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beastie wrote:You insist you have no vendetta against RFM but said this on the second page of this thread:

Come on, beastie. I post on one thread in retribution for the sick-minded, constant attacks on Mormons, in the same tone that this hate-filled, anti-Mormon board does all the time, and you blame me?

I am sick to death of the attacks, overt, covert, subtle, not so subtle. Do you GET IT!!?? And I will use the "freedom" of this board to fight it tooth and nail from now on. And I don't give a rat's ass who I offend.


You're talking out of both sides of your mouth.


A vendetta is:

an often prolonged series of retaliatory, vengeful, or hostile acts or exchange of such acts


Scratch has a vendetta against MAD and the Church. Do I have a blog? Do I constantly attack RFM in thread after thread, post after post. Go through this whole board and point out to me where I have started ONE thread against RFM. Go through this board and point out to me where I have started ONE thread about Steve Benson or Tal Bachmann.

But you're right, I'm not going to pursue it. I probably said that in the heat of the moment, and how I felt. I have not posted on any other thread except this one, since this started, and I have no intention of doing so (Scratch can have all the brawls he wants, and I will leave him to fester in his own vomit). I will leave you all to psychoanalyse Mormons, and IF I see more sensible threads I may reconsider. You have ceased posting on MAD? Are you going to keep your word? You said you would never again post on MAD quite a while ago, yet there you were in all of your Pundit glory, fully supported by me, and I predicted you would be given that status. Now you're sounding like a disgruntled crank. What irritates you so much about MAD, that they don't think like you? You are trying to trap me in my words when in fact YOU are just as much "speaking out of both sides of your mouth". If YOU reconsider a situation, it's okey dokey, but if I reconsider something, I'm "speaking out of both sides" of my mouth. Now I'm really beginning to question your intelligence and fairness. Maybe you need to go on a date with Noel too. Just "don't tell your boyfriend". Keep the attacks coming beastie, you are looking better and better everyday.

beastie wrote:In fact, I suspect you are correct, that the only thing you may be guilty of is spending too much time on boards such as this. The same statement is very likely also true for the "angry exmos" you detest.

You see yet how much alike you are?


Sure, again accept my challenge. Where is my blog? Where are my constant attacks on angry exmos? (Maybe on the old FAIR, admittedly.) Go to RFM. Every ten seconds you'll see an angry thread. Go to Nort's or Sam's blog. Where, on earth, is my angry blog, or forum?

Got any more incisive points to make, beastie? I'm sure you will. You are the "smart girl" of the forum. No one questions your intelligence. You have it ALL worked out, and there is no God, except Dawkins, and your "adorable" Michael Shermer. All you need to do now is write up some Articles of Faith.

I expect more from you, and not on the Celestial level.

Go ahead, beastie, make my day.
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Jersey Girl wrote:And why do you think Benson has been on there all these years, absences not withstanding?

Jersey Girl


Because he's obsessed with proving Mormonism to be a gigantic fraud. Do you think Benson and others go on RFM for "recovery"? No, Jersey Girl, they go on RFM to spout their rabid anti-Mormon views. They are not interested in "recovery", they are interested in making Mormons look like fascist dictators and vermin that need to be ridden from the planet. The problem is that most of the posters don't see Steve for who he really is - (no, I won't say what I want to say, because I think he will try to take legal action.)
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Ray,

Most of your post is juvenile silliness. I will respond to one part:

You know very well why I went back to FAIR, after declaring I would not. Due to genuine interest in a book Juliann had referred to so often, I finally obtained the text and read it. I concluded she was engaged in serious distortion of a text in order to create just one more variation of the old saw: there is something wrong with people who lose faith in the church. (yes, she, like you, alter that to "people who leave the church and then speak out against it") Many people on FAIR were following her lead and cloaking this same old prejudice in new academic language.

I did not want to return to FAIR to discuss this with Juliann. I wanted to go to Z, which, at least at one time, had strictly neutral moderation. She refused and distorted what I was saying on Z as well. This is the sole reason I went back to FAIR.

I did try to stay a while to deal with Book of Mormon issues, but the same problems that made me decide to leave the first time persisted.

"Go on a date with Noel" "Don't tell my boyfriend". This is the silliest bunch of junior high school crap. You should be embarassed.

