liz3564 wrote: I love your wife! She is 1000% correct, by the way, in calling you a dumbass. How long have you been married?
Haven't you figured this out by now? Bottom line....The wife is ALWAYS right. We're always right. It's really that simple.
If she feels the need to ask you those questions to "up her emotional currency" with you, then obviously YOU have failed, because you have not given her the emotional currency she needs.
See how that works?
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Love ya, Schmo!
We just passed our 12th wedding anniversary last March, but we've been living together going on 16 years now.
Yes, my wife certainly thinks she's always right, and I basically let her most of the time. She treats me way too well for me to f%$&* things up by pointing out the small stuff. When it's serious though, I can always persuade her to my way of thinking.
The emotional currency I was talking about is where she asks me one of those loaded questions, and if I answer incorrectly, she can hold it over me. She's a smart lady. That's why I purposely answer incorrectly to diffuse the currency. When my wife really needs it, however, I know and do the right thing... don't worry.
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God belief is for people who don't want to live life on the universe's terms.