the road to hana wrote:charity wrote:
Will was talking about those who are only ex-mo's in their hearts. On the outside, they are still active members. Attending Church , etc. That is the group I was referring to, of course. Don't be so paranoid.
There's no such animal. It's like being a little bit pregnant. People are either exmos, or they aren't. If they're still participating on some level, they're not exmos.
Just like people who haven't been baptized aren't really "Mormons," if they're just Mormons in their heart. They have to be baptized and on church rolls to actually be LDS.
The people Will is talking about are struggling members, which probably accounts for a greater percentage of the membership than you realize.
I do like to be precise. A person who has not been baptized is not LDS, but there is a term called "instant Mormon." Just add water. They have done everything but make the final committment. And conversely, thee are people who have left the Church, they no longer believe in the doctrine, they just haven't made the final committment to have their names removed.
I am sure there are people who are struggling with issues. But as long as they are struggling and are headed toward the direction of the Church and not away from it, I hope they stay with the Church. Anyone who is asking questions can still be helped to understand.
I can't speak for Will, but in my own opinion, the person who is no longer asking questions, but who thinks he/she knows it all and believes that all information points away from the Church has become an ex-mo in his/her heart. Then when they teach their "enlightenment" while still a member, they are sheep in wolves clothing and their status should be known. Not as members, but as apostates.