You're just angry that, despite the fact that, in the past, we often agreed and got along, I have now disagreed with you. I'm going to repeat something you have told many other people in the past: I'm not your monkey. I'm going to say what I genuinely think is right, even if it means opposing someone I often agreed with in the past.
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beastie wrote:You're just angry that, despite the fact that, in the past, we often agreed and got along, I have now disagreed with you. I'm going to repeat something you have told many other people in the past: I'm not your monkey. I'm going to say what I genuinely think is right, even if it means opposing someone I often agreed with in the past.


Beastie, I'm not angry about disagreements with you. I think at some stage I've disagreed with all of the people I post with, and perhaps most who post do also disagree at some point with posters they have at other times agreed with. That's the nature of forums. Of course you should say what you feel is right, and if you want to "call me" on something, then naturally I will have replies too. You started this thread, and I've participated to answer your questions, and others' questions.

I'll go through this thread to see which questions I haven't answered, then after I answer them I don't plan to stick around here much, it's not my cup of tea. I will not go on boards like Jean Borde in Trinidad either, because that's clearly too TBM for my liking. Just like you don't like MAD, I don't like strong contra-Mormon boards. I will keep an eye on the Celestial Forum for informative threads like the Dan Vogel one, but other than that I doubt you'll be hearing much more from me, and I already scaled down my participation in comparison to when the new MDB started. But I'm not going to avoid your unanswered questions on this thread. As time affords, I will get to them. Let me know if you have any specific preference of which unanswered questions you want answered.
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I'd really like you to read and consider the statements in the article I linked earlier about how the internet, in general, tends to encourage bad behavior. I think this is an important bit of context you are ignoring in your reaction to the bad behavior of exmormons. This isn't a phenomenon limited to exmormons. It's all over the internet. Does it bode future waves of violence all over?

If you think religious boards get nasty, you should visit some political boards. I briefly participated on one during the first contested Bush election, and could only stand it a week or two. People were incredibly rude, aggressive, and quick to personally attack the "other" side. But I never imagined that this was some sort of omen that republicans were going to start engaging in acts of violence against democrats, or vice versa. I realized that it was a volatile subject and people had strong feelings that were easier to express with greater negativity on the internet than in real life. I think it could help you to keep these things in perspective by remembering the same is always going to be true in discussions of religion between current and exbelievers. It's a volatile topic, people have strong feelings, and it's easier to be nasty on the internet. This is not an excuse, it is background information that one should consider in evaluating these conversations.
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Ray A wrote:
Jersey Girl wrote:And why do you think Benson has been on there all these years, absences not withstanding?

Jersey Girl


Because he's obsessed with proving Mormonism to be a gigantic fraud. Do you think Benson and others go on RFM for "recovery"? No, Jersey Girl, they go on RFM to spout their rabid anti-Mormon views. They are not interested in "recovery", they are interested in making Mormons look like fascist dictators and vermin that need to be ridden from the planet. The problem is that most of the posters don't see Steve for who he really is - (no, I won't say what I want to say, because I think he will try to take legal action.)


I have no real idea why Steve stays on RFM. Is it a requirement of posting on RFM that one be in recovery from Mormonism? I sure hope not, I've posted there intermittently myself. Sometimes I respond to a call for help/information under specific circumstances, sometimes I want to offer a comment on a topic (2cents), I've defended a certain LDS apologist more than once, did a little experiment based on a statement made by Juliann once, and interacted with Steve Benson. Didn't care for how he handled himself.

Anyway...I don't see where it is a requirement that posters on RFM be in a state of recovery from the Mormon church, any more than apologetics is a requirement of the MAD board. If that were so, there wouldn't be so many digs at EV's on MAD.

I suspect that Steve Benson feels he has some sort of celebrity status there, not unlike DCP enjoys on MAD.

Years ago, I suffered depression. These days when I see someone who exhibits signs of depression online, I try to chime in to see if they need someone to talk to, need encouragement to get to a therapist or just to try to help them think through what's going on because I know how hard it is to think and process when you're depressed. Should I refrain from posting on threads that deal with depression because I recovered?

Maybe there are posters on RFM who go back to act as support to those who are going through the grief process I mentioned in a previous thread. You simply cannot lump all the posters from one community into a pile and characterize the whole pile as if it weren't made up of individual persons with various needs and reasons of their own.

