Really, this is all wrong.So, here is Webster’s definition:
· Main Entry: cognitive dissonance
· Function: noun
· Date: 1957
: psychological conflict resulting from incongruous beliefs and attitudes held simultaneously
This definition is too simplistic and vague, so some elaboration is necessary. Let’s use a brief example from history you may be familiar with. Say you were taught that the earth was the center of the universe your entire life. Not only are you taught it as a fact, but it is critical to your spiritual well being too. Your dogma, which you know to be true, says that the earth is indeed the center of the universe. Then some evil man goes and invents something which he calls a “telescope” and uses these complex black arts known as “mathematics” and “proves” to you that this is not the case, but that not only does the earth revolve around the sun, but that it is only a tiny spec in an infinitely vast universe. What do you do now? You are in a state of cognitive dissonance. They cannot both be true. There is discord between both cognitions. One being that the earth is the center of the universe, and the other being that it is not. It must be resolved in order for the dissonance to be relieved. So, what actions are available to take? Well, one is denial. After all, you do know the truth don’t you? You know that your dogma is true because it is vital to so many other aspects of your life. So, deny, ignore, and hey, why not, throw that evil man who espoused such heresy against the truth in prison so he cannot deceive others. He needs to be punished for challenging such a vital and critical truth. The other option is a paradigm shift. Look closely with an open mind, suspending disbelief enough to reason it out, and check out the evidence. If the evidence overwhelmingly shows that your dogma is wrong, then reject your dogma and accept the new paradigm as a higher truth. This is so discomforting for some that they cannot do this, no matter what the price for abandoning reason when approaching the subject.
Bob McCue misuses the term "cognitive dissonance" just like everyone else.
To go back to the definition which you dismissed as too simplistic:
psychological conflict resulting from incongruous beliefs and attitudes held simultaneously
Cognitive Dissonance is a state of mind in which conflict exists. Most people who encounter cognitive dissonance do so for very, very short periods of time. What you are talking about is how people resolve their cognitive dissonance, and most people resolve it nearly instantly.
For example, to use an even simpler example, suppose that I am playing with a red ball. And you come and tell me how neat my green ball is. I now have two cognitions that stem from opposing realities.
1: I know that the ball is red. That I know this is a cognition.
2: I know that you have made the claim that the ball is green. That I know this is a cognition.
Now, these two cognitions (the things which I know) stem from opposing facts - the ball cannot be both green and red at the same time.
Now, I am going to resolve this (nearly instantly) in one of many ways. Each way of resolving this will depend on a whole slew of other cognitions. Suppose, for example, that I am red-green colorblind - and I know that I am colorblind. So now I have a third cognition:
3: I know that I am red-green colorblind.
When I weight the first two cognitions in light of the third one, I may realize that what I thought was a red ball is perhaps not really red. So I may change my belief. In this case, cognitive dissonance may have existed, but it is resolved by a new cognition:
4: The ball I thought was red is really green, and I mistook the color of the ball because of my colorblindness.
Going back to the remarks from the OP:
This speaks to the weight given to a cognition. Cognitive Dissonance remains a factor when you cannot easily resolve which is right between two competing cognitions. If you can resolve it easily - either because one is weighted much more than other, or because you have additional cognitions which lend weight to one of the competing cognitions, then cognitive dissonance vanishes. Cognitions are things that we know (or believe) not things as they really are.Say you were taught that the earth was the center of the universe your entire life. Not only are you taught it as a fact, but it is critical to your spiritual well being too. Your dogma, which you know to be true, says that the earth is indeed the center of the universe.
We can of course deny something - that is, we can develop a third cognition which discounts one of the first two. So:
5: I believe you are lying when you tell me the ball is green.
There may be many reasons why we might develop this new cognition. Perhaps we have had experience with you lying in the past (this would've course be another cognition that we use to give weight to the new cognition we have developed). Perhaps we have a certificate of sale in which the color of the ball we purchased is stated - and we believe this (another cognition). Perhaps we have some reason to believe that you are colorbind (i.e. you are wearing a green sock and a red sock). Whatever the case, if we can develop a cognition with sufficient weight, there is no cognitive dissonance - even if we are in denial of something that is factually accurate.
Other than that, there isn't much to discuss here. You are simply laying out your reasons for disbelief. It may be quite rational to you. On the other hand, I am a believer. And it is quite rational for me. I am well educated, well read, certainly as knowledgeable about the LDS faith as most of the participants here and elsewhere on the internet. And yet, I have not gone to the same place that you have, nor do I suffer from cognitive dissonance.
Now, of course, you will find reasons to explain how I cannot be right - that is part of the process of avoiding cognitive dissonance with this new cognition I have given you.
Ben McGuire