harmony wrote:The Nehor wrote:harmony wrote:Because a man can't stock two shelves. He can't promise fidelity to one, if he has more than one. He can't concentrate and love one, if he has more than one. Romantic love can't survive if it's divided.
I've seen it work.
If you didn't live it, you haven't seen it work. You may have observed it from the outside, but not from the inside, and certainly not from the women's point of view.
I have two really good female friends in a poly relationship. Both are happy and I'm pretty sure I'm close enough that I'd notice if they really resented it.