Jersey Girl
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beastie wrote:I'd really like you to read and consider the statements in the article I linked earlier about how the internet, in general, tends to encourage bad behavior. I think this is an important bit of context you are ignoring in your reaction to the bad behavior of exmormons. This isn't a phenomenon limited to exmormons. It's all over the internet. Does it bode future waves of violence all over?

If you think religious boards get nasty, you should visit some political boards. I briefly participated on one during the first contested Bush election, and could only stand it a week or two. People were incredibly rude, aggressive, and quick to personally attack the "other" side. But I never imagined that this was some sort of omen that republicans were going to start engaging in acts of violence against democrats, or vice versa. I realized that it was a volatile subject and people had strong feelings that were easier to express with greater negativity on the internet than in real life. I think it could help you to keep these things in perspective by remembering the same is always going to be true in discussions of religion between current and exbelievers. It's a volatile topic, people have strong feelings, and it's easier to be nasty on the internet. This is not an excuse, it is background information that one should consider in evaluating these conversations.


My perceptions of this are perhaps marred by what I've experienced in recent months. As I mentioned, after I started working as a cab driver my eyes opened to what's really going on in society. I see violence nearly every night. These are ordinary people who hold white collar jobs, labouring jobs, university students, and during the daytime you'd trust them with your children, they come across so nice. Over the past 30 years I've watched society go downhill. What was once a relatively peaceful city is now infested with crime, drugs and drunkenness. Youth have few scruples about anything anymore. I know and talk to people who will now not go out at night.

Now laugh all you wish, but I am genuinely fearful at what I see. This is not just an "Internet phenomenon". People are scared! This is not just verbal expression, this is physical expression. I find it difficult to find a man or woman I talk to in my job who will disagree with my assessments that society is in peril, and we are losing something. But many are not seeing this. When I was locked away in my previous cushy job and not exposed to this I was, frankly, naïve. The thing is, we are accepting it more and more, and becoming hardened to it. When I was a teenager girls hardly ever swore (I'm showing my age), yet I watched two teenage girls, no more than 15-16, bash an itinerant until his face was a mass of blood. This would have been unthinkable in the early 1970s. Think of the James Bulger killing by boys not even teenagers.
To say that people are merely "expressing themselves" on the Internet does not satisfy me. We cannot, in any case, judge whether it is the Internet, because the Internet wasn't around in the 1970s. I have observed too, the vicious anti-Mormon expressions on the Internet, and I believe, rightly or wrongly, this has become worse in just the seven years I've been on the Net.

My question was: How far will this go? From Wiki:

Today, the term is primarily used as a descriptor for persons and publications that oppose The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, although its precise scope has been the subject of some debate. It is used by some to describe anything perceived as critical of the LDS Church,[5] whereas others reserve it for critical persons or publications who enlist dishonest or inflammatory rhetoric.[6] Siding with the latter, less-inclusive understanding of the term, Latter-day Saint scholar William O. Nelson suggests in the Encyclopedia of Mormonism that the term includes "any hostile or polemic opposition to Mormonism or to the Latter-day Saints, such as maligning the founding prophet, his successors, or the doctrines or practices of the Church. Though sometimes well intended, anti-Mormon publications have often taken the form of invective, falsehood, demeaning caricature, prejudice, and legal harassment, leading to both verbal and physical assault."[7]


From an apologist I fear to name because his name is already mud to ex-Mormons (Louis Midgley):

How extensive is anti-Mormon literature? Tolbert has shown that in 1987 thirty-six different periodicals (that is, newsletters, magazines, journals, tabloids, and so forth) were published by countercult ministries. Fifteen of these were focused primarily on Latter-day Saints. He also found that for one year—1987—

Mormonism, with 333 articles, is by far the most analyzed religion in this literature, more than tripling Jehovah's Witness studies (90 articles). Jehovah's Witness and New Age/Occult studies (57) form a second tier of literature after which there is another significant drop to "cults." Following cults, in general, (25) and the RLDS (16) the decline is slow but steady.17


http://farms.BYU.edu/display.php?table=review&id=282

Just quoting Midgley here gives me the shivers because I know how most feel about any "Mopologist", which itself is a term of derision and scorn. But too bad, more from Midgley:

