly demands answers of others. I recently checked The Mormon Curtain, and I see there is now only one post from Scratch. Formerly there were two. Now I could be mistaken, but I'm sure there were two. I'll check this later when I have more time.

I am not persuaded that Scratch is an honest person. He is the chief accuser of Mormons here, and, incognito, he launches his attacks and constantly psycho-analyses individual Mormons, reads their minds, and charges them with malicious motives and actions. Yet we do not know a thing about him, who he is, what he believes, and he intensely dislikes scrutiny of himself, and he takes pains to avoid that scrutiny by hiding his identity and his beliefs. He has said this himself. We still do not know which Scratch is the real Scratch. I initially didn't mind Scratch at all, and never really felt any strong animosity to him. He denied he was an anti-Mormon on the old MDB, so I took him at his word. On superficial appearances he appeared to be rather benign, even likable. But when he continued his obsession campaign of revenge, and engaged in twisted interpretations of what Dan Peterson said, and his personal, nasty revenge attacks against Juliann, I decided he was not so benign after all. This was more than just "entertainment". This guy has a gut hatred of Mormonism. He has an unhealthy and negative obsession with Mormonism, and trying to change it. It will, of course, be to no avail, because as I've said numerous times, why would any Mormon, especially a TBM, listen to the rantings of someone like him? If the very people you wish to change despise you, you have no chance. Mormons don't listen to anti-Mormons, they listen to the moderate voices who are friendly to them.

I'd like to comment particularly about your statement:

If Mormons are going to make extravagant statements like "the LDS church is the one true church, the only church with the real priesthood of JC providing the necessary authority to provide saving ordinances, NO ONE ELSE has that authority", and then act dismissive, sarcastic, and judgmental towards those who criticize these claims, then you all ought to grow some balls and learn to live with harsh reactions.


You have said you were not at all interested in changing Mormons. But this "one true church" statement really seems to leave you in a tangle. I am no more offended by this than the statement of the Catholic Church that IT is the one true church. If you really think Mormonism is a dud, why does this bother you so much? You think the Book of Mormon was created by men, and is not inspired of God, and you have referred to this "weak God", whose existence you don't even believe in, who created a Church based on fictional claims, and gave an authority that doesn't exist, by Mormons who are such a small portion of the American people, who will have no influence on them, and yet you are deeply offended by the the "one true church" statement. This does not compute.

I don't have any problem with the harsh criticisms. I have borne quite a lot from obsessed ex-Mormons over the years, beginning with RFM in 2002, and then continuing on Exmo-Social. Some of the deranged nuts on the latter persuaded me to leave EMS. I do honestly believe some of them were capable of violence. Incidentally, the moderator of that board, John Hamer (who posted for a time on FAIR and never once showed animosity to Mormons), was one of the finest and most pleasant exmos I have ever met. We engaged in quite a long email correspondence, and I was impressed by his balanced views and healthy outlook on Mormonism from the perspective of an exmo. But he was a total unbeliever, and never felt Mormonism was any threat to him. I suppose I just don't understand all the "excitement", and the stern and on-going campaign to "change the church". Why? Is it really a threat? I keep hearing that "lives have been destroyed". So what? I could easily say that my life was destroyed by Mormonism. Had I not joined the Church I would not have spent 28 years raising children (no easy task, and I'm still sacrificing), had an extremely bitter divorce and ended up bankrupt, working obsessive hours for years on end to pay back debts, and forfeited a life of ease. Oh, and I would not have "wasted two years of my life". I could look back on all of this with extreme bitterness, and many would say I was justified, and they would also justify any rantings on my part on the "recovery" board, because I would be seen as "truly hurting", a poor soul who needs to "vent" all the time.

So I return your comment, beastie. Go tell your friends on RFM to "grow some balls". Life wasn't meant to be easy, but it's so easy to find scapegoats.
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Mister Scratch wrote:
Ray A wrote:Scratch, everything you posted reminds me of why Dan Peterson doesn't bother with you. And frankly, I don't know why I waste my time.

I think you need to see a shrink.


In other words, you have no real reply. Funny how no one else on the thread seems to agree with your views, Ray. In any case, I enjoyed kicking your butt.


It's not funny at all how no one else agrees with me. It is to be expected. In fact, your agreements only confirm one thing: Like attracts like. Obsessed people, apparently, are drawn to other obsessed people. If you had some decent arguments I would take them seriously. But shock-jock posters seldom have substance. Enjoy your momentary "fame", which will fade like the flower of grass. When you are dead and gone, like all of us, the name of Joseph Smith will be heard by millions, billions. I can guarantee you one thing, there will never be a momument to "Mr. Scratch", so enjoy your 15 minutes of fame.
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I don't have time for a fully reply, Ray, other than to note you need to take responsibility for your own statements. Would it pass muster if I stated that you didn't "call" Scratch a mass murderer (Eichman) but rather COMPARED him to one? Is that better?

However you want me to phrase it to be acceptable, there was no excuse for it. I told you at the beginning of this thread when you did just that that you lost credibility with me on this issue.
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I'm stunned. I really am. Coming from you this really gives me pause for thought. But I guess I never understood why someone as intelligent as you are would even go on RFM.


