BartBurk wrote:As a former member who was given the resign or be ex'd ultimatum I kind of know where all of these people are coming from. Someday instead of these kinds of ultimatums the church will truly learn to have Christlike patience with people with doubts, questions and criticisms -- they may find that a little more tolerance might go a long way to keeping some people in the fold and having others find their way back. I know a lot of Catholics who became disenchanted with or were critical of Catholicism, eventually found their way back, and were welcomed home with a simple anonymous confession to a priest.
In the case of the LDS church, I don't think a more Christlike patience will help.
The Mormon leaders have an insurmountable problem. History. There will always be a few TBMs that will believe their religion despite logic or reality, but the more educated people in the world become, the less they will be able to believe in Joseph Smith's revelations.
The unique problem the LDS church has is that it claims to be the one true church as per a declaration from God. It's whole foundation rests on a narrative that proclaims a pre-Columbian, Jewish civilization in the Americas (where ever you might think it was located). Regardless of anything else that might make it a consideration, it lives or dies by the truth of it's histories.
There are tens of thousands of researched and excavated American Indian sites in the Southwest alone. A similar number in Central America. No artifact or inscription has ever given any evidence of the Book of Mormon histories. Every few months a new city or temple complex is found in Central America. Each one is another nail in the Book of Mormon coffin.
Apologists scramble for excuses "absence of evidence is not evidence of absence". They try very hard to give believers some hope in their beliefs. It works for those looking for an excuse to believe, but fails with everyone who is trying to look objectively or has an affinity for truth.
If the Book of Mormon had said that the Nephites used electric toasters, apologists would say that we just haven't found them yet, or that a hot rock near a campfire is what God really meant to say.
Some doubting Catholics do return to the Catholic Church (not very many). No one who has grown beyond believing in Santa Claus will ever go back.