Anti-Mormons sometimes insist that they "are not 'attacking' good Mormon people,"147 thus following Hugh Nibley's Rule 5 of "How to Write an Anti-Mormon Book: those embarking on a career in anti-Mormonism ought to "proclaim [their] love for the Mormon people" before insisting that no mercy should be shown such an anti-Christian faith.148 Hence anti-Mormons insist that "the Mormon 'gospel'" is "black and corrupt,"149 and that Latter-day Saint "claims are spurious and empty,"150 "a gigantic hoax,"151 a "gigantic fraud,"152 a "deliberate attempt to deceive,"153 and so forth. It is thus easy for demagogues like Walter Martin to slip from moaning about "The Maze of Mormonism" into murmuring about the "menace of Mormonism" or the "Mormon menace."154 Hence evangelicals must be "awake to the dangers before [them]: the cultist wolf is at the door of the sheepfold."155 All must "realize the danger"156 presented by the "alarming spread and popularity of the Mormon religion."157 Why?

The reason, again according to Walter Martin, is that "Mormonism constitutes an immense threat to the Church of Jesus Christ of our era."158 "Of all the major cults . . . in . . . America," according to Martin, "none is more subtle or dangerous to the unwary soul than the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints."159 Hence, according to Martin, steps must be taken, which include "constant surveillance" of those "Mormons."160 And an "up-to-date and factual literature" attacking the Church of Jesus Christ must be provided,161 with Walter Martin, of course, busy selling this literature. Such a literature presumably would constitute a part of the "strong countermeasures" that are needed against the "threat of Mormonism."162


Then the secular anti-Mormons jump in:

With the growth of the internet, webblogs have arisen targeting Mormonism. There are some Evangelical Christian blogs, but most seem to be secular in nature, though often no less sensationalistic than the anti-cult sites. These sites generally do not deal with broader issues like the historicity of the Book of Mormon, but deal rather in personal attacks and bitter accusations. Many contributors cite that they felt lied to or offended by another member of the Church or that they consider Mormons to be foolish and superstitious. Conspicuous amongst their complaints are what they deride as group-think. Secular critics often accuse the Church of forcing conformity or discouraging freedom of thought and expression. All too frequently, these attacks become personal diatribes launched at leaders and defenders of the Mormon Church.


http://www.mormonwiki.com/Mormonism/Anti-Mormon

I do not think it at all unfair to say that Mormonism is one of the most attacked religions in America, and possibly the most attacked. Where is this all heading? Your guess may be good as mine, but I believe this is an unhealthy obsession.

From a report today, referring to the Cronulla riots in Sydney:

Jones show 'incited violence'


RADIO broadcaster Alan Jones broadcast material likely to encourage violence and vilify people of Middle Eastern descent in the lead-up to a Sydney race riot, the broadcasting regulator has found.

The Australian Communications and Media Authority (ACMA) has found Harbour Broadcasting Pty Ltd - the licensee of commercial Sydney radio station 2GB - twice breached Australia's broadcasting code in the lead-up to the December 2005 Cronulla riot.

2GB's Breakfast with Alan Jones program came under ACMA scrutiny following complaints from listeners about material aired between December 5 and 9, 2005.

The regulator found the Commercial Radio Code of Practice 2004 was breached by comments aired on Jones's top-rating breakfast program between December 7 and 9, 2005.

Those comments contravened the code by being "likely to encourage violence or brutality" and "likely to vilify people of Lebanese background and of Middle Eastern background on the basis of their ethnicity".

ACMA's report focused on Jones's broadcasting of correspondence from listeners about tensions at Cronulla in the days before the December 11 riot.

It said while the comments were "presented for a purpose in the public interest, being discussion of factors contributing to unrest in Cronulla ... ACMA was not persuaded that the relevant comments were presented reasonably and in good faith".


Are you trying to tell me that words have no bearing on actual violence? Which planet are you living on?

In fact, I wll go as far as to say that all decent Mormons should abandon this board. The biased anti-Mormon filth here is disgusting. Thread after thread, post after post, only seeks to satirise, demonise, and bring down Mormonism. It is, indeed, a cesspool. And I don't blame Mormons for not posting here. I hope that all Mormons will eventually take leave of this board, and leave you all to whine and cackle amongst yourselves, and indulge in your biases unfettered.