Or someone as intelligent as DCP. Or someone as intelligent as Hamblin. Why do you not question their intelligence? They go to the same website, don't they?

And there you go again, I called Scratch a "mass murderer"? Where Beastie?


That would be the reference to Eichmann. I'm pretty sure it's gotta be uncomfortable to be lumped with one of the most evil men to ever exist.

When I asked Scatch if he was responsible for the comments about Dan Peterson on The Mormon Curtain, he avoided answering me, yet he constantly demands answers of others.


And this is different from others who you haven't compared to Eichmann how? I'm just wondering why you've decided Scratch is in charge of the dark side here. Because he picks on DCP, he's evil? Because he points out the weaknesses of DCP's arguments? Because he ridicules DCP? I don't recall seeing the memo prohibiting that behavior, coming from church headquarters. Actually, I don't recall seeing anything about playing nice with church apologists specifically lately. Maybe you can post a link.

I recently checked The Mormon Curtain, and I see there is now only one post from Scratch. Formerly there were two. Now I could be mistaken, but I'm sure there were two. I'll check this later when I have more time.


Oh, so now he's dishonest, in addition to being lumped with a mass murderer? Thanks for the update.

I am not persuaded that Scratch is an honest person. He is the chief accuser of Mormons here, and, incognito, he launches his attacks and constantly psycho-analyses individual Mormons, reads their minds, and charges them with malicious motives and actions. Yet we do not know a thing about him, who he is, what he believes, and he intensely dislikes scrutiny of himself, and he takes pains to avoid that scrutiny by hiding his identity and his beliefs. He has said this himself.


Revealing personal information about oneself is not a requirement for posting here. Refusing to allow the spotlight to be shined on onself is not against the rules. Refusing to reveal personal information should not be used to infer honesty, since the two are not at all connected. Just because one uses effective arguments against the church's apologists doesn't make one an accuser of Mormons here. Try to cease conflating the church, as an entity, with the apologists for the church either at FAIR or FARMS. The two are not synonymous.

We still do not know which Scratch is the real Scratch. I initially didn't mind Scratch at all, and never really felt any strong animosity to him. He denied he was an anti-Mormon on the old MDB, so I took him at his word. On superficial appearances he appeared to be rather benign, even likable. But when he continued his obsession campaign of revenge, and engaged in twisted interpretations of what Dan Peterson said, and his personal, nasty revenge attacks against Juliann, I decided he was not so benign after all.


And since when do you get to make any interpretation at all, for the rest of us? My interpretation of Dan Peterson is nigh onto unprintable, and my interpretation of Juliann is similarly uncharitable, and I have good and sufficient reason for both. I imagine Scratch has similiar reasons.

This was more than just "entertainment".


And you get to make this determination for everyone else because..... why?

This guy has a gut hatred of Mormonism. He has an unhealthy and negative obsession with Mormonism, and trying to change it.


And you know this how? You have mysterious mind-reading abilities that allow you access to another's mind and motives? And you have no compunction about letting us see your extraordinary abilities in this matter here on the forum.... why?

It will, of course, be to no avail, because as I've said numerous times, why would any Mormon, especially a TBM, listen to the rantings of someone like him? If the very people you wish to change despise you, you have no chance. Mormons don't listen to anti-Mormons, they listen to the moderate voices who are friendly to them.


Then you have nothing to worry about, do you? You should be grateful to Scratch for his rhetoric, since it removes him from any Mormon's orbit.

I'd like to comment particularly about your statement:

If Mormons are going to make extravagant statements like "the LDS church is the one true church, the only church with the real priesthood of JC providing the necessary authority to provide saving ordinances, NO ONE ELSE has that authority", and then act dismissive, sarcastic, and judgmental towards those who criticize these claims, then you all ought to grow some balls and learn to live with harsh reactions.


You have said you were not at all interested in changing Mormons. But this "one true church" statement really seems to leave you in a tangle. I am no more offended by this than the statement of the Catholic Church that IT is the one true church. If you really think Mormonism is a dud, why does this bother you so much? You think the Book of Mormon was created by men, and is not inspired of God, and you have referred to this "weak God", whose existence you don't even believe in, who created a Church based on fictional claims, and gave an authority that doesn't exist, by Mormons who are such a small portion of the American people, who will have no influence on them, and yet you are deeply offended by the the "one true church" statement. This does not compute.


One word: family. Anyone who has who believes the LDS church is not the one true church, yet has family who does not see the church through the same paradigm, is working in a difficult situation.

I don't have any problem with the harsh criticisms.


You certainly do have a problem with the harsh criticisms, when those criticisms and that harshness is directed at either Dan Peterson or Juliann.

So I return your comment, beastie. Go tell your friends on RFM to "grow some balls". Life wasn't meant to be easy, but it's so easy to find scapegoats.


As you have. Scratch is convenient and accessible. You have just indulged in what that behavior which you accuse him of. Easy to do, isn't it?
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