So you can now go into "angry mode", beastie. Tell me how wrong I am. But remember one thing - You once had a witness of the Book of Mormon. You have rationalised that as "brain processes". If you are right, then I'm a fool. If you are wrong, then you may be making the biggest mistake of your life by your obsessive opposition to Mormonism. You will reap as you are sowing.
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No, Ray, I'm not going to engage any more. I see you have not altered your basic premise. That's what I wanted to know. My former responses to your hyperbole stands, and you still have not provided additional evidence to support your hyperbole.

You asked, at one point, why I object so strongly to religions that teach some form of "one truisms". It is because of the danger inherent in teaching that God can communicate with 100% clarity to human beings. Go read the blood atonement thread if you are interested in why I object so strenuously to that, why I believe that THIS tendency is the true danger of religion.

I live my life according to what I believe. While I had a very strong experience regarding the Book of Mormon, so have had many other individuals in various other religious settings. I do not have the hubris required to declare that my experience was somehow "more" than any of theirs, and hence, my experience reveals some "truth" - with 100% clarity - that theirs did not. Human beings, across all religious genres, have these sort of experiences. It does not make me special, nor does it make me able to know some "truth" escaping others. I am a decent, moral human being. Any God who is going to be punitive towards me because I honestly believe the "wrong" thing can eff off. Sure, he can burn me for eternity or forcibly divorce me from my family, but that doesn't make him moral, it makes him a bully. I should abdicate my reason, sense, logic, and moral decency to do what a bully says, just in case that bully really exists??

Life is far too precious for that.
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Ray A wrote:
From an apologist I fear to name because his name is already mud to ex-Mormons (Louis Midgley):

How extensive is anti-Mormon literature? Tolbert has shown that in 1987 thirty-six different periodicals (that is, newsletters, magazines, journals, tabloids, and so forth) were published by countercult ministries. Fifteen of these were focused primarily on Latter-day Saints. He also found that for one year—1987—

Mormonism, with 333 articles, is by far the most analyzed religion in this literature, more than tripling Jehovah's Witness studies (90 articles). Jehovah's Witness and New Age/Occult studies (57) form a second tier of literature after which there is another significant drop to "cults." Following cults, in general, (25) and the RLDS (16) the decline is slow but steady.17


Ray A,

Doesn't it say something about Mormonism (and it's doctrine, history, culture, etc) that all those articles are being written about it? If all these people are seeing something worth analyzing and criticizing doesn't it suggest their might be something (or a lot of things) wrong with Mormonism?

And what exactly is anti-mormon literature? Is there an exact definition or is it anything that upsets (any) Mormons?

In fact, I wll go as far as to say that all decent Mormons should abandon this board. The biased anti-Mormon filth here is disgusting. Thread after thread, post after post, only seeks to satirise, demonise, and bring down Mormonism. It is, indeed, a cesspool. And I don't blame Mormons for not posting here. I hope that all Mormons will eventually take leave of this board, and leave you all to whine and cackle amongst yourselves, and indulge in your biases unfettered.


What's a "decent Mormon"?
"Whatever appears to be against the Book of Mormon is going to be overturned at some time in the future. So we can be pretty open minded."-charity 3/7/07
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Bond...James Bond wrote:
Doesn't it say something about Mormonism (and it's doctrine, history, culture, etc) that all those articles are being written about it? If all these people are seeing something worth analyzing and criticizing doesn't it suggest their might be something (or a lot of things) wrong with Mormonism?

And what exactly is anti-mormon literature? Is there an exact definition or is it anything that upsets (any) Mormons?


Or perhaps, something wrong with their distorted perceptions of Mormonism? The definitions of anti-Mormon literature were clearly given in the quotes I gave.


Bond...James Bond wrote:What's a "decent Mormon"?


One who does not encourage or support a board whose aim is to belittle Mormonism or its leaders and portray them in the worst possible light - at every opportunity. Is there anything positive about Mormonism here? I see one or two possible neutral threads in the Terrestrial Forum. This is the truth, Bond, even if most posters here tried to be fair or neutral, it is beyond their capability.
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